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Seek Reconciliation, Not Resolution Seek Reconciliation, Not Resolution Seek Reconciliation, Not Resolution Alan Wolfelt “Mourning never really ends. Only as time goes on, it erupts less frequently.” ~ Anonymous How do you ever find your way out of the wilderness of your grief? You don't have to dwell there forever, do you? The good news is that no, you don't have to dwell there forever. If you follow the trail markers on your journey through the wilderness, you will find your way out. But just as with any significant exper
Moments…Just Moments Moments…Just Moments Moments…Just Moments Darcie Sims Have you ever had a moment? You know, a moment when time stood still and everything was as it should be—right and good and whole and wonderful. A moment when you were in the right place at the right time and life was good. Did you ever have a moment like that? Did you ever have a moment when the sun danced across the windowpane and made a rainbow through the glass? Or the breeze caught the fragrance of roses and sent it drifting past
Snowflakes Snowflakes Snowflakes Darcie Sims Surviving the Winter Season Have you ever stood outside with your head tilted back and your mouth open wide trying to catch a snowflake? Snowflakes fall everywhere: on your hair, your chin, your eyelashes, even your nose. And some even manage to land on the very tip of your tongue only to vanish before you can really get a taste. Each snowflake is a completely different design and pattern. No two are ever created exactly the same. It is a mystery that co
10 Things We Know to Be True about Suicide Loss 10 Things We Know to Be True about Suicide Loss 10 Things We Know to Be True about Suicide Loss \| TAPS TAPS Losing someone you love to suicide comes with complex grief. You might catch yourself asking why or what if or even wrestling with guilt, thinking you could have done something more — "If only I would have..." or "I should have known something was wrong." These questions, though raw and overwhelming — especially in grief — and processing these questions over time and with support can he
Dad Left Us a Lifetime of Memories Dad Left Us a Lifetime of Memories Dad Left Us a Lifetime of Memories \| TAPS Caroline Banholzer Kate Banholzer In May of 2014 our dad, Dave Banholzer, was diagnosed with Glioblastoma Multiforme, a terminal form of primary brain cancer. Within a matter of seconds, we knew our lives would never be “normal” again. Following his diagnosis, he lived with cancer for 28 months. During his remaining time, he attempted to give us a lifetimes worth of memories and lessons that we still cherish to this d
Stronger than she thought she could be: A widow looks back Stronger than she thought she could be: A widow looks back Stronger than she thought she could be: A widow looks back \| TAPS TAPS Each Friday, please visit our blog and join us as we take a look back at stories, people and events that have shaped who we are today. We are a family of survivors honoring our selfless heroes who paid the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom. We are grieving parents, spouses, children, siblings, grandparents, fiancées, battle buddies and loved ones. We are hope. We
Love, Loss, and Legacy Love, Loss, and Legacy Don Lipstein Turning Loss into Legacy - TAPS News Don Lipstein For more information on becoming a peer mentor or requesting a peer mentor, visit the TAPS Peer Mentor Program page. In some ways March 15, 2011, seems like yesterday and in others it feels like an eternity ago. That was the day my life turned upside down. I was completely helpless as my oldest son Joshua, 250 miles away from me, hung the phone up before he took his own life. That moment in time is sea
The Capacity to Love The Capacity to Love The Capacity to Love Alan Wolfelt The Reason We Grieve “Every time we make the decision to love someone, we open ourselves to great suffering, because those we most love cause us not only great joy, but also great pain. The greatest pain comes from leaving…the pain of the leaving can tear us apart. Still, if we want to avoid the suffering of leaving, we will never experience the joy of loving. And love is stronger than fear, life stronger than death, hope stronger than
National Bereavement Study: A Call to Action National Bereavement Study: A Call to Action National Bereavement Study: A Call to Action TAPS One of the recurring themes of grief is the feeling of isolation, the sensation that we are alone in the world and that no one understands what we are going through. At some point many of us find a way to “give sorrow words” as William Shakespeare wrote more than 400 years ago. We find our voice and want to be assured that someone is listening. The National Military Family Bereavement Study (NMFBS),
Embracing the Sadness of Grief Embracing the Sadness of Grief Embracing the Sadness of Grief \| TAPS Alan Wolfelt “In every heart, there is an inner room, where we can hold our greatest treasures and our deepest pain.” — Marianne Williamson Sadness is a hallmark symptom of grief, which in turn is the consequence of losing something we care about. In this way, you could say that sadness and love are inextricably linked. Yes, when you are grieving, it is normal to feel sad. I would even argue that it is necessary to fee
Saturday Morning Message: Sharing Memories, Big and Small Saturday Morning Message: Sharing Memories, Big and Small Saturday Morning Message: Sharing Memories, Big and Small \| TAPS Carol Lane Good morning, The opening picture today was sent by Samantha, fiancé of Preston. I thought it was a great way to open today’s Saturday Morning Message because they look like they are having a great time. Read more about Preston below. I will keep my comments short, so you will have time to read the many memories that have been shared. Remember, you
The Journey through Grief The Journey through Grief The Journey through Grief Alan Wolfelt The Mourner’s Six Reconciliation Needs The death of someone loved changes our lives forever. And the movement from "before" to "after" is almost always a long, painful journey. I have learned that if we are to heal, we cannot skirt the outside edges of our grief. Instead, we must journey all through it, sometimes meandering the side roads, sometimes plowing directly into its raw center. I have also learned that the journey
You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving — Part One You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving — Part One You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving — Part One \| TAPS Alan Wolfelt Author's Note: I have been a grief counselor and educator for more than 40 years, and “crazy” is the most common way in which people describe their early grief to me. Let me assure you straight off: It is normal to feel crazy after a significant loss. But you’re actually not going crazy in the way you may think. What you’re doing is grieving. This six-part article series
Star Light, Star Bright Star Light, Star Bright Star Light, Star Bright Darcie Sims Did you ever wish upon a star? Did you ever stand outside, on a summer night and feel the soft darkness enfold you like black velvet, the gentle night breeze kissing your cheeks, the grass tickling your bare toes? Did you ever lie on your back, looking at the starry quilt tossed over the heavens? Did you ever see a shooting star and wonder where it came from and where it was going? Did you ever search for a special star and wish on i
You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving — Part Two You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving — Part Two You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving — Part Two \| TAPS Alan Wolfelt Editor's Note This is part two of a six-part series adapted from Dr. Alan Wolfelt's book, You're Not Crazy — You're Grieving. Part one appeared in the summer issue of TAPS Magazine. It's Important for You to Feel Safe and Comforted Have you felt stressed, anxious, fearful, agitated, panicked, worried, or uneasy since the death? I’m not sure grief is possib
Proactive Grieving Proactive Grieving Proactive Grieving Mitch Carmody And how we climb the S.T.A.I.R.S to get there When my father died in 1969, I was only 15 years old. My mom told me that I was the man of the family now and that I needed to take care of the farm and my sisters. I did just that. I did not grieve, I did not cry, I did not publicly mourn. I hid my sorrow as if it were some awful secret I was ashamed of. I moved on. When my brother died five years later, nothing much had changed. My brother
Children’s Bereavement and Emotional Wellness, Part 1 Children’s Bereavement and Emotional Wellness, Part 1 Children’s Bereavement and Emotional Wellness, Part 1 Andrea Hug I vividly remember when my husband died. My children were four, two, and four months old. I hardly knew how to be a parent, let alone a sole parent to bereaved children. I remember going to see a counselor and saying, “What do I need to know to help these children grow up to be happy, healthy, productive members of society?” Now, 18 years later, I offer to you what I have gle
So You Think You’re Going Crazy? So You Think You’re Going Crazy? So You Think You’re Going Crazy? Darcie Sims I first began to think about going crazy shortly after our son died. It seemed innocent enough in the beginning. Just an occasional sound that came from his bedroom or a whiff of his scent that would catch me by surprise. I didn’t think much of it. In fact, I rather enjoyed those little reminders of him. But after sharing my first encounter with him with a neighbor, I knew the rest of the world would think me daft.
When Someone You Love Completes Suicide When Someone You Love Completes Suicide When Someone You Love Completes Suicide Alan Wolfelt Opening to the Presence of Your Loss This article is excerpted from Dr. Wolfelt's book The Wilderness of Suicide Grief: Finding Your Way. “In every heart there is an inner room, where we can hold our greatest treasures and our deepest pain.” ~ Marianne Williamson Someone you love has completed suicide. In your heart, you have come to know your deepest pain. To be bereaved literally means to be to
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Video: TAPS Peer Mentors Share Their Experience TAPS Peer Mentors Share Their Experience TAPS Peer Mentors Share Their Experience TAPS Media Our Peer Mentor Network is a circle of comfort, hope and understanding; at its core is survivors helping survivors heal through the power of one-to-one connections. Visit the TAPS Peer Mentor page to learn how to become a TAPS Peer Mentor. TAPS Peer Mentors Share Their Experience Our Peer Mentor network is a circle of comfort, hope and understanding; at its core is survivors helping survivors
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Very Important Document Very Important Document Very Important Document \| TAPS Diego Rincon Kristi Stolzenberg Ideliz Mora-Cruz This article is available in English and Spanish. (Este artículo está disponible en inglés y español.) FORWARD: PFC Diego Rincon died on foreign soil on March 29, 2003, proudly wearing a U.S. Army uniform, but he was not a U.S. citizen. He was just 5 years old in 1989 when he immigrated to the United States with his older brother and his parents, Jorge and Yolanda. The
Understanding A Widow’s Heart, New Directions Understanding A Widow’s Heart, New Directions Understanding A Widow’s Heart, New Directions Emma Wright March 9, 2013 Two and a half years ago today marks the darkest day I've ever known. The day when I was awakened by two dark silhouettes that I could see through the decorative glass panel of my front door. I could have been dreaming. Given the fact that the sun had not risen, that was my immediate assumption. But the silhouettes became much more real as I opened the door, confused and very
Photos: TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing Launch TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing Launch TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing Launch TAPS Media Download and view more high resolution images on Flickr » (220 photos) photos, taps institute, professional education TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing Launch Flickr Album Event Photos: TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing launched March 5, 2018, providing workshops, seminars, panel discussions for bereaved individuals and grie
You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving — Part Six You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving — Part Six You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving — Part Six \| TAPS Alan Wolfelt Editor's Note This is the final article in a six-part series adapted from Dr. Alan Wolfelt's book, You're Not Crazy — You're Grieving. Parts one through five were published in the summer 2023, fall 2023, spring 2024, summer 2024 and fall 2024 issues of TAPS Magazine. In the early days after the death of someone you love dearly, it’s normal for this step to
Helping a Suicide Survivor Heal Helping a Suicide Survivor Heal Helping a Suicide Survivor Heal Alan Wolfelt Historian Arnold Toynbee once wrote, "There are always two parties to a death; the person who dies and the survivors who are bereaved." Unfortunately, many survivors of suicide suffer alone and in silence. The silence that surrounds them often complicates the healing that comes from being encouraged to mourn. Because of the social stigma surrounding suicide, survivors feel the pain of the loss, yet may not know ho
Saturday Morning Message: The Power of Dreams Saturday Morning Message: The Power of Dreams Saturday Morning Message: The Power of Dreams Carol Lane Good Morning, This week several survivors wrote to tell about the dreams that they have had. They are so beautifully written that I am going to keep my comments short, so you can enjoy reading them. Over the Memorial Day weekend, TAPS will host the National Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp. There may be some who are reading this message who have registered for the first ti
Embracing the Sadness of Grief Embracing the Sadness of Grief Embracing the Sadness of Grief Alan Wolfelt “In every heart there is an inner room, where we can hold our greatest treasures and our deepest pain.” — Marianne Williamson Sadness is a hallmark symptom of grief, which in turn is the consequence of losing something we care about. In this way you could say that sadness and love are inextricably linked. When you are grieving, it is normal to feel sad. I would even argue that it is necessary to feel sad. But why i
Introducing Dayna Wood Introducing Dayna Wood Introducing Dayna Wood Dayna Wood At one point in my life I thought a year was a long time, and in some ways I still agree with that, but at the same time, it often feels like I blink and another year has gone by. The last 13 months have been particularly rough. My fiancé SSG Su Wan Ko was killed in an automobile accident in March 2011. The months without him have felt like years, but the time I spent with him felt too short. It seems to be a cruel joke of life. Now
The Spiritual Path to Healing, Part 1 The Spiritual Path to Healing, Part 1 The Spiritual Path to Healing, Part 1 Alan Wolfelt Editor’s Note: The death of a loved one challenges us in many areas including our religious and spiritual beliefs. While spirituality and religious tradition help many who are grieving, TAPS does not endorse any one spiritual belief or religion over another. After the death of someone loved, you are “torn apart” and have some very unique needs. Among these needs is to nurture yourself in five importa
A Breath of Summertime—Anytime A Breath of Summertime—Anytime A Breath of Summertime—Anytime Darcie Sims It’s summer and the air is warm upon my face. The sunlight dances across the grass, casting tiny shadows of the dandelions that wave in the afternoon breeze. It’s nice here, sitting on the step, letting my mind wander, not really thinking of anything much. It’s been a long time since I was able to just sit and enjoy the gentle rhythms of a summer’s day. Do you remember summer? Summer, that wonderful reprieve from w
You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving — Part Four You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving — Part Four You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving — Part Four \| TAPS Alan Wolfelt Editor's Note This is part four of a six-part series adapted from Dr. Alan Wolfelt's book, You're Not Crazy — You're Grieving. Parts one through three were published in the summer 2023, fall 2023, and spring 2024 issues of TAPS Magazine. Telling Your Stories Helps You Survive Telling your stories of love and loss helps you survive. The more you allow you
Beamer the Dog Beamer the Dog Beamer the Dog \| TAPS Beamer Burleson Greetings my two-legged friends! My name is Beamer Burleson and I’ve been told that I am the greatest dog on the planet! I am 11 years old and have the joy of helping my Mommy by being her best friend when she is sad. She calls me her service dog. It all started with Daddy and Mommy wanting me to help other soldiers when they returned from deployments. We trained as a Therapy Dog Team and I visited wounded warriors at Fort Bragg
Father's Club Father's Club Father's Club Bob Bagosy Four years ago on August 16, 2009 Tommy's friend and hooch mate Cpl. Nick Roush, U.S. Army Special Ops, was killed in action in Afghanistan while serving with a MARSOC Special Operations Team. As I found out later, Nick and Tommy took turns on patrols; he night Nick was killed he had volunteered to take my son's patrol. The vehicle ran over an IED and Nick died. Tommy never mentioned to me what happened, nor did I notice the black bracelet he wore o
Stop, Look, Listen Stop, Look, Listen Stop, Look, Listen Darcie Sims When was the last time you did nothing? Do you ever just sit anymore? Do you ever just lie on your back in new mown grass and watch the clouds dance by? Do you ever chase after butterflies, trying to give them a message to carry? Or dangle your toes in a pond or watch kids dash through a sprinkler? Do you ever sit on a porch or patio and smell the grass, the flowers, the air? Do you even have a porch or patio and do you know what sitting
Helping Military Kids with Traumatic Death Helping Military Kids with Traumatic Death Helping Military Kids with Traumatic Death Linda Goldman Ordinary fears are a normal part of a child’s developmental growth, and children create internal and external mechanisms to cope with these fears. But a child’s ordinary fears can be transformed into very real survival fears in the face of severe trauma. After children experience the death of a parent, they often feel alone and different. Frightened because their once comfortable world now seem
Love and Grief Love and Grief Love and Grief Alan Wolfelt Living as You Were Meant to Live “We are all mirrors unto one another. Look into me and you will find something of yourself as I will of you.” ~ Walter Rinder Love is a sacred partnership of communion with another human being. You take each other in, and even when you are apart, you are together. Wherever you go, you carry the person inside you. Communion means the sharing or exchanging of intimate thoughts and feelings, especially on a spiritual l
You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving — Part Three You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving — Part Three You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving — Part Three \| TAPS Alan Wolfelt Editor's Note This is part three of a six-part series adapted from Dr. Alan Wolfelt's book, You're Not Crazy — You're Grieving. Part one and part two appeared in the summer and fall issues of TAPS Magazine. Acknowledging the Illusion of Control Death naturally throws thoughts, feelings, and behaviors into disarray. Nothing may feel “normal” right now.
Video: Using Your Voice for Change Video: Using Your Voice For Change Use Your Voice For Change Webinar \| TAPS Institute TAPS Institute For Hope & Healing Learn how the TAPS policy team is advocating for you on Capitol Hill on a variety of issues from remarriage to toxic exposure. You will also learn how to advocate for yourself and your family. How to find and contact your Members of Congress. How to share your story in a productive way to create change. Your voice matters. YOU can and will make a difference! This webinar is
Webinar: Grief Support for Military Children Webinar: Grief Support for Military Children - A Guide for School Personnel Webinar: Grief Support for Military Children TAPS TAPS is honored to host, through the sponsorship of the American Hospice Foundation, a webinar for school professionals and all those who work with school aged children. Select image below to play webinar. taps professionals, webinar on child grief Webinar: Grief Support for Military Children Video Container Block This webinar is in support of National Suicide Preven
Mustering the Courage to Mourn Mustering the Courage to Mourn Mustering the Courage to Mourn Alan Wolfelt "Whatever you do, you need courage." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson Loss brings uninvited pain into our lives. In opening to the presence of the pain of your loss, in acknowledging the inevitability of the pain, in being willing to gently embrace the pain, you demonstrate the courage to honor the pain. Honoring means recognizing the value of and respecting. It is not instinctive to see grief as something to honor, yet the c
Photos: teams4taps Cavaliers teams4taps Cleveland Cavaliers Hoops for Troops Cleveland Cavaliers Hoops for Troops \| TAPS TAPS Media Download and view more high resolution images on Flickr » (25 photos) teams4taps, photos, military survivor Flickr Album Event Photos: TAPS Families attended the Cleveland Cavaliers Hoops for Troops in Cleveland, Ohio on November 5, 2019.
Photos: teams4taps Grizzlies teams4taps Memphis Grizzlies Hoops for Troops Memphis Grizzlies Hoops for Troops \| TAPS TAPS Media Download and view more high resolution images on Flickr » (13 photos) teams4taps, photos, military survivor Flickr Album Event Photos: TAPS Families attended the Memphis Grizzlies Hoops for Troops in Memphis, Tennessee on November 9, 2019.
Photos: teams4taps Nets teams4taps Brooklyn Nets Hoops for Troops Practice Brooklyn Nets Hoops for Troops Practice \| TAPS TAPS Media Download and view more high resolution images on Flickr » (51 photos) teams4taps, photos, military survivor Flickr Album Event Photos: TAPS Families attended the Brooklyn Nets Hoops for Troops Practice in Brooklyn, New York on November 6, 2019.
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Photos: Dancing for TAPS Dancing for TAPS Dancing for TAPS TAPS Media Download and view more high resolution images on Flickr » (56 photos) photos, taps supporter, military salute Flickr Album Event Photos: TAPS supporters raise money April 20 at Dancing with Friends Dance Studio in Churchville, Maryland.
Video: TAPS Kids Create Decorations for White House Christmas Trees Video: TAPS Kids Create Decorations for White House Christmas Trees Video: TAPS Kids Create Decorations for White House Christmas Trees \| TAPS TAPS Media TAPS children are proud to honor their fallen military hero for this year's White House Christmas trees. This holiday, TAPS celebrates the lives of those who have served and died. Learn more about TAPS Youth Programs. Select image below to play. military survivor, coping during the holidays TAPS children are proud to honor their fall
TAPS and Jon Stewart Launch New Center for Hope and Healing Connecting Vets: TAPS and Jon Stewart Launch New Center for Hope and Healing Connecting Vets: TAPS and Jon Stewart Launch New Center for Hope and Healing\| TAPS In the News Phil Briggs News Source: Connecting Vets friends of taps, donor news, honor the fallen TAPS and Jon Stewart Launch New Center for Hope and Healing Families grieving the loss of a military loved one have a new place to go to heal that wound, a sort-of hospital of the heart: TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing.
Video: Wellness Techniques for Reducing Stress and Anxiety Video: Wellness Techniques for Reducing Stress and Anxiety Video: Wellness Techniques for Reducing Stress and Anxiety Webinar \| TAPS Institute Neil Goodman In this recording of the webinar, you will be introduced to several powerful wellness tools, such as Mindfulness Meditation, Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), and the Heart Coherence procedure from the HeartMath Institute. These are keys to reducing the components of debilitating stress and can led to improved health and wellness during t
Video: TAPS Policy & Legislative Advocacy Update Video: TAPS Policy & Legislative Advocacy Update TAPS Policy & Legislative Advocacy Update Webinar \| TAPS Institute Candace Wheeler Ashlynne Haycock-Lohmann Learn how the TAPS policy team is advocating for you on Capitol Hill on a variety of issues from remarriage to toxic exposure. This is your opportunity to learn about how TAPS is fighting for surviving families, and for our Policy and Legislative team to hear what issues matter most to YOU! This webinar is presented by the TAPS Institute
Video: TAPS: Helping Families of Fallen Troops TAPS: Helping Families of Fallen Troops TAPS: Helping Families of Fallen Troops TAPS Media (TAPS) is the national organization providing compassionate care for the families of America's fallen military heroes and has offered support to more than 44,000 surviving family members of our fallen military and their caregivers since 1994. TAPS provides peer-based emotional support, grief and trauma resources, grief seminars and retreats for adults, Good Grief Camps for children, case work assistance
Video: TAPS Policy and Legislative Update Video: TAPS Policy and Legislative Update TAPS Policy and Legislative Update Webinar \| TAPS Institute Candace Wheeler Ashlynne Haycock-Lohmann Learn how the TAPS Government and Legislative Affairs team is advocating for ALL Survivors on Capitol Hill on a variety of issues from remarriage and increasing Dependency and Indemnity Compensation to healthcare and mental healthcare improvements for surviving families. This is your opportunity to learn more about how TAPS is fighting for surviving f
United States and United Kingdom Families Gather in London for Friendship and Football U.S. and U.K. Families Gather in London for Friendship and Football United States and United Kingdom Families Gather in London for Friendship and Football \| TAPS TAPS taps international, military, survivor, child grief, honoring the fallen 2018 October US and UK Surviving families unite to honor loved ones who served in the American and British Armed Forces and catch some American football action.
Video: Tools and Tips for Mental, Emotional, & Spiritual Care after a Suicide Death Video: Tools and Tips for Mental, Emotional, & Spiritual Care after a Suicide Death Tools and Tips for Mental, Emotional, & Spiritual Care after a Suicide Death Webinar \| TAPS Institute Carla Stumpf Patton Andy McNiel The death of a family member or friend from suicide has a profound impact on our lives. Grief can be overwhelming, disruptive, and consume our thoughts, emotions, and spirit. This webinar will provide a context for understanding how grief impacts our lives and provide helpful too
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Video: TAPS Provides Comfort & Hope Video: TAPS Provides Comfort & Hope Video: TAPS Provides Comfort & Hope \| TAPS TAPS Media The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors is the national organization for all those grieving the death of a military or veteran loved one. Learn more about the TAPS Mission. Select image below to play. the mission of TAPS, military survivor, gold star families, gold star families The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors is the national organization for all those grieving the death of a mi
Video: TAPS is Here for Military Survivors Video: TAPS is Here for Military Survivors Video: TAPS is Here for Military Survivors TAPS Media The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) provides compassionate care to all those grieving the death of a military loved one, no matter when, where or how the death took place. TAPS impact on our nation's surviving families has transformed lives. No matter waht, no matter when, TAPS is there. Select image below to play. taps mission, gold star families, hope and healing from grief
Video: Meditation for Uncertain Times TAPS Talks Video: Meditation for Uncertain Times Video: Meditation for Uncertain Times \| TAPS Institute Heather Stang This live connection, recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® and presented by Heather Stang allows participants to experience the power of RAIN meditation to ease difficult emotions. Select image below to play the video. webinar, video, meditation, coronavirus fears, grief and loss education Boeing Sponsor of Institute and Suicide Loss This video recording
Video: Strategies for Healthy Eating TAPS Talks Video: Strategies for Healthy Eating Video: Strategies for Healthy Eating \| TAPS Institute Kristen McGill This live connection, recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® and presented by Kristen McGill, discusses setting healthy and realistic goals, planning meals, and tying it all together in the kitchen. Select image below to play the video. webinar, video, healthy eating, coronavirus fears, remarriage, grief and loss education Boeing Sponsor of Institute and Sui
Video: Thanksgiving Message from Bonnie Carroll Video: Thanksgiving Message from Bonnie Carroll Video: Thanksgiving Message from Bonnie Carroll \| TAPS Bonnie Carroll The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) President and Founder Bonnie Carroll sends her well wishes to all military survivors this Thanksgiving 2020. TAPS is a family here for you, offering comfort, care and understanding. We stand together. You are NOT alone. Select image below to play. thinking of you at thanksgiving, america's fallen heroes, help for milita
Who is Memorial Day For? Who is Memorial Day For? Who is Memorial Day For? \| TAPS Bonnie Carroll Who is Memorial Day for? It's for all of us. It's for all Americans to remember we enjoy our many freedoms because of a brave few who dedicated their lives to this country and who died much too soon from wounds seen and unseen. Many are easily confused by the various holidays honoring military service members. There's a day for those who have served (Veterans Day), one for those who are currently serving (Armed Forces
Video: Flip the Script on Children's Grief Video: Flip the Script on Children's Grief Video: Flip the Script on Children's Grief \| TAPS TAPS Media Child Grief Awareness: One in 13 children by the time they are age 18, will experience the death of a parent or sibling. TAPS wants to flip the script on childhood grief. There is a myth in our society: out of sight, out of mind. By not engaging children in their grief, we leave them to grief alone. Engage children in your life that are grieving, check in with them, let them know you care a
TAPS Recognizes author and CNN anchor Jake Tapper at Book Signing Event TAPS Recognizes author and CNN anchor Jake Tapper at Book Signing Event TAPS Recognizes author and CNN anchor Jake Tapper at Book Signing Event TAPS On Wednesday evening, TAPS brought together 60 special guests with CNN anchor and author Jake Tapper at a reception and signing of Tapper’s critically acclaimed book, The Outpost: An Untold Story of American Valor. Bonnie Carroll introduced Tapper and showed a compelling video about TAPS and the impact TAPS services have on the families of Americ
Video: Engaging Empathy in the Workplace - A Guide for Grievers Video: Engaging Empathy in the Workplace - A Guide for Grievers Engaging Empathy in the Workplace - A Guide for Grievers Webinar \| TAPS Institute Rachel Kodanaz Often a sad employee is perceived to be a bad employee, yet all employees will cope with sadness and grief due to death and non-death loss at some point in their career. An employee who is overwhelmed by grief often feels a discouraging lack of support when transitioning back to the workplace, whether their return is in-person or virt
Video: TAPS Thanks Gillette and the NFL for their Support Video: TAPS Thanks Gillette and the NFL for their Support Video: TAPS Thanks Gillette and the NFL for their Support \| TAPS TAPS Media At the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS), we understand that the families of fallen military and veteran service members will carry their losses forever. As they grow, surviving children will miss the parent they lost at grand milestones — like birthdays and graduations, but at those quiet milestones as well — learning to tie shoes, shave, and all
Independence is Happiness Independence is Happiness Independence is Happiness \| TAPS International Bushra Farkish TAPS International, Afghanistan withdrawal, war, military families Independence Freedom is priceless. It should never be taken for granted. My wish for Afghanistan is the feeling of freedom I have found in America.
Video: Asking for Help When You Are Grieving Video: Asking for Help When You Are Grieving Asking for Help When You Are Grieving Webinar \| TAPS Institute Kenneth Doka There are many reasons it can be difficult to ask for help when we need it, and grief can make it more challenging. There could be fear that we are bothering someone with our problems. Maybe grief has taken too much energy and we can't figure out what we need or how to reach out. If a prior request for help or support was met with unhelpful or hurtful responses, we may hesi
Video: From Grief to Peace - Journaling for Life After Loss Video: From Grief to Peace - Journaling for Life After Loss From Grief to Peace - Journaling for Life After Loss Webinar \| TAPS Institute Heather Stang Journaling does more than simply record your day-to-day experience; it helps you organize your thoughts, process traumatic events, and find meaning through your lived experience. The many health benefits of journaling supported by science include reduction in symptoms associated with depression, anxiety, and trauma; improved memory; and increa
Video: Grief in the Holidays: Finding Meaning and Hope as a Family Video: Grief in the Holidays - Finding Meaning and Hope as a Family Video: Grief in the Holidays - Finding Meaning and Hope as a Family Webinar \| TAPS Institute Andy McNiel Adorned with lights, bright colors, and stories of good cheer, the holidays can stand in stark contrast to the sorrow experienced by those grieving the death of a loved one while also raising children or teenagers. While adults may be anticipating the holidays with apprehension, children, even when grieving, often look for
Videos: 2020 Health and Wellness Sessions Videos: 2020 Health and Wellness Sessions Videos: 2020 Virtual Military Survivor Seminar Health and Wellness Sessions \| TAPS TAPS Media video, health and wellness, yoga, artful grief, relaxation techniques 2020 National Seminar Wellness Recordings Created for the 2020 Virtual National Military Survivor Seminar, these leading experts in self-care share methods of healing for body, mind, and soul.
Widows Write for TIME's Battleland Blog Widows Write for TIME's Battleland Blog Widows Write for TIME's Battleland Blog TAPS Widows Write for TIME's Battleland Blog About Experiences at This Weekend's TAPS National Military Suicide Survivor Seminar Widows Rebecca Morrison and Leslie McCaddon are blogging for TIME.com's Battleland blog about their experiences at the TAPS National Military Suicide Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp in San Diego this weekend. Hundreds of survivors are attending this event for care and support, an
Photos: Young Adult Louisville Young Adult Louisville Experience Young Adult Military Survivor Louisville Experience \| TAPS TAPS Media Download and view more high resolution images on Flickr » (80 photos) habitat for humanity, taps young adult, photos Flickr Album Event Photos: TAPS young adult survivors work on Habitat for Humanity project and enjoy outdoor adventures together July 10-11, 2018.
Deadlines Nearing to Save on College Costs Deadlines Nearing to Save on College Costs Deadlines Nearing to Save on College Costs TAPS After the death of a loved one, the financial commitment of attending college may seem daunting. However, the financial burden can be lifted with the help of scholarships available to surviving family members from various federal, state and private organizations. TAPS is here to assist eligible survivors to gain access to these education benefit resources. Graduation is around the corner. It is time
Video: Helping Grievers Draw Boundaries Video: Helping Grievers Draw Boundaries Helping Grievers Draw Boundaries Webinar \| TAPS Institute Joy Berger It’s often said that grief is hard work, so adding the job of setting boundaries to a griever’s to-do list can feel overwhelming. Yet the importance of setting healthy boundaries in grief – with relatives, friends, co-workers, and even with social media – has a clinical foundation based in well-known contemporary grief theories. Join Dr. Berger in exploring ways to empower grieving per
Video: Thanksgiving Message from Bonnie Carroll Video: Thanksgiving Message from Bonnie Carroll Video: Thanksgiving Message from Bonnie Carroll \| TAPS Bonnie Carroll Thanksgiving can be a challenging time for those who have an empty seat at their table. As we celebrate, we honor and remember the lives lived, we remember the blessings that have been given to us by those we loved, and we know that love transcends this physical life. Your TAPS Family is here for you and you are not alone. If you or someone you know needs our support, the TAP
Video: Going through Crisis Survive and Thrive TAPS Talks Video: Going through Crisis Survive and Thrive Video: Going through Crisis Survive and Thrive \| TAPS Institute Eric Hipple Former National Football League quarterback Eric Hipple will share his strategies for building resilience and offer tips (like the ones he shares with current Lions' players) for staying mentally and physically healthy during these challenging times. This live connection is recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing.® Select image below to play the
Video: Love After Loss (for Men) Video: Love After Loss (for Men) Video: Love After Loss (for Men) \| TAPS Institute Justin Yopp Warren Pellegrin This webinar, recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® and presented by Dr. Justin Yopp and Peer Mentor Warren Pellegrin, discusses how surviving spouses can find ways to honor their spouse or partner who has died while also choosing to love again. Select image below to play the video. Webinar Slides Love After Loss (for Men) (PDF) webinar, video, women dating ag
Video: Love After Loss (for Women) Video: Love After Loss (for Women) Video: Love After Loss (for Women) \| TAPS Institute Carla Stumpf Patton Susan Starnes This webinar, recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® and presented by Dr. Carla Stumpf-Patton and Ms. Susan Starnes, discusses how bereaved female survivors can learn to honor their spouse or intimate partner who has died while also embracing new relationships and choosing to love again. Select image below to play the video. Webinar Slides Love After Los
Video: Managing Substance Use during this Challenging Time TAPS Talks Video: Managing Substance Use during this Challenging Time Video: Managing Substance Use during this Challenging Time \| TAPS Institute Franklin Cook With people facing additional stress and isolation, concerns about substance use and self-medication are real. This live connection, recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® and presented by Franklin Cook, MA, CPC, addresses these concerns of substance use, whether for yourself or for a loved one. Select image below to
Video: Meditation for Coping with Difficult Emotions Video: Meditation for Coping with Difficult Emotions Video: Meditation for Coping with Difficult Emotions \| TAPS Institute Heather Stang This webinar was recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® and presented by with Heather Stang, MA, C-IATY. This video recording of the webinar discusses how the physical sensation of emotion can be your ally during tough times and even provide you with inner wisdom and insight. This technique can be applied during a regular meditation practice,
Video: Photographing Grief Video: Photographing Grief Video: Photographing Grief \| TAPS Institute Litsa Williams Eleanor Haley This workshop was recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® at TAPS Headquarters in Arlington, Virginia and presented by What's Your Grief co-founders Litsa Williams and Eleanor Haley. This video recording of the workshop presents photography techniques and exercises for exploring and expressing your grief story. It is appropriate for anyone interested in using photography as a creat
Video: TAPS and NFL Partner for Salute to Service Video: TAPS and NFL Partner for Salute to Service Video: TAPS and NFL Partner for Salute to Service TAPS Media Salute to Service is a year-round effort to Honor, Empower, and Connect our nation's service members, veterans, and their families. Since 2017, TAPS has been one of the NFL's military nonprofit partners. We are grateful to the league and clubs across the country for honoring and remembering our fallen military heroes and their families as part of the NFL Salute to Service. See all TA
Variety of Events Available for Surviving Military Children Variety of Events Available for Surviving Military Children Variety of Events Available for Surviving Military Children TAPS TAPS Youth Programs has many great events to support surviving military children in 2017. At each of these events, children are paired with military mentors — active duty, reserve or National Guard service members or recent veterans who volunteer their time to create bonds with surviving military children and help them learn coping skills. We hope your child will jo
Movie Review: "Thank You For Your Service" May Be Triggering and Emotional for Military Survivors Movie Review: "Thank You For Your Service" May Be Triggering and Emotional for Military Survivors "Thank You For Your Service" May Be Triggering and Emotional for Military Survivors TAPS TAPS appreciates those who seek to tell the story of military families, from the impact of combat service for the veteran to the broader impact on families bereaved by a military death. We strive to incorporate a trauma-informed approach to care for our military families who have suffered a loss. Recent
5 Tips Surviving Military Families Need to Know as They Prepare for College 5 Tips Surviving Military Families Need to Know as They Prepare for College 5 Tips Surviving Military Families Need to Know as They Prepare for College \| TAPS Ashlynne Haycock-Lohmann In 2002, I lost my dad while he was training to deploy to Iraq. I was 10 years old. College was the last thing on my mind, and it was not high on my mother's priority list either. Years later, as I opened the mailbox and pulled out “the big envelope” from American University, I knew my dad would have been obnox
Video: Jon Stewart urges Military Survivors and Veterans to apply for PACT Act Benefits Video: Jon Stewart urges Military Survivors and Veterans to apply for PACT Act Benefits Video: Jon Stewart Urges Military Survivors and Veterans to apply for PACT Act Benefits \| TAPS TAPS Media Veterans exposed to toxins while serving and survivors whose military and veteran loved ones died of toxic-exposed illnesses may qualify for benefits under #PactAct. You now have until 11:59 p.m. Eastern on Monday, August 14, 2023 to file your PACT Act claim — or submit your intent to file — with the
Video: Finding Meaning in Afghanistan Video: Finding Meaning in Afghanistan Finding Meaning in Afghanistan Webinar \| TAPS Institute TAPS International The true lessons of war are not in what our warriors died for but for what, and for whom, they lived. ~ Bonnie Carroll, President and Founder, TAPS The last several weeks have been heartbreaking for the people of Afghanistan, the military men and women who served, their families, our nation, and the world. Join TAPS for a panel discussion and hear from different voices on how the
Video: Grief River - A Nature-Inspired Map for Understanding Grief and Loss Video: Grief River - A Nature-Inspired Map for Understanding Grief and Loss Video: Grief River - A Nature-Inspired Map for Understanding Grief and Loss \| TAPS Institute Thom Dennis This webinar was recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® and presented by Dr. Thom Dennis, DMin, LCPC, CT. It looks at how to navigate our way through the waves of grief with the agility of a seasoned kayaker. This program invites participants to consider their most recent loss in the context of the e
Video: TAPS Is Here for You TAPS Talks Video: TAPS Is Here for You Video: TAPS Is Here for You \| TAPS Institute Bonnie Carroll Audri Beugelsdijk Brittany Bonin-Bruder Join your TAPS Family for a conversation about TAPS sharing our mission, grief support services offered, and casework support available. Have questions ready for our casework team regarding benefits and assistance for you during this challenging time and be prepared to get involved in all TAPS has to offer! This live connection, recorded by the TAPS Instit
TAPS Makes Access to Education Benefits Easier TAPS Makes Access to Education Benefits Easier TAPS Makes Access to Education Benefits Easier TAPS 2016 has been an incredible year for TAPS Education Services. With new staff on board we have been able to support more than 500 surviving families in accessing college education through the VA, state waivers and private scholarships. The education program took it on the road for presentations to parents and students at TAPS National and Regional Seminars and at Snowball Express. TAPS partnersh
Video: Bonnie Carroll Memorial Day Message Video: Memorial Day Message from Bonnie Carroll, TAPS President and Founder Video: Memorial Day Message from Bonnie Carroll, TAPS President and Founder \| TAPS TAPS Media For all of us in the TAPS family, every day is our Memorial Day. As military survivors, we are our loved ones living legacies. TAPS is here for you, we are a family, we hold you close in our hearts now and always. Select image below to play. remember the fallen, memorial day For all of us in the TAPS family, every da
Video: How TAPS cares for Surviving Military Children Video: How TAPS cares for Surviving Military Children Video: How TAPS cares for Surviving Military Children TAPS Media At TAPS, we provide care and support to surviving military children and our model of care at TAPS Youth Programs is based on extensive research and experience. Learn more at TAPS Youth Programs. Select image below to play. child grief, grief camp TAPS provides care and support to surviving military children and our model of care at TAPS Youth Programs is based on ext
Video: TAPS Family Camps for Surviving Military Families Video: TAPS Family Camps for Surviving Military Families Video: TAPS Family Camps for Surviving Military Families \| TAPS TAPS Media At TAPS we believe that to fully support surviving military children, we need to support the whole family. At our Family Camps we provide care, support, and a lot of fun to help improve communication and family dynamics. Learn more at TAPS Youth Programs. Select image below to play. taps family camps, child grief, grief camp At our Family Camps we provide
Video: For TAPS Families Every Day is Memorial Day Video: For TAPS Families Every Day is Memorial Day Video: For TAPS Families Every Day is Memorial Day \| TAPS News Skyler Henry TAPS Military Surviving Families come together Memorial Day weekend 2021 in Washington, D.C. Military Surviving spouse Lesliee Ojeda shares her experience as a survivor but also as a counselor helping others heal. Video by Skyler Henry of CBS News in Washington Select image below to play. remember the fallen, memorial day Military Surviving spouse Lesliee Ojed
Video: Thinking of you on Independence Day Video: Thinking of you on Independence Day Video: Thinking of you on Independence Day, Message from Bonnie Carroll \| TAPS Bonnie Carroll This 4th of July, we thank you for your loved one's service to this country in defense of the freedoms we celebrate today. Select image below to play. July 4, america's fallen heroes, help for military families This 4th of July, we thank you for your loved one's service to this country in defense of the freedoms we celebrate today.
Love Lives On Virtual Show & Auction to benefit the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors Love Lives On Virtual Show & Auction to benefit the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors Love Lives On Virtual Show & Auction to benefit the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors \| TAPS News The Villager TAPS supporter news, Colorado Celebrity Classic The Villager September 17 2020 Celebrity Classic to Benefit TAPS offers a virtual event of music, and live, silent and Fund-A-Mission auctions. Love Lives On is live online Friday, October 2, 2020.
Video: The Smart thing and the Right thing are usually the Same thing TAPS Talks Video: The Smart thing and the Right thing are usually the Same thing Video: The Smart thing and the Right thing are usually the Same thing \| TAPS Institute Robert Delaney This live connection, recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® and presented by Robert J. Delaney, explores strategies for navigating today's world. Select image below to play the video. Resource Guide Game of Life (PDF) webinar, video, grief and loss education Boeing Sponsor of Institute
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TAPS Survivor Newsletter November 2024 TAPS Survivor Newsletter November 2024 TAPS Survivor Newsletter November 2024 TAPS Media Tips for Grievers During the Holidays A typically joyous time of year may include added stress and complicated emotions for the bereaved. We've compiled a few reminders to carry with you throughout the season. In this issue: Tips for Grievers During the Holidays Share Your TAPS Togethers: Friendsgiving Experience 2025 NFL Pro Bowl Experience Understanding How Our Children Grieve Past Events
Video: TAPS Statement for the Record April 10 Video: TAPS Statement for the Record Video: TAPS Statement for the Record presented on April 10, 2024 \| TAPS News Candace Wheeler TAPS Media Candace Wheeler, Director, TAPS Government and Legislative Affairs presents TAPS Statement for the Record on issues of importance to the 120,000-plus surviving family members of all ages, representing all services, and with losses from all causes who TAPS is honored to serve at the April 10, 2024 Legislative Hearing before the House Committee on Veterans’
Video: TAPS Statement for the Record July 10 Video: TAPS Statement for the Record Video: TAPS Statement for the Record presented on July 10, 2024 \| TAPS News Candace Wheeler TAPS Media Candace Wheeler, Director, TAPS Government and Legislative Affairs presents TAPS Statement for the Record on issues of importance to the 120,000-plus surviving family members of all ages, representing all services, and with losses from all causes who TAPS is honored to serve at the July 10, 2024 Legislative Hearing before the House Committee on Veterans’ A
Video: Transformative Mentoring: Promoting Growth and Healing through Restorative Relationships Video: Transformative Mentoring: Promoting Growth and Healing through Restorative Relationships Transformative Mentoring: Promoting Growth and Healing through Restorative Relationships Webinar \| TAPS Institute Karl Hillway Mentoring transforms lives and yields positive impacts on all involved. In the face of their own traumatic experiences Active Duty and Veteran Service Members find growth, hope and healing through mentoring bereaved children of military loss. Join us for a panel discussion
Video: Remember the Families of the Fallen this Memorial Day Video: Remember the Families of the Fallen this Memorial Day Video: Remember the Families of the Fallen this Memorial Day \| TAPS TAPS Media "Who is Memorial Day for? It's for all of us. It's for all Americans to remember we enjoy our many freedoms because of a brave few who dedicated their lives to this country and who died much too soon from wounds seen and unseen." ~ Bonnie Carroll, TAPS President and Founder Learn more about the TAPS Mission and ways to support TAPS. Select image below t
Video: Supporting Our Kids, Supporting Ourselves Video: Supporting Our Kids, Supporting Ourselves Supporting Our Kids, Supporting Ourselves Webinar \| TAPS Institute Tina Barrett Each of us responds to loss in our own unique ways. As parents, we often find ourselves in the challenging role as the primary support for children amidst our own profound grief. Further complicating the dynamic, our personal way of grieving may be quite different than how our children grieve. This interactive workshop will explore Darcie Sims's four grief styles an
Video: Mindfulness as Your Superpower Video: Mindfulness as Your Superpower Video: Mindfulness as Your Superpower Webinar \| TAPS Institute Jill Harrington-LaMorie Heather Stang Mindfulness isn’t just for naturally calm people. It is a superpower that can help us cope with the most challenging emotions—even grief. Using superhero case examples, during this workshop, you will learn how mindfulness can help you navigate loss, improve your health, and cultivate much-needed compassion for your grieving heart. This video was recorded a
Video: Holiday Message from Bonnie Carroll and TAPS Video: Holiday Message from Bonnie Carroll and TAPS Video: Holiday Message from Bonnie Carroll and TAPS Bonnie Carroll With a message of love and care, the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) President and Founder Bonnie Carroll, sends you a warm holiday greeting . Your TAPS Family is here for you, with comfort, support and resources every day of the year. This holiday and always, you are not alone. Select image below to play. thinking of you at christmas, america's fallen h
Video: Meditation and Self-Care for Stressful Times TAPS Talks Video: Meditation and Self-Care for Stressful Times Video: Meditation and Self-Care for Stressful Times \| TAPS Institute Heather Stang This live connection, recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® and presented by Heather Stang, MA, C-IATY, discusses how the physical sensation of emotion can be your ally during tough times and even provide you with inner wisdom and insight. This technique can be applied during a regular meditation practice, or on-the-spot in real life
Video: Strategies for Coping When You are Feeling Isolated TAPS Talks Video: Strategies for Coping When You are Feeling Isolated Video: Strategies for Coping When You are Feeling Isolated \| TAPS Institute Dale Larson Grief can bring feelings of loneliness, and today’s current reality may be adding to that feeling of isolation. This live connection, recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® and presented by Dale Larson, PhD, shares some ways to cope with those feelings and invite participants to share their suggestions. . Select image
Video: TAPS and VA Partner Together for Veteran Benefits Video: TAPS and VA Partner Together for Veteran Benefits Video: TAPS and VA Partner Together for Veteran Benefits TAPS Media The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) and the Department of Veterans' Affairs (VA) share a common commitment. They ensure that those who have served their nation, and their families, receive the support, care, information and resources they need. Through a strong partnership and collaborative spirit, TAPS and the VA work together to honor our nation's lega
Video: The Love Takes Action Series New York Life Video: The Love Takes Action Series New York Life Video: The Love Takes Action Series New York Life \| TAPS New York Life Foundation Terri Jones, Manager for the TAPS Survivor Care Team, shares her story about supporting surviving families who lost their military loved one. When Terri is not supporting and working with her TAPS family, she spends her downtime making masks for others during this COVID-19 crisis. Thank you to New York Life Foundation for their generous support of TAPS throughout
Video: Too Close for Comfort - Mental Health and Wellness During Changing Family Dynamics TAPS Talks Video: Too Close for Comfort - Mental Health and Wellness During Changing Family Dynamics Video: Too Close for Comfort - Mental Health and Wellness During Changing Family Dynamics \| TAPS Institute Kim Ruocco Carla Stumpf Patton This live connection, recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® and presented by Kim Ruocco and Carla Stumf-Patton, discusses how to maintain mental health and wellness during changes in the family dynamics. Select image below to play the video.
Veteran climbs Denali to raise money for TAPS Veteran climbs Denali to raise money for TAPS Veteran climbs Denali to raise money for TAPS Kerry McGinley For Seth Whitfield, eight days of brutal winds, near-zero visibility and frigid temperatures over potentially lethal terrain on North America’s highest peak wasn’t just about challenging himself physically; it was also a chance to raise awareness and funds for TAPS. Whitfield used his personal vacation as the basis of a campaign to raise $10,600 for TAPS, a nonprofit that supports the fa
Video: Loss, Grief, and the Quest for Meaning Video: Loss, Grief, and the Quest for Meaning Video: Loss, Grief, and the Quest for Meaning \| TAPS Institute Robert Neimeyer This webinar was recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® and presented by Robert A. Neimeyer, PhD. This video recording of the workshop discusses how to help us understand how growth can come from grief, despite the emotional challenges that mourning brings. Select image below to play the video. webinar, video, meditation, grief and loss education Bo
Inaugural Parade TAPS Marches in Inaugural Parade TAPS Marches in Inaugural Parade TAPS Nearly 200 surviving military family members joined TAPS in the Inaugural Parade for the 45th President of the United States Donald J. Trump on Friday, January 20, 2017. The families took part in the parade to honor their loved ones, carrying photos of their fallen heroes on TAPS paddle fans and wearing photo buttons as they marched down Constitution Avenue. For Deborah Whitaker, surviving mother of SSG Dustin Whitaker, l
Video: A Man For Others: The Erik Kristensen Story Video: A Man For Others: The Erik Kristensen Story A Man For Others: The Erik Kristensen Story CBS Sports A SEAL in Birkenstocks teams4taps and CBS Sports paid tribute to United States Naval Academy graduate and fallen U.S. Navy SEAL, LCDR Erik S. Kristensen (Class of '96), and honored his parents at the October 7, 2017 Navy vs. Air Force game. LCDR Erik S. Kristensen, teams4taps, honor the fallen A Man For Others: The Erik Kristensen Story Video Container Main Content 2 teams4taps and CBS
Books for the Holidays 2014 Books for the Holidays 2014 Books for the Holidays 2014 Betsy Beard The winter holidays, with their emphasis on miracles and gifts, are difficult for those who grieve. While the hearts of others are lifted in merriment, our hearts seem to grow heavier with thoughts of our loved one and the gaping hole they left in our lives. Here are some books that can help fill the void and bring extra support at this time of year. Thoughts for the Holidays, By Doug Manning As a counselor
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Run with TAPS in 2019 Run with TAPS in 2019 Run with TAPS in 2019 \| TAPS TAPS It’s not too late to commit to setting your resolution to run with TAPS in 2019. We’ve got two fun races coming up in February and March, with each race offering multiple distances for every level of runner. Photo: TAPS Archive The last day to register for the Disney Princess Half Marathon Weekend is Monday, January 28. The weekend event will be held February 21-24 in Orlando, Florida. Entries are available for all distances—5K, 10K, h
Runners Around the World Raise Support for TAPS Runners Around the World Raise Support for TAPS Runners Around the World Raise Support for TAPS TAPS From Disney, to Vegas, to Alaska, Team TAPS pounded out over 15,000 miles to honor our fallen heroes and raise money and awareness for our TAPS families. It was a year of historic firsts with Team TAPS members participating in the New York City Marathon, Ragnar Relays and an Ironman. We also joined forces with an outstanding group of female high school softball players in Utah and expanded our
Summer Good Grief Camp Opportunities Summer Good Grief Camp Opportunities Summer Good Grief Camp Opportunities TAPS Make Summer Plans Now This summer, TAPS has space for more than 80 surviving children from around the country to gather in California and North Carolina for two Good Grief Campouts and an inaugural teen hiking adventure in the Cumberland area of Maryland and Pennsylvania. Away from the familiarity of daily life, and without the distractions of electronics, connections center around shared experiences, special m
Photos: Representative Dean Phillips Meets Military Survivors and TAPS Staff Representative Dean Phillips Meets Military Survivors and TAPS Staff Representative Dean Phillips Meets Military Survivors and TAPS Staff Photos TAPS Media Download and view more high resolution images on Flickr » (28 photos) taps honor guard gala, photos Flickr Album Event Photos: Representative Dean Phillips was selected for the 2023 Ted Stevens Leadership Award for his commitment to surviving military families.
Colorado Celebrity Classic Raises over $330,000 for TAPS Colorado Celebrity Classic Raises over $330,000 for TAPS Colorado Celebrity Classic Raises over $330,000 for TAPS Christine Burtt The Colorado Celebrity Classic hosted its 14th Annual Saluting Our Fallen Heroes Dinner & Songwriters Show on Saturday, June 16, 2018 at the Grove Family Ranch in Centennial, Colorado. About 518 guests enjoyed an evening of fun and music and raised more than $330,000 for TAPS. Headliner Pam Tillis, a two-time Grammy and Country Music Award winner and daughter
Yuengling Lagers for Heroes Salute Veterans and Their Families Yuengling Lagers for Heroes Salute Veterans and Their Families Yuengling Lagers for Heroes Salute Veterans and Their Families \| TAPS TAPS TAPS is proud to have the support of America's Oldest Brewery, D.G. Yuengling & Son during the month of May as together we raise a toast to honor our military heroes. Fiercely independent for nearly 190 years, Yuengling is thankful and proud of the brave and dedicated service men and women who make tremendous sacrifices and represent our country's freedom,
Video: Hope, Help and Healing Video: Hope, Help and Healing TAPS \| Hope, Help and Healing TAPS Media When someone dies in the military, TAPS is there to care for everyone who is grieving, forever, with resources and support. Select image below to play. military survivor, healing, grief Hope, Help and Healing Hope Help Healing Video When someone dies in the military, TAPS is there to care for everyone who is grieving, forever, with resources and support.
Military Mentors Available for all Surviving Children Military Mentors Available for all Surviving Children Military Mentors Available for all Surviving Children TAPS Through the TAPS Military Mentor Program, TAPS connects grieving military children with individual military mentors - service members from every branch of the Armed Forces who volunteer their time to provide individual support. Children connect to their mentors at the TAPS Good Grief Camps, which are held throughout the year all across the country. The goal of the program is to
Education Support Services Education Support Services Education Support Services Ashlynne Haycock-Lohmann My dad, Sergeant First Class Jeffrey Haycock, died while training to deploy in 2002 when I was only ten years old. Education was extremely important to him; he actually made me learn all fifty states and their capitals before I started kindergarten. Pursuing a higher education was not optional; his kids would go to college. When he died, attaining his dreams for us seemed uncertain. I always knew, though, that I wo
Video: About the TAPS Peer Mentor Program About the TAPS Peer Mentor Program About the TAPS Peer Mentor Program TAPS Media The TAPS peer mentoring program connects surviving families of our fallen troops with each other for companionship and support. Mentors are trained and at least 1-2 years beyond their own loss. #HopeHelpHeal Suicide Prevention PSA The TAPS peer mentoring program connects surviving families of our fallen troops with each other for companionship and support.
Video: TAPS Public Service Announcement TAPS Public Service Announcement TAPS Public Service Announcement TAPS Media This 30-second public service announcement (PSA) informs viewers about the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS), which provides comfort and care to anyone grieving the death of someone who died while serving in the Armed Forces. videos, About TAPS Mission This 30-second public service announcement (PSA) informs viewers about the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS)
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Video: Honoring Love and Embracing Transformation Video: Honoring Love and Embracing Transformation Honoring Love and Embracing Transformation Webinar \| TAPS Institute Andy McNiel There are many special holidays where we express our love for others. In the month of February on Valentine's Day we buy flowers, send cards, write letters, or express love to those special people in our lives. It is during these times when the love we feel for them is reflected in the pain we experience over their absence. What do we do with all the love we have f
Video: Interpersonal Support for Children of Military Loss — The Role of the Military Mentor Video: Interpersonal Support for Children of Military Loss — The Role of the Military Mentor Interpersonal Support for Children of Military Loss — The Role of the Military Mentor Webinar \| TAPS Institute Karl Hillway Connection building in the face of trauma and loss is an essential tool in supporting children grieving a military loss. Active Duty and Veteran Service Members can offer guidance and mentorship to children of military loss. Mentoring holds lifelong meaning for children who have
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Video: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Demystified Video: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Demystified Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Demystified Webinar \| TAPS Institute Howard Lipke Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is the most widely disseminated and thoroughly researched method of psychotherapy to appear in recent times. It is recognized as an evidence-based method of treatment for PTSD by evaluating authorities including the American Psychiatric Association, the International Society for Tra
Video: TAPS President and founder Bonnie Carroll Shares new resources for the American Public on CNN Video: TAPS President and founder Bonnie Carroll Shares new resources for the American Public on CNN Video: TAPS President and founder Bonnie Carroll Shares new resources for the American Public on CNN CNN For 25 years, TAPS has brought the families of America's fallen heroes to Arlington to participate in ceremonies with the president, but this year things look very, very different. TAPS held their national survivor's seminar... but it was held virtually. Bonnie Carroll speaks with CNN's Joh
The TAPS Interview: Jon Stewart The TAPS Interview: Jon Stewart The TAPS Interview: Jon Stewart \| TAPS Allison Gilbert Jon Stewart’s father, a veteran of the Korean War, died in 2013. But the former Daily Show host’s personal experience with loss is not the only reason he sat down recently for an interview with TAPS Magazine. Stewart was in Arlington, VA, for the launch of the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing®. Stewart is a staunch supporter of service members, veterans, and military families. He is also a tirel
Video: TAPS These Days Video: TAPS These Days #FamiliesNeverForget Video: TAPS These Days #FamiliesNeverForget TAPS Media The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) is the leading national organization providing compassionate care and survivor support services for the families of America's fallen military heroes. Since 1994, TAPS has offered support to more than 85,000 survivors of fallen military in the form of peer-based emotional support, grief and trauma resources, grief seminars and retreats for adu
NFL Auction Benefits TAPS NFL Auction Benefits TAPS NFL Auction Benefits TAPS TAPS As one of the four official charity partners of the NFL, TAPS benefits from the proceeds of auctions for official NFL items, exclusive Super Bowl Packages and authentic signed and game-used items from your favorite teams and players. Over the past five years, NFL Auction has donated more than $5 million to NFL and team charities and nonprofits. The NFL does not retain any profits generated by the sale of products on the NFL Auction pla
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TAPS Advocacy in Action TAPS Advocacy in Action TAPS Advocacy in Action TAPS Your TAPS Policy Team is extremely busy advocating for our surviving families! We testified before Congress on five separate occasions and submitted statements for the record on important survivor issues. TAPS also advocates for our surviving families through the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) Federal Advisory Committee on Veterans’ Families, Caregivers, and Survivors and Chairs the Survivor Subcommittee. We continue to brief leadersh
Survivors Fill Community Need for Face Masks Survivors Fill Community Need for Face Masks Survivors Fill Community Need for Face Masks \| TAPS Susie Ristau As everyone knows, we’re all going through a tough time in our lives with COVID-19. Every night when I went to bed I stressed over how things were going to be for my family. One night, I thought: Why am I laying here stressing over what is going to happen? I need to be doing something to help people in need. I had seen so many Facebook posts about places in need of face masks. The n
Holding a Safe Space for Men Holding a Safe Space for Men Holding a Safe Space for Men \| TAPS Lalaine Estella What we’ve come to know at TAPS is that men and women grieve differently. Men can be more stoic and reserved, while women are more expressive. While men in general tend to grieve more privately, women often feel more comfortable grieving with the support of others. Men often wear a public face of strength hoping not to show their pain, but in reality, they need just as much care and support after losing someone
Programs for Young Adult Survivors Expand in 2019 Programs for Young Adult Survivors Expand in 2019 Programs for Young Adult Survivors Expand in 2019 \| TAPS Lalaine Estella Understanding the need to connect with those who know our pain lies at the heart of what TAPS does. TAPS programming is guided by the belief that hope and healing can be found when we travel the grief journey together. TAPS was founded 25 years ago with grief support for adults and children. Over the years, it became apparent that specialized programming was needed to bri
Holiday Survival Tips: Practical Advice to Help Anyone Coping with Grief Holiday Survival Tips: Practical Advice to Help Anyone Coping with Grief Holiday Survival Tips: Practical Advice to Help Anyone Coping with Grief TAPS Holiday cheer and merrymaking can be everywhere this time of year, but for those grieving the loss of a loved one, the holiday season can be filled with emotional twists and turns. The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) would like to offer the following tips to help those who are grieving the death of a loved one this holiday se
Resource Center: TAPS Casework Assistance Resource Center: TAPS Casework Assistance Resource Center: TAPS Casework Assistance Glenn Gray Help is Here When You Need It As those who have come in touch with TAPS soon learn, one of our primary missions is to provide support and guidance to our survivor families, helping to overcome the emotional hurdles of military loss and identifying solutions that allow you to focus on celebrating the life of your loved one. TAPS also recognizes that there are always points in your journey—wh
TAPS Issues Tips for the Public Seeking to Express Sympathy or Support for the Families of Those Who Died in the Navy Yard TAPS Issues Tips for the Public Seeking to Express Sympathy or Support for the Families of Those Who Died in the Navy Yard TAPS Issues Tips for the Public Seeking to Express Sympathy or Support for the Families of Those Who Died in the Navy Yard TAPS The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS), issues the following statement: We are saddened by the loss of life and injuries in a shooting incident at the U.S. Navy Yard in Washington D.C. yesterday. TAPS stands ready to assist families
There Is Absolutely Magic in Gratitude 'There Is Absolutely Magic in Gratitude' There Is Absolutely Magic in Gratitude \| TAPS Amber Hockman Unexpected, tragic loss changes a person forever. I believe that we get to choose how it changes us. We can let it destroy us, turning us bitter and angry and cold. Or we can let it soften us, making us kinder and gentler and more grateful. It isn’t an easy choice, either way. Those of us who have lost our loved ones know this to be true. We know the struggle to choose life again after we have
Holiday Wish List for the Grieving Holiday Wish List for the Grieving Holiday Wish List for the Grieving Jeff Brookshire "Happy Hanukkah," they say. "Merry Christmas," they repeat. "Joyous Kwanza," they wish. But for some of us, happy and merry and joy are the remotest emotions of our heart. Especially during this season. Too many memories. Too many traditions. Too much pain. The empty chair at the dinner table. The one less present under the tree. The voice that filled the room with laughter now silent. While some sing that "
TAPS Care Package for College Freshmen TAPS Care Package for College Freshmen TAPS Care Package for College Freshmen \| TAPS TAPS TAPS Education Support Services is excited to open the application period to sign up to receive this year's Education Care Packages for incoming college freshmen. These care packages are for surviving children and siblings headed off to their first year of college. The care packages include a variety of items for young adults, including a TAPS Education Resource Report — a specialized document with in
TAPS Senior Advisor Honored for Ongoing Efforts in the Military, Veteran, Caregiver, and Survivor Communities TAPS Senior Advisor Honored for Ongoing Efforts in the Military, Veteran, Caregiver, and Survivor Communities TAPS Senior Advisor Honored for Ongoing Efforts in the Military, Veteran, Caregiver, and Survivor Communities \| TAPS Kristi Stolzenberg TAPS TAPS is fortunate to have talented staff members, volunteers, ambassadors, board members, and advisors who all answer the call to serve our nation’s military and veteran survivors, and they pour their hearts into the TAPS mission each and eve
Comprehensive Support for Survivors of Trauma Comprehensive Support for Survivors of Trauma Comprehensive Support for Survivors of Trauma \| TAPS Shauna Springer Editor’s note: For more than 10 years, TAPS has comforted and cared for more than 11,500 surviving family members who have lost a military loved one to suicide. Each day, an average of three to four new survivors of suicide loss come to TAPS, and we welcome them with the warm embrace that can only come from those who truly understand their journey. This is the third installment
The Hartwell Foundation: Supporting TAPS Kids The Hartwell Foundation: Supporting TAPS Kids The Hartwell Foundation: Supporting TAPS Kids \| TAPS TAPS The Hartwell Foundation began a search to find the charity doing the best work for military families, and especially for children who have lost a loved one who served in our country’s military. The foundation embarked on a 12-month listening and learning tour. They met with countless organizations, asked probing questions, and checked financial records. The Board had one recommendation –
Thanksgiving Thanksgiving Thanksgiving Michele Hiester Marcum Well, this will be our eighth Thanksgiving without my brother, and I just really can’t believe it’s been that long! Have we really gathered together over eight different turkeys…watched eight seasons of holiday football…braved eight Black Fridays of shopping nonsense since he left this Earth? I remember when I was counting moments and then mere hours, waiting for the agonizing grief to subside. Somewhere along that timeline, the hours stretched
Run and Remember: Running the Boston Marathon for TAPS Run and Remember: Running the Boston Marathon for TAPS Run and Remember: Running the Boston Marathon for TAPS TAPS The TAPS Run and Remember Team fields most of its runners every autumn in the annual Army 10 Miler and Marine Corps Marathon events in Washington, DC. But those aren’t our only venues. Any runner can participate in any event in any location. This year, we are proud to acknowledge two runners who supported TAPS in the prestigious Boston Marathon! Andre Karr Andre Karr was fi
Holiday Healing for the Body, Mind, and Spirit Holiday Healing for the Body, Mind, and Spirit Holiday Healing for the Body, Mind, and Spirit Mary Jane Hurley Brant The holidays have arrived. Normally they are a time for family fun and celebration but when you are grieving the loss of someone who has died, the season is different: it is painful. Grieving is a long process. It takes time to heal from the loss of a loved one. When we are grieving, we can feel completely overwhelmed with sadness, overwhelmed with missing the beloved person
My Memory Scarf: Remembering all of the First Days My Memory Scarf: Remembering all of the First Days My Memory Scarf: Remembering all of the First Days \| TAPS Lydia Burgdorf At my son Carl’s visitation, my friend Robin handed me a book and said, “Just a little something I’ve had set aside for you.” I tucked it in my bag and walked over to greet a new arrival. After the internment service and before another appointment, I opened her gift the next day. Titled “Knit the Sky,” the book was designed to encourage creativity. Its first project sugg
4 Tips for Handling the Holidays with Grieving Children 4 Tips for Handling the Holidays with Grieving Children 4 Tips for Handling the Holidays with Grieving Children \| TAPS Diana Wright Whether it is the first or the 10th year since your loved one’s death, facing the holidays can be stressful. We know the holidays will never be the same, but there are things you can do to make them a little more bearable for both you and your child. 1. Make a plan. Carefully consider invites and festive functions; check in with yourself to see if it is truly
In Moments of Darkness, Hanukkah Reminds Us to Search for the Light In Moments of Darkness, Hanukkah Reminds Us to Search for the Light In Moments of Darkness, Hanukkah Reminds Us to Search for the Light \| TAPS Traci Voelke The miracle of light is celebrated in a season of darkness during Hanukkah and has been a tradition by the Jewish people for over two millennia. For me, the story of Hanukkah is a reminder that during my darkest hours of grief I can find hope by searching for the light with help from my loved ones. My husband, Army Maj. Paul Voelke, wa
Letter From TAPS: We’ve Got You Covered Letter From TAPS: We’ve Got You Covered Letter From TAPS: We’ve Got You Covered Bevin Landrum Winter can be a harsh, bleak expanse of empty days and introspection. We understand that, as another season slowly unfolds; we often consider how to face another spring without our loved ones. That’s why we pledge to be with you all the time and everywhere. For more than 22 years, TAPS has stood ready to embrace you in a moment of need - whenever it may come. TAPS is not a resource for only one se
Gary Morris Celebrity Golf Invitational Gary Morris Celebrity Golf Invitational Gary Morris Celebrity Golf Invitational Christine Burtt Raises support for TAPS for a Fourth Year There is something magical that happens when hundreds of people volunteer their time and money to help others. This year was no exception when the fourth annual Celebrity Invitational for TAPS gifted more than $300,000 for the Good Grief Camps and Adult Survival Seminars. Event Directors Bo and Lynne Cottrell and celebrity host Gary Morris present
National Coffee Day National Coffee Day National Coffee Day \| TAPS TAPS Our partners at Starbucks have been an integral part of supporting the TAPS mission by providing safe and friendly spaces for our Care Groups and TAPS Togethers. They offer the extra love and care as survivors connect with others in their local communities. On National Coffee Day, we give a huge TAPS Family thank you to Starbucks and their staff at locations around the country for their hospitality, for providing survivors a comforting pl
Military Widows Go Skydiving with the Army's Golden Knights Military Widows Go Skydiving with the Army's Golden Knights Military Widows Go Skydiving with the Army's Golden Knights TAPS The widows will go skydiving with the U.S. Army’s Golden Knights, an elite parachute jumping team based at Homestead. For some, the jump is a way to connect with their spouse’s military training and experience. For others, it’s deeply personal. For Terri Starliper, who was widowed when her husband died in a military parachute training accident six weeks after their wedd
Living a Legacy of Kindness Living a Legacy of Kindness Wendy Araiza-Villalpando, Surviving Sister of Marine Corps Sgt Steven Araiza Each day since losing my brother, Sgt Steven Araiza of the United States Marine Corps, on March 13, 2023, I have made it my mission to create an everlasting legacy of his life. I strive to honor him by embodying the same kindness he showed to everyone he met, whether they were lifelong friends or strangers. Steven was a remarkable human being. He had a beautiful soul, and wherever he went
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Video: Suicide Loss Survivor Experiences - Contributing to Suicide Prevention Research Opportunities Video: Suicide Loss Survivor Experiences - Contributing to Suicide Prevention Research Opportunities Suicide Loss Survivor Experiences - Contributing to Suicide Prevention Research Opportunities Webinar \| TAPS Institute Carla Stumpf Patton Ashley Leal This webinar will highlight the efforts of several research groups who have partnered with TAPS with the common goal of learning from the personal experiences and insights of military suicide loss survivors in order to help in future prevention e
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Video: Behind Every Folded Flag is a Family Video: Behind Every Folded Flag is a Family Video: Behind Every Folded Flag is a Family \| TAPS TAPS Media The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) is the leading national organization providing compassionate care and survivor support services for the families of America's fallen military heroes. Since 1994, TAPS has offered support to all those grieving the death of a military loved one through peer-based emotional support, connections with grief and trauma resources, grief seminar
Video: Managing the Difficult Emotions of Anger, Guilt, and Sorrow after Loss Video: Managing the Difficult Emotions of Anger, Guilt, and Sorrow after Loss Managing the Difficult Emotions of Anger, Guilt, and Sorrow after Loss Webinar \| TAPS Institute Andy McNiel The death of someone in our life can bring mental and emotional anguish in great measure and depth like nothing else. This presentation will take a close look at the challenging emotions associated with anger, guilt, and sorrow that often accompany grief. We may feel a sense of responsibility for the circumsta
Video: Moving through the Holidays, Breath & Somatic Techniques for Mind / Body Wellness Video: Moving through the Holidays, Breath & Somatic Techniques for Mind / Body Wellness Moving through the Holidays, Breath & Somatic Techniques for Mind / Body Wellness Webinar \| TAPS Institute Emily Munoz Santa's chimney magic was a result of "laying a finger beside of his nose" - what if you, too, could transport yourself out of and through too-tight situations with simple movements and gestures? In this workshop, we'll talk about the ways that holiday stresses can manifest in our bodies
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Video: Hope for the Holidays from Alan Wolfelt Video: Hope for the Holidays from Alan Wolfelt Video:Hope for the Holidays from Alan Wolfelt \| TAPS Alan Wolfelt Grieving the death of someone loved is often naturally difficult, but during the holiday season it can seem overwhelming. This is particularly true this year with the challenges with COVID-19. In this compassionate video, Dr. Alan Wolfelt provides practical suggestions that will help you survive and still embrace hope during this unique and challenging time. He will remind you to b
Video: How Hospice and Palliative Care Can Support Military Families Video: How Hospice and Palliative Care Can Support Military Families Video: How Hospice and Palliative Care Can Support Military Families \| TAPS Institute Ryan Weller Carlos Graveran Many military families may be caring for someone with a life-limiting illness and may wonder about how hospice and palliative care might help. Ryan Weller, National Program Manager of Palliative & Hospice Care at the Department of Veterans Affairs, will address some common questions and break down some common misu
3 Tips for Trying Mindfulness 3 Tips for Trying Mindfulness 3 Tips for Trying Mindfulness Ashley Rao Mindfulness is all the rage these days — and not without reason. It benefits our minds, bodies and spirits. For those of us who are grieving, developing skills to press “pause” on the spin cycle of our minds is essential — it’s all too easy to go from 0 to 10 on the emotional meltdown scale. Mindfulness promotes an awareness of the present moment and the ability to identify and process our thoughts and emotions without
Team TAPS Runners Participate in Marine Corps Marathon Team TAPS Runners Participate in Marine Corps Marathon Team TAPS Runners Participate in Marine Corps Marathon TAPS Over 300 runners trained for months to run the Marine Corps Marathon & 10K for Team TAPS on October 22. The historic D.C. route had them running up the hill at the Iwo Jima Marine Corps Memorial to cross the finish line. The combined team raised over $100,000 by asking their friends and family members to help them honor the fallen. Some of our race participants lost a battle
Tips for Scholarship Season Tips for Scholarship Season Tips for Scholarship Season Ashlynne Haycock-Lohmann Emily McClimans first came to TAPS through Good Grief Camp after her father, Army Capt. Joshua McClimans, was killed in action in Afghanistan in 2011. While she dreamed of attending Texas Christian University, Emily wasn't sure how to realize her hopes of attending an expensive private school. Then, at the 2015 National Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp, she attended a TAPS Education Support Service
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Saturday Morning Message: Finding A Sense Of Accomplishment In The New Year Saturday Morning Message: Finding A Sense Of Accomplishment In The New Year Finding A Sense Of Accomplishment In The New Year \| TAPS Saturday Morning Message Carol Lane Good Morning, Welcome to the first Saturday Morning Message for 2021! With the beginning of each new year, many of us begin to make plans and set goals and intentions. Although I usually don’t make resolutions, one thing I would like to do in the upcoming year is attend a TAPS seminar. I miss seeing those who are connected t
Saturday Morning Message: Making Plans for the Holidays Saturday Morning Message: Making Plans for the Holidays Making Plans for the Holidays \| TAPS Saturday Morning Message Carol Lane Good Morning, The opening picture is my lilac bush with its beautiful red leaves signaling the beginning of the fall season in the part of our country where I live. Survivors know that their loved ones’ birthdays and angelversaries can be difficult, so plans are often made to help cope. Some holidays can be equally emotionally painful. Today’s responses a
Setting Boundaries While Grieving Setting Boundaries While Grieving Setting Boundaries While Grieving \| TAPS Audri Beugelsdijk Setting boundaries is hard. When it’s our job to take care of others or attend to business, we place a lot of pressure on ourselves to get it right, to not drop balls. After all, we take our responsibilities seriously and don’t want to let anyone down. Even on our best days when we are not grieving, this set of expectations can be incredibly difficult to live up to, if not downright impossible. Our li
TAPS In Action TAPS In Action TAPS In Action Candace Wheeler TAPS is committed to supporting and advancing policy and legislation to strengthen the families of America’s fallen military heroes. Our Policy Team listens to the concerns of our surviving military families and advocates on their behalf. We work to educate military and veteran organizations, Members of Congress, and policymakers within the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA), Department of Defense (DoD), and other government agencies to ensure o
How I learned to confront my despair and rededicate my life How I learned to confront my despair and rededicate my life How I learned to confront my despair and rededicate my life \| TAPS Nicole Langhorst September is National Suicide Prevention Month. This article is the first of five stories by TAPS suicide loss survivors who wish to share lessons learned from their grief journeys. We invite you to share this story using the hashtag #SurvivorSunday. If you know or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, please call the National Suici
Five Reasons to Bring Your Kids to the National Military Survivor Suicide Seminar Five Reasons to Bring Your Kids to the National Military Survivor Suicide Seminar Five Reasons to Bring Your Kids to the National Military Survivor Suicide Seminar \| TAPS Karissa Kelley Protecting children from harm, guarding their innocence, and providing a happy childhood are paramount goals in the mind of a loving caregiver. Words like “death,” “suicide,” and “grief” may not seem to fit with this vision of a happy childhood. Attending a National Military Suicide Survivor Seminar (NMSSS) i
Miles for Kyle Miles for Kyle Miles for Kyle Maggie Osborn Running a marathon for some is a sport; for others a life accomplishment. Me? I run for Kyle. I run in his honor. I run because he can’t. I run to fulfill his goals and complete his bucket list. I run to carry on his memory and to ensure it inspires others as he did in his life on earth. Kyle was a loving, outgoing man who continually sought out new challenges. He was always an active person applying himself to new adventures: fishing, CrossFit,
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Grief and Mental Wellbeing in the New Year Grief and Mental Wellbeing in the New Year Grief and Mental Wellbeing in the New Year \| TAPS Raylene Moore Another year has come to an end and a fresh new year is beginning. Oftentimes this season comes with thoughts of positivity, goal setting, and self-reflection, but for those of us coping with the loss of a loved one, the start of a new year can feel daunting. Whether the loss was decades ago or very recent, the dawn of a new year can leave us yearning for our loved ones, and we can often
Video: Bonnie Carroll Memorial Day Message Video: Memorial Day Message from Bonnie Carroll, TAPS President and Founder Video: Memorial Day Message from Bonnie Carroll, TAPS President and Founder \| TAPS TAPS Media Memorial Day is a day for America to pause and honor those who served and those who have died. For those in the TAPS Family, every day, is our Memorial Day, is it our day to remember the love and the life and to celebrate those extraordinary individuals who we hold close. We are their living legacies. Learn more about Memor
Video: Embracing Your Vulnerability During the Holidays Video: Embracing Your Vulnerability During the Holidays Video: Embracing Your Vulnerability During the Holidays \| TAPS Alan Wolfelt This video with Dr. Alan Wolfelt explores the important topic of allowing yourself to be vulnerable during the holiday season. Dr. Wolfelt has been recognized as one of North America's leading death educators and grief counselors and serves as the director of the Center for Loss & Life Transition in Fort Collins, Colorado. Among his many publications are the book
Video: Active Healing Through Mentoring Video: Active Healing Through Mentoring Active Healing Through Mentoring Webinar \| TAPS Institute Audri Beugelsdijk Jon Ganues Carole Hilton Grief can feel a little less difficult when it is shared with someone who also has experienced a similar loss. The gift of being supported by a peer is immeasurable; and for many, becoming a mentor to someone else has been another meaningful step towards healing. Please join us for a conversation on active and passive healing and how taking a step toward
Video: Grief Journaling in the New Year Video: Grief Journaling in the New Year Grief Journaling in the New Year Webinar \| TAPS Institute Heather Stang Journaling is a powerful way to cope with your grief, as well as gain insight from the many emotions stirred up by a new year. Heather Stang will share guided writing prompts that will help you chart a course for healthy coping, loving reflection, and self-discovery in 2022. This webinar is presented by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing®. Select image below to play the video
Video: How to Talk to Children About Death and Grief Video: How to Talk to Children About Death and Grief How to Talk to Children About Death and Grief Webinar \| TAPS Institute Marianne Matzo There is a wide variation in the ways children of the same age understand death based on what they have experienced and what they already know about it. A child’s understanding of death often draws upon an ages and stages model, but there can be tremendous variability between children. This presentation will share four basic concepts to facilitate a child’
Saturday Morning Message: Navigating Changes In Our Lives Saturday Morning Message: Navigating Changes In Our Lives Navigating Changes In Our Lives \| TAPS Saturday Morning Message TAPS Good Morning TAPS Family, As we enter this last weekend of April, we have begun to see the new growth taking place in the world around us. As flowers bloom, trees take their familiar green shape, and warmer weather greets us, we have an opportunity to explore new growth in ourselves as well. Change has knocked on our door in so many ways. While not all change feels h
Video: Navigating Conversations around Grief and the Holidays Video: Navigating Conversations around Grief and the Holidays Navigating Conversations around Grief and the Holidays Webinar \| TAPS Institute Rachel Kodanaz Planning for and coping with the holidays while grieving can bring up feelings and situations that can be uncomfortable. Join Rachel Kodanaz for an empowering discussion of how to navigate conversations and plans around the holidays. Learn strategies and share ideas about how to find meaningful ways to celebrate the holidays and honor you
Video: A Conversation with the VA about Managing Benefits During this Challenging Time TAPS Talks Video: A Conversation with the VA about Managing Benefits During this Challenging Time Video: A Conversation with the VA about Managing Benefits During this Challenging Time \| TAPS Institute Department of Veterans Affairs This live connection, recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing,® discusses veterans benefits with experts from the Department of Veterans Affairs. Speakers: Kevin Friel, Deputy Director, Pension and Fiduciary Service in Veterans Benefit Administrat
Video: Building Connections in Grief with your Children TAPS Talks Video: Building Connections in Grief with your Children Video: Building Connections in Grief with your Children \| TAPS Institute Vicki Jay Explore ways to create family grief connections at home. This TAPS Talk discusses how to create a safe space for grief conversations with kids and teens . The goal is to increase our comfort as we find opportunities and tools to talk to kids about change, loss and grief. This live connection is recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healin
Video: Go Outdoors! The Healing Power of Nature TAPS Talks Video: Go Outdoors! The Healing Power of Nature Video: Go Outdoors! The Healing Power of Nature \| TAPS Institute Tony Paz Rachel Hunsell Gabriel Rao This live connection, recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® and presented by Tony Paz, TAPS Director of Outdoor Engagement, along with panelists Rachel Hunsell and Gabriel Rao, shares ideas for exploring beneficial outdoor activities and how adding those to your daily routine can boost your mood and relieve stress. Selec
Video: Is it Depression or is it Grief? Video: Is it Depression or is it Grief? Video: Is it Depression or is it Grief? \| TAPS Institute Robert Neimeyer Many professionals hear this question from their bereaved clients, either about themselves or about someone they love. Join Dr. Robert Neimeyer for a discussion of the many ways that grief can be expressed, some strategies to distinguish normal grief from depression, and some recommendations for how to respond to each. This video was recorded and presented by the TAPS Institute fo
Video: Reducing Stress and Restoring Hope TAPS Talks Video: Reducing Stress and Restoring Hope Video: Reducing Stress and Restoring Hope \| TAPS Institute James Gordon This live connection, recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing,® and presented by Harvard psychiatrist James S. Gordon, MD discusses the physical and psychological imbalances that this trauma-heavy time is bringing us, provides some practical guidance in restoring balance and promoting health, and discusses some of the opportunities for mobilizing each perso
Video: Who am I now? TAPS Talks Video: Who am I now? Video: Who am I now? \| TAPS Institute Erin Jacobson Often times a secondary loss after the death of a loved one is the loss of ourselves and the identity we have formerly known. In these challenging times, these questions may be even more acute. This live connection, recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® and presented by Erin Jacobson, shares some tools for self-discovery as a way to examine how to reclaim our identities. Select image below t
Video: Finding Wholeness after Trauma Video: Finding Wholeness after Trauma Video: Finding Wholeness after Trauma \| TAPS Institute James Gordon This video recording of the webinar, recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® with Harvard psychiatrist James S. Gordon, MD, will help offer safe, practical ways for all of us to explore, grow through, and move beyond the trauma that inevitably comes with the loss of those we love. Select image below to play the video. Webinar Slides Finding Wholeness after Trauma (PDF)
Video: We Are TAPS Video: We Are TAPS Video: We Are TAPS TAPS Media Our new TAPS video premiered at the 2019 TAPS Honor Guard Gala held on March 6, 2019, in Washington, D.C., which honored 25 years of caring for the families of America's fallen heroes. Love lives on through each of us. TAPS provides comfort and care 24/7 to all those grieving the death of a military loved one, with services available at no cost to surviving families and loved ones. Go to Support TAPS to learn how you can help. Select image
TAPS Family Campouts: Everything You Need to Know TAPS Family Campouts: Everything You Need to Know TAPS Family Campouts: Everything You Need to Know TAPS Perhaps you see the word “camp” and think of sleeping outdoors in tents, collecting water from a stream, or cooking over an open flame. We would like to invite you to rethink that image. TAPS Family Campouts include many wonderful features, including air-conditioned cabins, home-cooked meals, and hot showers. Family Campouts offer an opportunity for you and your family to find comfort an
Video: Compassion Meditation Video: Compassion Meditation for Meaning Making and Posttraumatic Growth Video: Compassion Meditation for Meaning Making and Posttraumatic Growth \| TAPS Institute Heather Stang This webinar was recorded by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing® and presented by with Heather Stang, MA, C-IATY. This video recording of the webinar addresses how compassion meditation can empower you to become your own best friend and advocate, while deepening your connection to those around you, leading to me
Saturday Morning Message: Warm Wishes for the New Year Saturday Morning Message: Warm Wishes for the New Year Saturday Morning Message: Warm Wishes for the New Year \| TAPS Carol Lane Good Morning, As we come to the beginning of 2018, it might be interesting to think about treating yourself since the passing season might have been very stressful especially for those who are grieving. In the article from the winter 2015 TAPS magazine, there is an article titled “Seven Strategies for the New Year” written by Brad Stetson. In it he encourages some a
Honoring Soldier's Legacy Drives Team TAPS Runner Honoring Soldier's Legacy Drives Team TAPS Runner Honoring Soldier's Legacy Drives Team TAPS Runner TAPS From the moment Cindy Grier heard about Team TAPS and the mission of TAPS, she knew she had to get involved. A couple of years ago, Cindy came across Team TAPS at the Disney Princess Half Marathon expo. “I just started crying,” Cindy said about learning about Team TAPS for the first time. "I was like ‘this is what I need to do." Cindy is no stranger to military life; her grandfathers were
Video: Statement of Kim Ruocco Before the House of Veterans Affairs Statement of Kim Ruocco Before the House of Veterans Affairs Statement of Kim Ruocco Before the House of Veterans Affairs CSPAN Media Kim Ruocco is presently the Chief External Relations Officer for Suicide Prevention and Postvention for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). Ms. Ruocco is an international public speaker who has a unique combination of personal and professional experience, education and training that provides a comprehensive understanding of suicide prevention a
Resource Center: Casework Partnership Resource Center: Casework Partnership Resource Center: Casework Partnership TAPS Pro Bono Legal Assistance The TAPS Casework Department is proud to be available for our TAPS family members, supporting them on a wide variety of topics and issues. This support ranges from assistance with DoD/VA benefit eligibility questions and requests for records, medals, and investigations, to education on survivor benefits and seeking local, regional, and national support for matters like financial assista
TAPS Honor Guard Gala TAPS Honor Guard Gala TAPS Honor Guard Gala TAPS What an amazing and inspiring past few weeks for TAPS! On March 19th, we welcomed 20 military widows and widowed fiancées from all across the country for a new type of amazing retreat in Charleston, South Carolina. Retreat attendees were introduced to a holistic approach which helped them bring transformation within their lives through a combination of athletics, art therapy, journaling, and accountability partnerships. With each activity, part
Bereavement Counseling Bereavement Counseling Bereavement Counseling TAPS Department of Veterans Affairs Vet Centers When America experienced the terrorist attack on September 11, 2001, TAPS was there in the Pentagon Family Assistance Center providing comfort and support for all those who lost loved ones on that fateful day. Hundreds of TAPS Peer Mentors volunteered their time over the course of six weeks, traveling to Washington, DC for a week, living in the Center's headquarters hotel, and offering comfort to th
Healing Your Holiday Grief Healing Your Holiday Grief Healing Your Holiday Grief Betsy Beard 100 Practical Ideas for Blending Mourning and Celebration During the Holiday Season The winter holidays, with their emphases on miracles and gifts, are difficult for those of us grieving the death of an important family member or other loved one. While the hearts of others are lifted in celebration and merry-making, our hearts seem to grow heavier with thoughts of our loved one and the gaping hole they left in our lives. Dr
Saturday Morning Message: Helpful Activities Saturday Morning Message: Helpful Activities Saturday Morning Message: Helpful Activities \| TAPS Carol Lane Good morning, The idea for the question this week came from a discussion we had on the Tuesday general chat about activities that helped lift us from grieving. Debby, wife of Thomas was one of those participating in that chat. She talked about the quilts she makes, so I thought placing her beside one of her quilts would be a good way to open this week’s Saturday Morning Message. It is
What It Means To Hold Space for Someone What It Means To Hold Space for Someone What It Means To Hold Space for Someone \| TAPS Heather Plett The Transformative Effect Of ‘Being There’ For Others Editor's Note: This article was orginally published on Heather's website on March 15, 2015. When my Mom was dying, my siblings and I gathered to be with her in her final days. None of us knew anything about supporting someone in their transition out of this life into the next, but we were pretty sure we wanted to keep her at home. S
Prepare Yourself for the Holidays Prepare Yourself for the Holidays Prepare Yourself for the Holidays \| TAPS Bonnie Carroll Alan Wolfelt “Oh that it were possible, after long grief and pain, to find the arms of my true love around me once again.” ~ Alfred Lord Tennyson Because the person who died is no longer there to share the holidays with you, you may feel particularly sad and vulnerable during Christmas, Hanukkah and other holidays that are special to your family. Don’t overextend yourself during the holidays. Don’
Heading Off to College? Heading Off to College? Heading Off to College? TAPS TAPS Education Support Services is proud to launch the education care packages for incoming college freshmen. Similar in look and feel to TAPS Survivor Resource Kits sent to families after the loss of their loved ones, these care packages will be specific to surviving children and siblings headed off to college. The care packages will include a variety of items for young adults, including a TAPS Education Resource Report — a specialized
Hurricane Disaster Assistance Helps One Family Believe Hurricane Disaster Assistance Helps One Family Believe Hurricane Disaster Assistance Helps One Family Believe \| TAPS TAPS In the aftermath of hurricanes Harvey, Irma and Maria, TAPS families found themselves needing assistance with basic life necessities. Our Casework Team was able to help by connecting our survivors to resources through our long-standing partnerships with government, private, volunteer and charitable organizations that help with military benefits. The Casework Team operated
TAPS Casework Assistance Available to Military Families of the Fallen Affected by Natural Disasters TAPS Casework Assistance Available to Military Families of the Fallen Affected by Natural Disasters TAPS Casework Assistance Available to Military Families of the Fallen Affected by Natural Disasters TAPS For everyone who has endured nature's worst effects, our thoughts are with you. Your TAPS Family is here if you need to speak to someone for extra support and care. We want to do all we can to lessen the added strain on our families. Our Care Team and Casework Department stand ready to deliv
Virtual Connections: Survivors Gather Online Virtual Connections: Survivors Gather Online Virtual Connections: Survivors Gather Online TAPS 2016 was a big year for fostering special connections among survivors through the Online Community. As an online gathering place, survivors can get involved in chat sessions for real-time conversations, message boards that provide a space for questions and comments and peer-based sharing groups. The Online Community provides hope and support for our TAPS family. This year, over 400 new survivors
Growth is a Sign of Life Growth is a Sign of Life Growth is a Sign of Life Elizabeth Rozier For the first time in over a decade, my family had an official family portrait taken. My mom never passes on a great deal and when Groupon sent out one for portraits she bought it and set the date with enough warning no one could give adequate excuse to miss. I know I am writing to people who understand the importance of this occasion and to whom some things don’t need explaining; but for those who need the clarification, i
From Grief to Growth: Healing After a Suicide Loss Guidebook From Grief to Growth: Healing After a Suicide Loss Guidebook From Grief to Growth: Healing After a Suicide Loss Guidebook Second Edition \| TAPS TAPS A Guide for Survivors of Suicide Loss \| Second Edition Produced by TAPS and adapted from the TAPS Suicide Postvention ModelTM This guide was written by survivors, for survivors, and will give you a roadmap to guide you on your journey of grief. You are not alone. You can survive this. Whatever you are feeling is valid and okay (as long as it is
They Tell Me of You They Tell Me of You They Tell Me of You \| TAPS Thomas Dolphin Good morning, my son, it’s been a year, Memorial Days come by so fast. I wanted to tell you that each year at this time Your brothers call and speak of your past. They remind me of how close you became During each workup before you deployed, Of all the dumb things you did to each other. Your company was always a joy, Many have told me how smart you were — Citing history and books you have read Claiming they would have done
Video: Military Leadership Who Support TAPS Video: Military Leadership Who Support TAPS Video: Military Leadership Who Support TAPS \| TAPS TAPS Media At TAPS it's our mission to care for the loved ones of America's Fallen Heroes and we are fortunate to have the support of leaders within the military community. Select image below to play. honor them, military survivor At TAPS it's our mission to care for the loved ones of America's Fallen Heroes and we are fortunate to have the support of leaders within the military community.
Becoming Someone’s Why Becoming Someone’s Why Becoming Someone’s Why \| TAPS TAPS During the last week of September, close to 100 military and veteran surviving family members, representing 25 states, walked the halls of the U.S. Capitol led by the TAPS Government Relations and Legislative Affairs team. These survivors, ranging from ages 8 to 76 years old, had one goal — to advocate for four key bills that would have a profound impact on their lives, their fellow survivors around the country, and the survivors who w
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A Journal For Jordan: Exclusively in Movie Theaters this Christmas A Journal For Jordan: Exclusively in Movie Theaters this Christmas A Journal For Jordan: Exclusively in Movie Theaters this Christmas \| TAPS TAPS Based on Dana Canedy’s bestselling memoir, A Journal for Jordan follows the true story of U.S. Army First Sergeant Charles Monroe King, Canedy’s fiancée. Before being killed in action while deployed in Baghdad, Iraq, King writes a journal for their son intended to tell him how to live a decent life despite growing up without a father. A TAP
From Grief to Growth: Healing After a Suicide Loss Guidebook From Grief to Growth: Healing After a Suicide Loss Guidebook From Grief to Growth: Healing After a Suicide Loss Guidebook \| TAPS TAPS A Guide for Survivors of Suicide Loss Produced by TAPS and adapted from the TAPS Suicide Postvention ModelTM This guide was written by survivors, for survivors, and will give you a roadmap to guide you on your journey of grief. You are not alone. You can survive this. Whatever you are feeling is valid and okay (as long as it is not harmful to yourself or othe
Saturday Morning Message: On Memorial Day and Everyday, TAPS Is Here For You Saturday Morning Message: On Memorial Day and Everyday, TAPS Is Here For You On Memorial Day and Everyday, TAPS Is Here For You \| TAPS Saturday Morning Message TAPS Good Morning TAPS Family, Our vision to grow and share within our survivor community continues to flow with the outpouring of love and care from you! We appreciate all of the dedication and direct responses to our Saturday Morning Message, created by Carol Lane. We are preparing a newly formatted Saturday offering for you that we
Video: Military Leadership Who Support TAPS Video: Military Leadership Who Support TAPS Video: Military Leadership Who Support TAPS \| TAPS TAPS Media At TAPS it's our mission to care for the loved ones of America's Fallen Heroes and we are fortunate to have the support of leaders within the military community. Select image below to play. honor them, military survivor At TAPS it's our mission to care for the loved ones of America's Fallen Heroes and we are fortunate to have the support of leaders within the military community.