Saturday Morning Message: Small Treasures Part 2
Author: Carol Lane
The archives of the Saturday Morning Message are very interesting. In response to the question about sharing special items, Kelsey, mother of Michael sent a picture of this alligator. You will read below how this item comforts her. I want to thank those who make this message special throughout the year by reading and sometimes replying to the question of the week. Thank all of you and enjoy this week’s message.
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Mother of Bryon
Answers from Survivors
Responses from Survivors to last week's question: Would you share a special item of your loved one that will help us get to know that person better?
From Kelsey, mother of Michael: I saved a stuffed alligator that belonged to my son, Michael, USMC. It has a double special meaning. My mother, who has Alzheimer's disease, made it for him when he was very young. I sleep with it every night, hugging it close to fall asleep.
From Samira, mother of Andres: I love this question. My son, Andres, loved Legos. The last time he came home, in December 2014, he saw that his airplane, a C-130J, in a Lego set at Legoland Park. I bought it and he built it. I miss those days. It is in the same place he placed it and will be there until I am gone. I have all his belongings since Andres was a child. All his belongings are priceless. I wish I could share ALL... Thanks again for this opportunity.
From Ginny, wife of John: My husband’s wedding ring is priceless to me. He was air crew in the Air Force and wasn’t allowed to wear jewelry for safety reasons. He fastened his ring on a 550 cord in his pocket and never left home without it. He often bragged that there wasn’t a mission where he didn’t have his ring, his wedding ring. I now keep it on a chain close to my heart. I can touch it and hold it when I’m anxious or need to feel a piece of my husband close to me.
From James, father of Andrew: Andy usually made a fashion statement. He could make anything look good, and look good together – stripes and checks, purple and orange. He was known in his Karate classes for his “Real Men Wear Pink” T-shirts. It’s hard to go through and get rid of your loved one’s things. And what do you do with clothes, with many of his being oh-so-stylish. Our son and daughter-in-law snuck out some of Andy’s shirts and had a bear made out of them for us last Christmas—striped and solid purple, orange, black and white checks. For us, they go together just fine. He’s quite stylish – with his bowtie, of course! And the bear’s smile – cute, but a little bit off – maybe kind of like a smirk and a grin combined. Really quite simple, but, of course, everyone notices him! Very much like Andy – and like him, priceless to us.
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Question for Next Week’s Saturday Morning Message
The new year is a time to reflect on what has happened the previous year and plan for the future. It can be helpful to share these thoughts with others, so this week’s question is: What is your resolution for the New Year? We look forward to reading your thoughts.
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♫ Song for the Week
This week’s song is from Leslie, mother of Eugene. Leslie wrote, "My Immortal" sung by Evanescence is about a spirit that stays with you to the point of wishing they might leave. First, I like the sound from the group and that it’s a ballad that gets what it’s like to want a spirit staying with you forever. I also believe the lyricist understood that time doesn’t heal.... You adjust. As I listened, I thought of my son who I miss dearly.”
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