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December 9, 2020

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Five Years into the After: A Letter to Owen

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Retreats: New York

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March 11 2025

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Retreat: North Carolina

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Online Financial Counseling

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Saturday Morning Message: Positive Lessons Learned

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March 10, 2021

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College Scholarship for Surviving High School Seniors in Michigan

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A Recipe for Holiday Wellness

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March 20, 2018

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November 15, 2018

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July 29, 2019

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AIS Gives Holiday Support to TAPS Families

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October 20, 2021

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Research Analyst Intern

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Fundraiser: Land of the Free

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Working Together in Treating Suicide Loss Trauma

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March 29, 2022 - Senate

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"Land of the Free" book signing event to raise funds for veterans and Gold Star Family organizations

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Flashback Fridays: Cherished Memories from a Child Revisited

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Team TAPS Resources Teams Fundraising Guide Main Content Area Team TAPS Articles Team TAPS Resources Fundraising Guide, Fundraising Resources Wondering how you or your group can make a difference by donating to TAPS? Check out our fundraising guides for more information.

TAPS Togethers: Great Smoky National Park Fishing Day

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Community Resource Reporting Intern

Community Resource Reporting Intern | TAPS Community Resource Reporting Intern Posting Date: October 30, 2023 Location: TAPS National Headquarters, Arlington, Virginia Position: Internship (unpaid)   DESCRIPTION Reporting to Survivor Services, and working alongside the Impact Assessment team, the Community Resource Intern will collect and organize information on local grief support groups for our surviving families. New survivors to TAPS will be provided a customized Community Resource Re

NFL and Minnesota Vikings Select TAPS Family to Announce First-Round Draft Pick for the Minnesota Vikings

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Finding My Faith

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Saturday Morning Message: Memorial Day Events

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March 8 2023

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Fundraiser: Land of the Free

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Fundraiser: Land of the Free

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Fundraiser: Land of the Free

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March 8, 2022

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Expeditions: Grand Canyon

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TAPS' Ashlynne Haycock-Lohmann Honored for Her Commitment to Surviving Military Families

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Commanders Coach Dan Quinn to Receive 2025 TAPS Senator Ted Stevens Leadership Award

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TAPS Names Army Veteran Staff Sergeant Jay Hufford as 2025 Military Mentor of the Year

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Letters from TAPS: From the Peer Mentor Team

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Donate your Vehicle for TAPS

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Frequently Asked Questions

Frequently Asked Questions | TAPS Youth Summer Program Main FAQ Content Frequently Asked Questions online summer program for kids, military child, grief Connect with other TAPS kids and mentors during the free virtual TAPS Good Grief and Family Camp at Home starting July 6 through August 28, 2020.

Week 1: Welcome to Camp, Celebrate Freedom

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Week 2: Campout

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Week 3: Let the Games Begin!

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Week 4: Lights, Camera, Action

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Week 5: Amazing Race

Week 5: Amazing Race | TAPS Youth Summer Program Week 5 Week 5: Amazing Race online summer program for kids, military child, grief Connect with other TAPS kids and mentors during Week 5 the free virtual TAPS Good Grief and Family Camp at Home August 3 to 7, 2020.

Week 6: I Spy

Week 6: I Spy | TAPS Youth Summer Program Week 6 Week 6: I Spy online summer program for kids, military child, grief Connect with other TAPS kids and mentors during Week 6 of the free virtual TAPS Good Grief and Family Camp at Home August 10 to 14, 2020.

Week 7: My Story, The Legacy

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Week 8: Dance Dance Revolution

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Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) Suicide Team Experts Available for Commentary on Mental Health Issues Addressed in "A Star Is Born"

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Fundraiser: Land of the Free

Land of the Free Golf Classic 2018 Land of the Free Golf Classic 2018 | TAPS Industry Hills Golf Club at Pacific Palms The Land of the Free Foundation is pleased to be partnered with the Pacific Palms and Conference Center in the City of Industry, California and the Industry Hills Golf Club to play host to the annual “Land of the Free Veterans Day Golf Classic”.  The Land of the Free Foundation Veterans Day Golf Classic is the main fundraising event for the Land of the Free Foundation.

TAPS, SSAFA Team Up to Bring Hope and Healing to UK, US Military Families

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TAPS and Parsons Team Up for the 14th Annual TAPS Golf Outing

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TAPS Joins Forces with West Point Runners to Honor Families of America's Fallen Heroes

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TAPS Hosts 19th Annual Colorado Celebrity Classic Honoring Businessman and Philanthropist Pete Coors

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Comfort Zones

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Breaking Barriers and Building Strength: My Journey to the Ice Track

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TAPS Gives Military and Veteran Survivors a Voice on Capitol Hill During Advocacy Week

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United States Army Staff Sergeant Tanner Hagerty to Receive the 2026 TAPS Military Mentor Award

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National Suicide Prevention Month: TAPS Support and Resources

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January 30 2024

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TAPS Family American Flag Book

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Run and Remember: Finding Our Stride

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Saturday Morning Message: Dreams Part 2

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988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline Offers Hope, Connection and Support to Help Save Lives

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The Run and Remember Team

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Retreats: Hawaii

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TAPS Joins Letter to Candidates on Honoring Families of the Fallen

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Retreats: Sedona

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Retreats: Sedona Fall

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Retreats: Washington State Suicide Loss

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Media Advisory: Suicide Prevention Experts Available for Interview

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TAPS Honors Fallen Heroes at 42nd Annual Marine Corps Marathon

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Bonnie Carroll Recognized by Birdland Community Hero Program

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Phase Out of the SBP-DIC Offset

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December 8, 2020

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Birdies Fore Warriors Player Registration

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TAPS Partners with the Cohen Veterans Network to Provide Specialized Mental Health Support to Save Lives

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Retreats: Arizona

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Services

TAPS Services Standing with You At TAPS, we are here to support you along every step of your grief journey.   As part of the TAPS Family, we offer you the absolute best in survivor support, advocacy and casework assistance. Whether it's one of the members of our Helpline team talking with you on a sleepless night, a member of our Casework Team helping you sort through the stressful decisions to be made and paperwork following the death of a loved one, or whether it's walking down the corridor

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Resources

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April 26 2023

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April 10 2024

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April 6 2022

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March 2, 2022

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Saturday Morning Message: Practicing Self Care

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Video: The Toxic Exposure in the American Military (TEAM) Act

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Saturday Morning Message: Summer Memories

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Keeping up with Your Benefits

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March 29, 2022 - House

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Boeing Partners with TAPS to Provide Critical Support to Military Families Coping with Grief and Loss

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May 5, 2021

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Saturday Morning Message: Celebrating Our Great Country

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Retreats: Blue Ridge

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Webinar: Grief to Growth

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International: Global Summit

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Retreats: Sedona Fall

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Retreats: Sedona

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Retreats: Sedona

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Retreats: Sedona Fall

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Retreats: Sedona Spring

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Retreats: Savannah Spring

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Retreats: Savannah Winter

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Retreats: Washington State Fall

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Expedition: Washington

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September 21, 2021

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Social Media Toolkit

Legacies Live On - Honoring 30 years Social Media Toolkit | TAPS 30 Years Social Media Images Social Media Videos to Share TAPS Impact Social Media Toolkit - Honoring 30 Years Join us as we honor 30 years of TAPS, reflecting on the hundreds of thousands of military and veteran survivors we have supported and the thousands of fallen heroes we have honored together as a community of survivors.  We encourage you to share our message through your digital media platforms. Each share provid

Programs and Services

Programs and Services | TAPS TAPS Programs and Services National Military Survivor Helpline 800-959-TAPS (8277) Peer-Based Support Survivors Helping Survivors Heal  Casework Assistance We are here to help  Education Support Services Know your education benefits  Community-Based Support Support in your community  Survivor Care Team Receive personalized support  Suicide Loss Support Start the Path to Healing and Growth  Illness Loss Support Learn about benefits and resources  Me

Faces of TAPS Submission

: Survivor Submission Form Faces of TAPS Faces of TAPS Faces of TAPS is a new, digital content series where survivors who lost a military loved one, in their own words, both celebrate the lives of their heroes and reflect on their personal grief journey. These stories are shared in both video and writing across the TAPS social media platforms and on the TAPS blog. If considered, you will be asked to conduct a short, on-camera interview and share 10 to 20 photos of you and your loved one. The TA

Mentor Surviving Children

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Expedition: South Carolina

Carolina Swamp to Sea Kayaking Expedition TAPS Carolina Swamp to Sea Kayaking Expedition for Military Survivors All adult survivors 18 and older whose loss occurred more than one year ago are invited to join TAPS on the Carolina Swamp to Sea Kayaking Expedition as we find new purpose, gain radical perspective, and remember what it feels like to live with determination.  TAPS Expeditions are outdoor skills-based events that require dedication, preparation and a real sense of adventure. OVER

TAPS Named TIME101 in Partnership with Gillette

TAPS Named TIME101 in Partnership with Gillette | TAPS TAPS Named TIME101 in Partnership with Gillette FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE – May 13, 2024 ARLINGTON, Va. – Every year, TIME releases the TIME100 list of the world’s most influential people, from artists to innovators, titans, leaders, icons, and pioneers. The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) is proud to be named this year’s TIME101, in partnership with Gillette and TIME’s award-winning branded content division Red Border by TIME

Expedition: South Carolina

Coastal Carolina Kayaking Expedition TAPS Coastal Carolina Kayaking Expedition for Military Survivors   All adult survivors 18 and older are invited to join TAPS on the 2019 Coastal Carolina Kayaking Expedition as we find new purpose, gain radical perspective, and remember what it feels like to live with determination. TAPS Expeditions are outdoor skills-based events that require dedication, preparation and a real sense of adventure. Professional guides will lead us through some of the count

Create Your Own Finish Line

Create Your Own Finish Line Create Your Own Finish Line Carol Bazemore Local Race Events Commemorate the Fallen  Team TAPS has been leading runners along race courses from Washington, D.C., to Anchorage, Alaska, for 15 years, building charity partner relationships with established races to create awareness of the TAPS mission and honor our fallen heroes. In addition, Team TAPS is focused on helping survivors create their own endurance activities that honor their loved ones in their hometowns

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Mission of TAPS Impact Block with 2024 Impact Report The Mission of TAPS TAPS is the national nonprofit organization providing compassionate care and comprehensive resources to all those grieving a death in the military or veteran community.  Since 1994, TAPS has provided comfort and hope 24/7 through a national peer support network and connection to grief resources, all at no cost to surviving families and loved ones. TAPS provides a variety of programs to survivors nationally and worldwide.

Online Groups

TAPS Online Groups Online Community Contact Online Groups: Count on Connection   You may recognize these as “chats,” “sharing groups,” or “virtual care groups” - regardless, as soon as you log on to these recurring sessions, we’re certain you’ll recognize the feeling of connection, support, and community. Online groups are peer-led, facilitated sessions where there’s never pressure to share, but always an opportunity. Whether you attend once or regularly, you will always be welcom

Saturday Morning Message: Easing Anxiety and Stress

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Grief Counseling Near Me

Grief Counseling for Military Survivors Near Me | TAPS Grief Counseling Near Me   Individual Grief Counseling Individual grief counseling is important to many survivors in our grief journeys. The opportunity to sit one-on-one with a skilled therapist who understands grief and trauma can help you work through some of the hardest parts of your loss. Finding the right fit is important, and we can help. The right grief counselor can help you discover strengths, develop your own co

Become a Peer Mentor

Become a Peer Mentor Mentor Fellow Survivors TAPS Peer Mentors are survivors ready to be a companion in another's grief journey. Peer mentors often find that helping others is an effective way to continue their own healing. A TAPS Peer Mentor has the ability, time, and compassion to open his or her heart to a bereaved person.   Frequently Asked Questions  Am I ready to become a Peer Mentor? You may be ready to become a peer mentor if you are: an adult survivor at least 18 mont

Saturday Morning Message: Lifting Our Spirits

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TAPS Survivor Newsletter December 2023

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Saturday Morning Message: Life Changes

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Honoring an American Hero at America’s Ballpark

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Faces of TAPS Thank You

: Survivor Submission Form Faces of TAPS Faces of TAPS is a new, digital content series where survivors who lost a military loved one, in their own words, both celebrate the lives of their heroes and reflect on their personal grief journey. These stories are shared in both video and writing across the TAPS social media platforms and on the TAPS blog. If considered, you will be asked to conduct a short, on-camera interview and share 10 to 20 photos of you and your loved one. The TAPS Communicat

30-Mile Challenge for TAPS

30-Mile Challenge for TAPS 30-Mile Challenge for TAPS This June, take part in the TAPS 30-Mile Challenge — a powerful way to honor those who served and died, and support those grieving the death of a military or veteran loved one. We're kicking things off this May, and what better time to join than during Memorial Day season — a meaningful time to take action, reflect, and rally your community around a cause that matters. Walk, run, or move your way through 30 miles in June. Whether you'

Retreats: Washington State

Women's Empowerment: Washington State Summer Retreat Women's Empowerment: Washington State Summer Retreat for Military Survivors | TAPS Surviving women of any relationship who are 3 years out from their loss are invited to join the TAPS Empowerment Program at our Washington State Summer Retreat.     OVERVIEW If you're asking yourself what's next after the death of your loved one, and you're ready to take steps toward transforming your life, join us at the Women's Emp

Expedition: Joshua Tree

Joshua Tree Backpacking Expedition TAPS Joshua Tree Backpacking Expedition for Military Survivors All adult survivors 18 and older are invited to join TAPS for their first Expedition in Joshua Tree National Park on the 2019 Joshua Tree Backpacking Expedition as we find new purpose, gain radical perspective, and remember what it feels like to live with determination. TAPS Expeditions are outdoor skills-based events that require dedication, preparation and a real sense of adventure. Professiona

Spotlight on Service: John Rhoten

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The Honorable Celestial Discharge

The Honorable Celestial Discharge The Honorable Celestial Discharge Colleen Betlach New terminology to bring comfort and hope As the holiday season approaches and our thoughts turn to holiday music, miracles, lights, and angelic hosts, I am reminded of a Thanksgiving night that I experienced many years ago while working at a VA Medical Center (VAMC). It was then that I first heard of an Honorable Celestial Discharge. I began my work at a VAMC shortly after my own Honorable Medical Dischar

TAPS Young Adults Summit: A Weekend of Hope, Connections and Possibilities

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Losing Todd, A Mother's Journey

Losing Todd, A Mother's Journey Losing Todd, A Mother's Journey | TAPS Jeanne Weaver The Gift at the Water's Edge  Three days after our son First Lieutenant Todd Weaver was killed, I walked the beach near our home, not knowing whether I had the physical strength to keep my legs moving or whether I would collapse onto the sand. I walked, searching for peace in my heart and some degree of comfort or understanding. I thought, “Who can I turn to? Where do I turn?” That day, I reached the jett

Retreat: Florida

Florida Young Adults Retreat Florida Young Adults Retreat Text TAPSFLORIDA to 95577 to get text reminders about this event. You are warmly invited to join TAPS for a special retreat for all young adult survivors, ages 18 to 25, who have lost a loved one who served in the military. On this unique retreat for surviving adult children, siblings, spouses and significant others, ages 18-25, you'll find courage to move forward and discover strengths you didn't know you had. We'll build lasting fri

Adventures Give Us Strength in the Wilderness of Grief

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TAPS College Experience

TAPS College Experience for Military Teen Survivors and their Parents TAPS College Experience for Teens and Guardians The TAPS College Experience for Teens and Parents is a 3-day college preparatory experience held every summer in Arlington, Virginia. Surviving military children who are rising high school Sophomores and Juniors along with their guardians will get the chance to meet with experts in multiple areas of higher education. Students and their guardians will learn critical skills such

TAPS Military Mentor of the Year Award

TAPS Gala Military Mentor of the Year Award Mentor Award Main Content Area TAPS Honor Guard Gala TAPS Military Mentor of the Year Award The TAPS Military Mentor of the Year Award recognizes outstanding support for the children of America's fallen heroes. TAPS provides immediate and long-term support to surviving children in part through Good Grief Camps and Campouts, bringing together military surviving adults and children across the area, encouraging them to share with others in a peer-b

Saturday Morning Message: Support from Loved Ones

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Retreats: North Carolina

Blue Ridge Mountains Women's Empowerment Retreat Blue Ridge Mountains Women's Empowerment Retreat | TAPS In accordance with the most current information available, as of May 1, 2022, TAPS is lifting the requirement to provide proof of full vaccination to attend in-person events. We will continue to monitor COVID variants and we may adjust protocols to ensure safe and healthy gatherings. These adjustments could once again include requiring proof of full vaccination and/or a negative COVID tes

Retreats: North Carolina June

Blue Ridge Mountains Women's Empowerment Retreat Blue Ridge Mountains Women's Empowerment Retreat | TAPS SPECIAL NOTICE: This Empowerment Retreat will no longer be held in June. We invite you to connect with the Women's Empowerment program virtually in the meantime. Upcoming Women's Empowerment Virtual Offerings » Surviving women whose loss occurred more than three years ago are invited to join the TAPS Blue Ridge Mountains Empowerment Retreat. Overview If you're asking yourself what's