The Mission of TAPS

TAPS provides comfort, care and resources to all those grieving the death of a military loved one. Since 1994, TAPS has provided comfort and hope 24/7 through a national peer support network and connection to grief resources, all at no cost to surviving families and loved ones.

TAPS provides a variety of programs to survivors nation and worldwide. Our National Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp has been held annually in Washington, D.C., over Memorial Day weekend since 1994. TAPS also conducts regional survivor seminars for adults and youth programs at locations across the country, as well as retreats and expeditions around the world. Staff can get you connected to counseling in your community and help navigate benefits and resources.

If you are grieving the loss of a fallen service member, or if you know someone who can use our support, the TAPS 24/7 National Military Survivor Helpline is always available toll-free with loving support and resources at 800-959-TAPS (8277).

If you are here because our mission to care for the families of America’s fallen heroes speaks to you as well, we welcome you to connect with us about giving, volunteering, professional engagement or careers.

TAPS is a national nonprofit 501(c)3 Veterans Service Organization and is not part of, or endorsed by, the Department of Defense.


Our Work

In 2020, we connected with 7,583 newly bereaved loved ones, adding to more than 100,000 surviving family members currently receiving support from TAPS. That was an average of 21 new survivors - every day. TAPS provides an array of programs, comfort, and resources for the families of the fallen. As the world faced a global pandemic, TAPS opened our hearts and 27 years of knowledge to share resources and tools with the world. We shared our experience and expertise, conducting nearly 250 training sessions on grief, trauma, and suicide pre/postvention for military commands, corporations, and professionals across America each year. Our staff members are primarily survivors of military loss who have grown up in the TAPS family and who have now made it their profession to pay it forward. Learn more by downloading the impact reports below.


Past Year Impact Reports

TAPS and the United States Military Impact


Peer Support for Bereaved Survivors

Peer support gives those who have had a unique experience or who are facing a personal challenge the framework to connect with another with that shared experience or challenge, either individually or in a group setting. By the simple act of knowing they are not alone in their experience and realizing that others have overcome the challenges they are facing, peers find validation, normalization, and ultimately a sense of hopefulness.

TAPS was founded on the principles of best practices in peer-based emotional support for bereaved survivors. Today, TAPS provides care to grieving military family members using these best practices. Renowned researcher Dr. Paul Bartone has documented the impact of this work in a landmark new systematic review of evidence and best practices in peer-based support. This report highlights eight ground rules for successful programs that can be benchmarked by all those working in peer-based programs.

View the full report Peer Support for Bereaved Survivors: Systematic Review of Evidence and Identification of Best Practices.

View the TAPS press release about this study.

Additional publication on Peer Support for the Military Bereaved:

Bartone, P., Dooley, C. (2021) Peer Support for the Bereaved. In J. Avery. Peer Support in Medicine: A Quick Guide. Springer

Risk Factors for Complicated Grief in the Military Community. OMEGA - Journal of Death and Dying, First Published 20 May 2021. Grace E. Seamon-Lahiff, Chantel M. Dooley, Paul T. Bartone, Bonnie Carroll