Lake of the Ozarks Mom’s Retreat
October 22 - 26, 2025
TAPS, in partnership with Operation BBQ Relief (Camp OBR), invites surviving moms who are more than six months out from their loss for five days at Missouri's Lake of the Ozarks for a time of fellowship, adventure, and a culinary experience.
OVERVIEW
The grief journey takes us out of our comfort zone. But when we join with other surviving mothers who share this journey, we can find new ways to grow and heal with a little more confidence. Join us at Camp OBR, where you can connect with yourself, your loved one, and others who understand. The incredible chefs at Camp OBR will guide survivors in unique culinary experiences as they create incredible meals and challenge their culinary abilities. Survivors will be able to experience the beauty of their surroundings through lake activities, hiking, archery, 4-wheeling, and creative expression. Through a week of adventure, community, and growth, survivors will create unique bonds stemming from their shared experiences of loss and grief.
Who should attend? Due to the unique nature of this event, this TAPS Lake of the Ozarks Mom's Retreat is intended for those surviving moms whose loss occurred more than six months ago. If you are within the first six months following your loss, we encourage you to attend a TAPS Togethers, Regional Seminar and/or the National Military Survivor Seminar.
SCHEDULE
Wednesday, October 22: Travel day. Survivors arriving at the airport will be shuttled to Camp OBR based on individual flight arrival times. TAPS staff will be there to greet you and get you checked in. We’ll have an opportunity to get settled in, meet fellow survivors, enjoy dinner together, get an overview of what to expect, and relax.
Thursday, October 23 to Saturday, October 25: Each day will be filled with opportunities to develop coping skills, share experiences, and build peer connections. Activities, including farm-to-table culinary experiences, hiking, boating and watersports, archery, ATV riding, and more will be available. There will also be individual time to reflect on new experiences and connections, and your next journeys ahead.
Sunday, October 26: Departure day. For survivors departing from the airport, shuttles will be scheduled based on individual flight departure times.
ADVENTURE LEVEL
This retreat is rated as a moderate-intensity adventure. We'll be active and everyone will have an opportunity to challenge themselves. Activities will involve moderate physical exertion. Much of our time will be spent outdoors. There will also be time to relax and connect with one another.
EVENT FEES
All trip fees from arrival to departure are covered by TAPS thanks to our generous donors.
Trip fees not noted above are your pre/post retreat transportation costs, meals outside of events, etc.
LODGING AND TRANSPORTATION
Thanks to our generous donors, lodging will be provided, at Camp OBR, for all attendees from Wednesday to Sunday. You'll share a room with other event attendees, but will have your own bed.
If driving, you will need to cover the cost of your transportation to and from Lincoln, Missouri. If you are flying in, a shuttle will be provided from and back to the Kansas City International Airport (MCI) in Kansas City, Missouri. Please do not make travel arrangements until you receive a welcome email after being invited to register.
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION
Before you submit your application, we encourage you to take time to review potential travel (air and vehicle) costs, possible time off work, child care, and so on before submitting your application.
Meals: All meals are included while at the event. Accommodations can be made for food allergies and dietary requirements, but please note this facility heavily relies on meat-based dishes.
Animals: Camp OBR is service dog friendly; however this retreat location is not suitable for emotional support animals. If you have any questions please contact adultprograms@taps.org.
Firearms and Guns: Are prohibited at Camp OBR without prior written permission from Camp OBR personnel. All approved firearms and guns must be kept in the Camp OBR gun safe. Firearms and guns can not be stored in or on personal vehicles. Firearms and guns will not be used during this event. Firearms and guns are not permitted in any Camp OBR residences, rooms, tents, nor anywhere else on Camp OBR grounds except specifically designated areas. If you have any questions please contact adultprograms@taps.org.
APPLICATION DETAILS
Applications will open on June 9, 2025 (look for the blue button at the top of this page) and will close June 15, 2025.
TAPS will review applications, giving first consideration for those who have never attended this or any other TAPS retreat, in order for the greatest number of survivors to have an opportunity to attend. Thank you for your understanding.
If you have any questions, please email adultprograms@taps.org or call 800-959-TAPS (8277).