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Donate your Vehicle for TAPS Donate Vehicle Main Content Area Vehicle Donation Form Donate your Vehicle for TAPS donate my car, Capital Auto Turn your vehicle into a resource that helps our military survivors. The process is easy and we provide free and convenient pick-up.

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Donate your Vehicle | TAPS Donate Your Vehicle to Support TAPS Donating is a great way to get rid of an old or extra vehicle. There are a couple ways to donate. Car Donation Foundation d/b/a Vehicles For Veterans is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit vehicle donation program dedicated to providing funding that will help to build better lives for all of our nation's veterans and their families. Car Donation Foundation accepts cars, boats, RVs, motorcycles or other vehicles. Proceeds support TAPS programs

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Support TAPS Supporter Main Content Supporters surviving military families, donate TAPS is one of the leading military service organizations, and we encourage you to join our cause. To support surviving military families, you can donate to TAPS or volunteer your time.

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College Board Giving Campaign

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Support TAPS Support Main Content Area 2023 Charity Logos 2024 Donor News Related Articles surviving military families, donate TAPS is one of the leading military service organizations, and we encourage you to join our cause. To support surviving military families, you can donate to TAPS or volunteer your time.

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Combined Federal Campaign

Combined Federal Campaign | TAPS Combined Federal Campaign Federal employees can donate to the nonprofit of their choice through the Combined Federal Campaign (CFC), a workplace giving program. Show your support for families of America’s fallen heroes by designating TAPS as a recipient of your CFC contribution. The TAPS Combined Federal Campaign donation ID code is "11309." Make sure to indicate this number on the CFC donation form distributed by your federal employer. TAPS is

Mileage Plus Miles on a Mission

Mileage Plus Miles on a Mission | TAPS United MileagePlus - Miles on a Mission The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) is the national nonprofit organization providing compassionate care and comprehensive resources for all those grieving the death of a military or veteran loved one. Now through August 18, 2023, frequent fliers from United Airlines can donate miles to TAPS, an approved United Airlines MileagePlus Mission Charity. With your steadfast support, TAPS upholds the promi

Fundraiser: 9/11 Memorial Golf Outing

7th Annual Montgomery County 9/11 Memorial Golf Outing Donate in Memory of Lieutenant Darin H. Pontell To donate to this event in memory of LT Darin H. Pontell, USNR, select the Donate to TAPS button above and make sure the 'Make this is an honor or memorial gift' checkbox is selected.   Event Information Friday, September 13, 2019 Laytonsville Golf Course Registration and range open at 8 a.m. Player Registration: 90.00 per player includes light breakfast, range balls, golf, cart, lunch

Team TAPS: Armed Forces Cycling Classic

Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Armed Forces Cycling Classic. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 23160 Arlington, Virginia 22202 team taps, honor the fallen Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program f

Team TAPS: Armed Forces Cycling Classic

Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Armed Forces Cycling Classic. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 51607 Arlington, Virginia 22202 team taps, honor the fallen Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program f

Team TAPS: Armed Forces Cycling Classic

Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Armed Forces Cycling Classic. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 23160 Arlington, Virginia 22202 team taps, honor the fallen Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program f

Team TAPS: Armed Forces Cycling Classic

Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Armed Forces Cycling Classic. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 23160 Arlington, Virginia 22202 team taps, honor the fallen Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program f

Team TAPS: West Point Fallen Comrades Half Marathon

West Point Fallen Comrades Half Marathon Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the West Point Fallen Comrades Half Marathon. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 23083 West Point, New York 10996 team taps, honor the fallen West Point Fallen Comrades Half Marathon Join the team to raise funds and awareness

Team TAPS: Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend

Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 22871 Virginia Beach, Virginia 23455 team taps, honor the fallen Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tr

Team TAPS: Armed Forces Cycling Classic

Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Armed Forces Cycling Classic. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 23160 Arlington, Virginia team taps, honor the fallen Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Su

Team TAPS: Great Aloha Run

Great Aloha Run Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Great Aloha Run. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 22595 Honolulu, Hawaii team taps, honor the fallen Great Aloha Run Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). TAPS provides direct supp

Team TAPS: West Point Fallen Comrades Half Marathon

West Point Fallen Comrades Half Marathon Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the West Point Fallen Comrades Half Marathon. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 23083 West Point, New York team taps, honor the fallen West Point Fallen Comrades Half Marathon Join the team to raise funds and awareness for

Team TAPS: Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend

Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 22871 Virginia Beach, Virginia team taps, honor the fallen Great Aloha Run Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program

Team TAPS: Aloha Run

Great Aloha Run Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Great Aloha Run. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event   10544 Honolulu, Hawaii team taps, honor the fallen Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). TAPS provides direct support to familie

Team TAPS: Georgia Marathon

Georgia Marathon Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Georgia Marathon. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 10544 Atlanta, Georgia team taps, honor the fallen Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). TAPS provides direct support to families who

Team TAPS: MCHH

Marine Corps Historic Half Marathon, Marine Corps Historic Half and Semper Fi 5 Miler Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Georgia Marathon. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 10905 Fredericksburg, Virginia team taps, honor the fallen Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistan

Team TAPS: North Face Challenge

North Face Challenge Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Great Aloha Run. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 10528 Algonkian Regional Park, Washington DC team taps, honor the fallen Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). TAPS provides direct

Video: Teton Ridge Foundation Honors TAPS Families at The American Rodeo

Video: Teton Ridge Foundation Honors TAPS Families at The American Rodeo Teton Ridge Foundation Teton Ridge Foundation gave recognition and honor to over 250 surviving military families at The American Rodeo in Arlington, Texas on March 6, 2022. We thank Teton Ridge Foundation for their generous gift in support of TAPS. Support the mission, donate today. Select image below to play.   the american rodeo, america's fallen heroes, help for military families Teton Ridge Foundation gave reco

Video: 27 Years - 27 Ways

Video: 27 Years - 27 Ways TAPS Media TAPS was founded 27 years ago! In commemoration of this anniversary we'd like to share 27 ways in which TAPS provides help, hope, and healing to the families of America's fallen heroes. Support the mission, donate today. Select image below to play.   taps anniversary, america's fallen heroes, help for military families TAPS was founded 27 years ago! In commemoration, we share 27 ways in which TAPS provides help, hope, and healing to the families of A

Team TAPS: Armed Forces Cycling Classic

Armed Forces Cycling Classic Armed Forces Cycling Classic | Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Armed Forces Cycling Classic. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Rider Donate to the Event 23160 Arlington, Virginia 22202 team taps, honor the fallen Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and awareness f

Fundraiser: USAA Bowlathon

USAA Bowlathon WELCOME to the 2016 USAA San Antonio Bowlathon! We are proud to announce the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) will be the beneficiary of the 2016 USAA San Antonio Bowlathon. We are looking forward to working with USAA employees, retirees and family members as we support a very important organization. Ready to bowl? Each bowling team must raise or donate $250 (or $50 per bowler) to TAPS for their team to participate in Bowlathon. A new option this year is to fund

Giving to Help the Families of our Fallen Military

Giving to Help the Families of our Fallen Military TAPS Why do I donate to the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) each year via the Combined Federal Campaign?  It’s because of Memorial Day Weekend 2007. This weekend forever changed my perspective on life.   It was the beginning of a journey which would lead me to becoming a “TAPS-aholic.”  With no knowledge of what to expect that first weekend of volunteering, I just hoped to make a positive impact on a young child’s life at

Fundraiser: Spencer Wing 2023 Memorial Golf Tournament

Spencer Wing 2023 Memorial Golf Tournament   Spencer Wing Memorial Stonehedges Golf Course 549 Stevens Road, Groton, New York 13073 9:00 a.m. - Registration 10:00 a.m. - Shotgun Start Captain and Crew (Men’s,Women’s & Mixed)  Register a Team $80.00 per Player $320.00 per Team  Includes cart, golf, dinner and fun! Register a team to play » Sponsorship All sponsors of $100 or more will have a sign on one of the holes. We are also accepting raffle item donations. Sign up t

Fundraiser: Spencer Wing 2022 Memorial Golf Tournament

Spencer Wing 2022 Memorial Golf Tournament   Spencer Wing Memorial Stonehedges Golf Course 549 Stevens Road, Groton, New York 13073 9:00 a.m. - Registration 10:00 a.m. - Shotgun Start Captain and Crew (Men’s,Women’s & Mixed)  Register a Team $80.00 per Player $320.00 per Team  Includes cart, golf, dinner and fun! Register a team to play » Sponsorship All sponsors of $100 or more will have a sign on one of the holes. We are also accepting raffle item donations. Sign up t

Fundraiser: Let’s Honor Our Heroes, Together!

Let’s Honor Our Heroes, Together! Join us for a live, 24-hour charity Spinning® event in support of the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) — an amazing organization that supports families who've lost a loved one in the military. Donate   How to Join the Ride: You can cycle along with us online through our live-stream, or sign-up to reserve a bike in the San Diego studio for one, two, or even more hours! Our passionate Studio SWEAT trainers will be there, leading and inspiri

Fundraiser: Spencer Wing 2021 Memorial Golf Tournament

Spencer Wing 2021 Memorial Golf Tournament Thanks for Joining Us and See you Next Year!   Spencer Wing Memorial Stonehedges Golf Course 549 Stevens Road, Groton, New York 13073 8:00 a.m. - Registration 9:00 a.m. - Shotgun Start Captain and Crew (Men’s,Women’s & Mixed)  Register a Team $75.00 per Player $300.00 per Team  Includes cart, golf, dinner and fun! Register a team to play » Sponsorship All sponsors of $100 or more will have a sign on one of the holes. We are

Fundraiser: Holiday Gift Card Drive for TAPS

Holiday Gift Card Drive for TAPS Event Details   |   Event Flyer Donate a gift card (any amount) redeemable at any nationwide store or restaurant to help a military family facing financial hardship over the holidays (examples: Walmart, Target, Amazon, Chick-fil-A, McDonald’s, Chipotle, etc.). Credit card donations, cash, and checks (payable to TAPS) are also welcome. All donations will benefit families of the fallen in Colorado. Sponsored by the Mike Boyle Restaurant Show 710 KNUS - 14

Fundraiser: Spencer Wing 2020 Memorial Golf Tournament

Spencer Wing 2020 Memorial Golf Tournament     Spencer Wing Memorial Stonehedges Golf Course 549 Stevens Road, Groton, New York 13073 9:00 a.m. - Registration 10:00 a.m. - Shotgun Start Captain and Crew (Men’s,Women’s & Mixed)  Register a Team $75.00 per Player $300.00 per Team  Includes cart, golf, dinner and fun! Register a team to play » Sponsorship All sponsors of $100 or more will have a sign on one of the holes. We are also accepting raffle item donations. Sign u

Fundraiser: Greene Turtle

TAPS Fundraiser Please stop by The Greene Turtle in Aberdeen or Perryville in Maryland on July 10 from 11 a.m. to midnight for a fundraiser to benefit TAPS. 20% Promotion Present the flyer on this page (printed or digital copy) with your check at the Aberdeen or Perryville location and the Greene Turtle will donate 20% of your bill to TAPS! Silent Auction and Raffle | 4:30 - 6 p.m. | Aberdeen location only Support TAPS and mingle with those in the local community. Appetizers will b

Team TAPS: Old Glory Ultra

Old Glory Ultra 50K, Half Marathon and 10K Race Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Old Glory Ultra 50K, Half Marathon, and 10K Race. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 22980 Glen Lyn, Virginia team taps, honor the fallen Old Glory Ultra 50K, Half Marathon and 10K Join the team to raise funds and

Team TAPS: Old Glory Ultra

Old Glory Ultra 50K, Half Marathon, 10K, and Half Marathon Relay Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Old Glory Ultra 50K, Half Marathon, 10K, and Half Marathon Relay. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 22980 Glen Lyn, Virginia team taps, honor the fallen Old Glory Ultra 50K, Half Marathon, 10K, an

TAPS Good Grief Camp Mentor Shares About Giving to Help the Families of our Fallen Military

TAPS Good Grief Camp Mentor Shares About Giving to Help the Families of our Fallen Military TAPS There are many worthwhile causes to donate to during the Combined Federal Campaign, but none have left its "finger prints" on my life like TAPS has.  Little did I know how volunteering one Memorial Day Weekend in 2006 would change my life forever and provide me with an organization that I would not only love, but give my time, money and support to. While others are remembering the service of those

Honoring 30 Years

Legacies Live On - Honoring 30 years | TAPS 30 Years Grid 2024 Legacies Live On - Honoring 30 years Recognizing 30 years of TAPS allows us to reflect on the hundreds of thousands of military and veteran survivors we have supported and the thousands of fallen heroes we have honored together as a community of survivors. Though unimaginable loss brought us together, hope unites us and carries us forward. We draw strength from each other and take refuge in the comfort of TAPS — w

We Find Our Strength Together

We Find Our Strength Together TAPS Our TAPS family makes memories beyond the seminars and retreats, in small towns and big cities, in communities across America. We enjoy family meals and experience new adventures together. We come together for TAPS Care Groups or to attend sporting events or to take in special events of all sorts. We call these opportunities to be with our new found friends “TAPS Togethers,” one-day events in communities across the country bringing surviving military famili

About Memorial Day

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Fundraiser: Putting for Patriots

Putting for Patriots Golf Fundraiser Annual Golf Fund Raiser hosted by Pirate's Island, Jungle Golf and Pirate's Cove Putting for Patriots is an annual fund raising event conducted by the Pirate's Island, Jungle Golf and Pirate's Cove chains of adventure golf courses.   They proudly support three pre-screened charities that as a group efficiently serve our wounded, their families and the survivors of fallen military members. The event takes place each May, culminating on Memorial Day weekend. 

Fundraiser: Putting for Patriots

Putting for Patriots Golf Fundraiser Annual Golf Fund Raiser hosted by Pirate's Island, Jungle Golf and Pirate's Cove Putting for Patriots is an annual fund raising event conducted by the Pirate's Island, Jungle Golf and Pirate's Cove chains of adventure golf courses.   They proudly support three pre-screened charities that as a group efficiently serve our wounded, their families and the survivors of fallen military members. The event takes place each May, culminating on Memorial Day weekend. 

Retreats: California

Southern California Adult Children Retreat FOR ADULT CHILDREN Experience the beauty and serenity of Southern California as we connect with other surviving adult children, create lifelong friendships and celebrate our heroes as we help each other move forward in our journey. ADVENTURE LEVEL This retreat is rated as an intermediate intensity adventure. Activities will involve moderate physical activity and will challenge you, but do not include extreme adventures. IMPORTANT INFORMATION Tha

Retreats: Montana

Montana Widows and Sisters Retreat FOR WOMEN At this first-ever retreat dedicated to sisters and significant others, we will form bonds of friendship as we honor our loved ones, push each other beyond our comfort zones, and gain new perspectives on our losses. ADVENTURE LEVEL This retreat is rated as an intermediate intensity adventure. Activities will involve moderate physical activity and will challenge you. You should expect to participate in at least one athletic activity each day, inc

Retreats: Montana Men

Montana Men Retreat FOR MEN Connect with other surviving fathers, brothers and other men who have lost a loved one who has served in the military. We will create lifelong friendships and celebrate our heroes as we help each other move forward on our journey. ADVENTURE LEVEL This retreat is rated as a light intensity adventure. We will be active throughout the retreat and will challenge you, however activities will involve light physical exertion. Activities include Fly fishing and other wa

Retreats: Wisconsin

Wisconsin Womens Retreat FOR WOMEN Connect with other women as we challenge ourselves to step beyond our comfort zones and create life-long friendships. ADVENTURE LEVEL This retreat is rated as a recreational intensity adventure. We will be active throughout the retreat, and will challenge you, but activities will involve light physical exertion. IMPORTANT INFORMATION Thanks to the generosity of our donors and sponsors, TAPS will provide lodging, most meals and all activity costs. Unfort

TAPS Impact Report 2022

TAPS Impact Report 2022 TAPS Impact  Full Screen      Download PDF   Donate NOw   To Impact Our Grieving Military Families //

TAPS Impact Report 2021

TAPS Impact Report 2021 TAPS Impact  Full Screen      Download PDF   Donate NOw   To Impact Our Grieving Military Families //

TAPS Impact Report 2020

TAPS Impact Report 2020 TAPS Impact  Full Screen      Download PDF   Donate NOw   To Impact Our Grieving Military Families //

Video: Thinking of You

Video: Thinking of You TAPS Media The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) leads the effort to bring hope and healing to those who experience the loss of a military hero. TAPS provides support for our nation’s military survivors at events like the National Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp. Through TAPS, thousands of military survivors are gathered together this Memorial Day weekend in a safe space where they can honor their fallen heroes amidst the backdrop of our nat

Gates Foundation #GivingTuesday match

November 28 Gates Foundation #GivingTuesday Match TAPS On #GivingTuesday, Facebook and The Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation will be matching up to $2 million of funds raised for U.S. nonprofits through Facebook's charitable giving tools. Donations can be matched up to $50,000 per nonprofit! There is a max of $1,000 per individual supporter fundraiser or donate button and the match only lasts until the $2 million in matching funds run out.  TAPS supporters should prepare in advance by setting

Team TAPS Runners Participate in the TCS New York City Marathon

Team TAPS Runners Participate in the TCS New York City Marathon TAPS Kelly McHugh Stewart is running the TCS New York City Marathon this weekend to honor the life and legacy of her father, LTC John McHugh. He was a marathoner, but never had the opportunity to run the New York City race. Kelly has been training for months to run with Team TAPS and is near her fundraising goal of $3,000 to help raise awareness and money for families of the fallen. Stewart was only 18 when her father died in A

Caregiver to Survivor (C2S) Partnership Executive Summary 2023

Caregiver to Survivor (C2S) Partnership Executive Summary 2023 TAPS Red Cross Military and Veteran Caregiver Network Elizabeth Dole Foundation For more information, visit the Caregiver to Survivor page.  Full Screen      Download PDF   Donate NOw   To Impact Our Grieving Military Families //

Caregiver to Survivor (C2S) Partnership Report 2023

Caregiver to Survivor (C2S) Partnership Report 2023 TAPS Red Cross Military and Veteran Caregiver Network Elizabeth Dole Foundation For more information, visit the Caregiver to Survivor page.  Full Screen      Download PDF   Donate NOw   To Impact Our Grieving Military Families //

TAPS Survivor Newsletter February 2024

TAPS Survivor Newsletter February 2024 TAPS Media C.S. Lewis once wrote, “No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear.” Fear, anxiousness, and uneasiness — as TAPS Advisory Board Member Dr. Alan Wolfelt explains — are all normal reactions to loss. In part two of his series, “You’re Not Crazy — You’re Grieving,” Dr. Wolfelt explains why fear and grief go hand in hand, and he offers coping tools to guide you through this part of the grief journey. Read on to learn more about your emotions

TAPS Impact Report 2023

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Fundraiser: Putting for Patriots

Putting for Patriots Golf Fundraiser Putting for Patriots Golf Fundraiser | TAPS Annual Golf Fund Raiser hosted by Pirate's Island, Jungle Golf and Pirate's Cove Putting for Patriots is an annual fund raising event conducted by the Pirate's Island, Jungle Golf and Pirate's Cove chains of adventure golf courses.   We proudly support local, Veteran-related charities in our various markets, plus two national charities that efficiently serve our wounded, their families and Veterans suffering from

Giving Back and Paying it Forward

Giving Back and Paying it Forward TAPS TAPS relies on the generosity of its supporters to fund the critical resources, programs, and services vital to the healing of those who have lost a military loved one. The TAPS mission is a 24/7 effort, and the TAPS Development Team strives to accomplish two goals: (1) share the TAPS mission of hope and healing, and (2) raise funds necessary to support our military survivors.  The COVID-19 pandemic struck in 2020; the country was uncertain about its ec

Retreats: Alaska

Alaska Widows and Significant Others Retreat FOR Widows and Significant Others Journey to the "Last Frontier" as we experience the beauty, serenity and adventure of Alaska! This retreat may include activities such as snowshoeing, dog sledding and skiing, and a visit to the Ceremonial Start of the world famous Iditarod. Connect with fellow surviving spouses, fiancées and significant others as we challenge ourselves to step beyond our comfort zones and create life-long friendships amidst the mou

Retreats: Alaska Parents

Alaska Parents Retreat FOR PARENTS Experience the beauty and serenity of Alaska as we connect with other surviving parents, create lifelong friendships and celebrate our heroes as we help each other move forward in our journey. ADVENTURE LEVEL This retreat is rated as an intermediate intensity adventure. Activities will involve moderate physical activity and will challenge you, but do not include extreme adventures. You should expect to participate in some form of physical activity daily,

Retreats: Alaska Siblings

Alaska Siblings Retreat FOR SIBLILNGS Experience the adventure of The Last Frontier as we connect with other surviving siblings, create lifelong friendships and celebrate our heroes as we help each other move forward in our journey. ADVENTURE LEVEL This retreat is rated as an intermediate intensity adventure. Activities will involve moderate physical activity and will challenge you, but do not include extreme adventures. You should expect to participate in some form of physical activity da

Retreats: Atlanta

Atlanta Widows and Significant Others Retreat FOR WIDOWS AND SIGNIFICANT OTHERS Connect with fellow surviving spouses, fiancees and significant others as we challenge ourselves to step beyond our comfort zones with a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to SWIM WITH WHALE SHARKS AT THE GEORGIA AQUARIUM! We will journey with these "gentle giants" as we form bonds of friendship with fellow survivors and celebrate our heroes in historic Atlanta. ADVENTURE LEVEL This retreat is rated as an intermedi

Retreats: Charleston

Charleston Moms Retreat FOR MOMS Connect with other moms and create lifelong friendships as we celebrate our heroes and help each other move forward on our journey. ADVENTURE LEVEL This retreat is rated as a light intensity adventure. We will be active throughout the retreat and will challenge you, however activities will involve light physical exertion. IMPORTANT INFORMATION Thanks to the generosity of our donors and sponsors, TAPS will provide lodging, most meals and all activity costs

Retreats: Florida

Florida Parents Retreat FOR PARENTS AND STEP-PARENTS Experience the beauty and serenity of the Florida Gulf Coast as we connect with other surviving parents, create lifelong friendships and celebrate our heroes as we help each other move forward in our journey. ADVENTURE LEVEL This retreat is rated as an intermediate intensity adventure. Activities will involve moderate physical activity and will challenge you, but do not include extreme adventures. IMPORTANT INFORMATION Thanks to the ge

Retreats: Florida Siblings

Florida Siblings Retreat FOR SIBLINGS Experience the beauty and serenity of Florida as we connect with other surviving siblings, create lifelong friendships and celebrate our heroes as we help each other move forward in our journey. ADVENTURE LEVEL This retreat is rated as an intermediate intensity adventure. Activities will involve moderate physical activity and will challenge you, but do not include extreme adventures. IMPORTANT INFORMATION Thanks to the generosity of our donors and sp

Retreats: IslandWood Moms Retreat

IslandWood Moms Retreat FOR MOMS Experience the beauty and serenity of Bainbridge Island, just outside of Seattle, Washington! Connect with other moms and create lifelong friendships as we celebrate our heroes and help each other move forward on our journey. ADVENTURE LEVEL This retreat is rated as a light intensity adventure. We will be active throughout the retreat and will challenge you, however activities will involve light physical exertion. IMPORTANT INFORMATION Thanks to the gener

Colorado Celebrity Classic Raises over $330,000 for TAPS

Colorado Celebrity Classic Raises over $330,000 for TAPS Christine Burtt The Colorado Celebrity Classic hosted its 14th Annual Saluting Our Fallen Heroes Dinner & Songwriters Show on Saturday, June 16, 2018 at the Grove Family Ranch in Centennial, Colorado. About 518 guests enjoyed an evening of fun and music and raised more than $330,000 for TAPS.  Headliner Pam Tillis, a two-time Grammy and Country Music Award winner and daughter of country music legend, Mel Tillis, was joined with a pa

Yuengling Lagers for Heroes Salute Veterans and Their Families

Yuengling Lagers for Heroes Salute Veterans and Their Families TAPS TAPS is proud to have the support of America's Oldest Brewery, D.G. Yuengling & Son during the month of May as together we raise a toast to honor our military heroes. Fiercely independent for nearly 190 years, Yuengling is thankful and proud of the brave and dedicated service men and women who make tremendous sacrifices and represent our country's freedom, honor and independence. The military has always been a community with

TAPS Good Grief Camp Wreath Book

TAPS Good Grief Camp Wreath Book TAPS Each year at the Annual National Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp held over Memorial Day weekend, children from the Good Grief Camp and TAPS volunteers come together to create a wreath to honor their special loved one. This handmade wreath is then laid at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier on Memorial Day. This book is filled with photos taken in May 2023 of the making of this traditional wreath. It was created by TAPS and gifted to the 89th Air

Youth: Space Camp

TAPS at U.S. Space and Rocket Center Space Camp Children ages 11 to 14 or 6th to 8th grade who have lost a parent/guardian or sibling who served in the Armed Forces are invited to participate in the Pathfinder Program at U.S. Space and Rocket Center.     Pathfinder is a 3 day, 2 night structured educational adventure that allows campers the opportunity to explore the U.S. Space and Rocket Center. Campers will participate as trainees where they will get first hand experience of what it is

Youth: Space Camp

TAPS at U.S. Space and Rocket Center Space Camp Registration is closed and waitlist is full. Children in grades 1st to 8th who have lost a parent/guardian or sibling who served in the Armed Forces are invited to participate in the Surveyor Space Program at U.S. Space and Rocket Center.     Surveyor is a one-night, structured educational adventure that allows campers the opportunity to explore the U.S. Space and Rocket Center. Campers will participate as trainees where they will train

Retreats: Dude Ranch

Dude Ranch All Populations Retreat FOR MEN AND WOMEN Have you ever dreamed of herding cattle or roping steer alongside a real cowboy or cowgirl? Join fellow survivors on a real working Dude Ranch to celebrate your heroes as you push through boundaries and overcome challenges together.  This retreat is open to spouses and relationship partners, parents, siblings and adult children who have lost a loved one who served in the military. This retreat is open to both men and women. ADVENTURE LEV

Re-Creating Holiday Traditions

Re-Creating Holiday Traditions Tina Barrett Ideas for Families Facing Very Different Holidays Holidays can be stressful, even during the best of times. For families grieving a loved one, significant dates hold even more emotional intensity and complexity. Reminders of the season — lights, music, decorations, and gift-giving — may seem out of sync with internal feelings or may trigger painful memories for families facing a very different holiday. The following are a few ideas fo

Thank You for Supporting Our Mission in 2022

Thank You for Supporting Our Mission in 2022 TAPS TAPS is grateful for the incredible outpouring of support we received in 2022. We are humbled that so many members of our TAPS family brought us along as they honored their loved one; we applaud the communities around the country who gathered to pay tribute to local heroes; and we sincerely thank our growing circle of supporters for sharing the TAPS mission. When you fundraise for TAPS, you are doing so much more than raising money. You are he

Make the Most of Time at Home: Share Your Loved One’s Story

Make the Most of Time at Home: Share Your Loved One’s Story Kerry Ward As we navigate these uncertain times, I have found that there is a silver lining with spending more time in the house: it has forced me to focus on projects I hadn’t yet had time to tackle. As I cleaned out my hall closet, I found myself face-to-face with memories I hadn’t thought about in years. I called an old friend and told her about a specific photo that featured a silly picture of her brother, who had passed away a f

Camaraderie and Comfort

Camaraderie and Comfort TAPS In small towns and big cities, at a coffee shop in a quiet room—the comfort and camaraderie of your TAPS family is right around the corner and close to home. Whether you want to talk about your grief and gain insight into how others are coping, share a casual visit or participate in an activity where you can enjoy the sights and sounds of nature—the love and care of TAPS is present where you live, work and play.  TAPS Togethers and Care Groups are relaxed, casual

Living with Less After Loss

Living with Less After Loss Chris Shank As a kid, my brother would always give me a hard time because I choked on food easily. I wouldn't be in danger or anything, but he thought it was hilarious. He'd glare at me from across the table, smile and ask, “You choking?” Years later, after his death, I looked around my messy, crammed apartment and imagined him asking me that question again. Yes, I was choking. Not on food this time, but on stuff. I was choking and feeling smothered and overwhelme

Family Campout: Maryland

Maryland Family Campout Find comfort and support for your family while surrounded by the healing powers of nature at our TAPS Family Campout. Family campouts allow your family to step away from the stresses of daily life, learn about your individual grief journey as well as how to grieve as a family and give you tools for the path ahead. Through camp activities, like rope courses, swimming and nature walks, family time around the campfire and separate group time for adults and children, we'll

Family Campout: Tennessee

Tennessee Family Campout Find comfort and support for your family while surrounded by the healing powers of nature at our TAPS Family Campout. Family campouts allow your family to step away from the stresses of daily life, learn about your individual grief journey as well as how to grieve as a family and give you tools for the path ahead. Through camp activities, like rope courses, swimming and nature walks, family time around the campfire and separate group time for adults and children, we'll

Family Campout: Texas

Texas Family Campout Find comfort and support for your family while surrounded by the healing powers of nature at our TAPS Family Campout. Family campouts allow your family to step away from the stresses of daily life, learn about your individual grief journey as well as how to grieve as a family and give you tools for the path ahead. Through camp activities, like rope courses, swimming and nature walks, family time around the campfire and separate group time for adults and children, we'll lea

Youth: California

Southern California Good Grief Campout Create lasting friendships. Lean into adventure. Breathe fresh air. And build resiliency, companionships and robust marshmallow toasting skills. Join us at the TAPS Southern California Good Grief Campout, where the combination of nature and #tapsfam is nothing short of summertime magic. Good Grief Campouts are for children ages 6 to 17 who have lost a parent/guardian or sibling who was serving or recently served in the Armed Forces and are six months beyo

Family Campout: Tennessee

Tennessee Family Campout Camper application now closed. Find comfort and support for your family while surrounded by the healing powers of nature at our TAPS Family Campout. Family campouts allow your family to step away from the stresses of daily life, learn about your individual grief journey as well as how to grieve as a family and give you tools for the path ahead. Through camp activities, like rope courses, swimming and nature walks, family time around the campfire and separate group

Family Campout: Texas

Texas Family Campout Camp applications are now closed. Serving as Legacy or Military Mentor? Registration and Event Information Find comfort and support for your family while surrounded by the healing powers of nature at our TAPS Family Campout. Family campouts allow your family to step away from the stresses of daily life, learn about your individual grief journey as well as how to grieve as a family and give you tools for the path ahead. Through camp activities, like horseback riding,

Family Campout: Washington

Washington Family Campout Find comfort and support for your family while surrounded by the healing powers of nature at our TAPS Family Campout. Family campouts allow your family to step away from the stresses of daily life, learn about your individual grief journey as well as how to grieve as a family and give you tools for the path ahead. Through camp activities, like a challenge course, nature walks, family time around the campfire and separate group time for adults and children, we'll lea

Retreat: Hawaii

Hawaii Parents Retreat Unfortunately because of overwhelming demand we're no longer able to accept any further waitlist registrations. To see other events available,  please check out our calendar of events page. All surviving parents grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Hawaii Parents Retreat. While grief can sometimes feel fearful and lonely, your TAPS family is here to support you. Join other surviving parents in Hawa

Young Adult: Kentucky

Young Adult Louisville Experience Application closed. At this unique experience for Young Adults (surviving children and siblings ages 18-24) in Louisville, Kentucky, our purpose will be to strengthen the bonds of our survivors through our service to others, as well as to provide high adventure and teach life lessons that will encourage participants to be better housemates and stewards in their community.   SCHEDULE Day 1: Arrive in Louisville and travel together to our lodging. Gathe

Young Adult: Oregon

Young Adult Pacific Northwest Experience At this unique experience for Young Adults (surviving children and siblings ages 18-24) in the Hood River area outside Portland, Oregon, our purpose will be to strengthen the bonds of our survivors through guide-led, peer-building exercises that push limits and excite the soul, as well as teach life lessons that will encourage participants to be better housemates and stewards in their community.   SCHEDULE Day 1: The first day is set aside for trave

Youth: California

Southern California Good Grief Campout Camper registration now closed. Serving as Legacy or Military Mentor? Registration and Event Information Create lasting friendships. Lean into adventure. Breathe fresh air. And build resiliency, friendships and robust marshmallow toasting skills. Join us at the TAPS Southern California Good Grief Campout, where the combination of nature and #tapsfam is nothing short of summertime magic. Good Grief Campouts are for children ages 6 to 17 who have lost

Family Retreat: Georgia

Georgia Family Retreat Already Registered? Manage My Events Find comfort and support for your family while surrounded by the healing powers of nature at our TAPS Family Retreat. Family retreats allow your family to step away from the stresses of daily life, learn about your individual grief journey — as well as how to grieve as a family — and give you tools for the path ahead. Through camp activities, like rope courses and nature walks, family time and separate group time for adults and child

Family Retreat: Tennessee

Tennessee Family Retreat   Find comfort and support for your family while surrounded by the healing powers of nature at our TAPS Family Retreat. Family retreats allow your family to step away from the stresses of daily life, learn about your individual grief journey as well as how to grieve as a family and give you tools for the path ahead. Through camp activities, like rope courses, swimming and nature walks, family time and separate group time for adults and children, we'll learn coping ski

Family Retreat: Washington

Washington Family Retreat   Find comfort and support for your family while surrounded by the healing powers of nature at our TAPS Family Retreat. Family retreats allow your family to step away from the stresses of daily life, learn about your individual grief journey as well as how to grieve as a family and give you tools for the path ahead. Through camp activities, like rope courses, swimming and nature walks, family time and separate group time for adults and children, we'll learn coping sk

Inner Warrior: Missouri

Inner Warrior St. Louis Wellness Weekend   Make the decision to focus on your health and wellness! Join us for a weekend of innovative movement, nutrition guidance and camaraderie at the Inner Warrior Wellness Weekend. We'll explore the body's response to stress and grief, teaching you how to release muscle tension, self-doubt and patterns of negativity. Through hands-on workshops, workouts and discussion, we'll share and practice skills for healthy living. Because the movement we'll be doi

Retreat: Alaska

Alaska Widows Retreat All surviving spouses, fiancees and significant others are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Alaska Widows Retreat. The Alaska Widows Retreat will be a place to face the fears that may be holding you back in your grief journey and create bonds with others who understand your loss. Through physical activity and quiet moments of reflection, we'll find strength to move toward hope and healing. Throughout the event, we'll connect with each other through activities, and ex

Retreat: Washington Women

Washington Women's Empowerment Retreat   You are warmly invited to join TAPS for a special retreat for all women grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces. If you're asking yourself what's next after the death of your loved one, and you're ready to take steps toward transforming your life, join us at the Washington Women's Empowerment Retreat. At this unique retreat for all women who have lost a loved one in the military, we'll explore ways to move forward within our new

Retreats: Sedona

Sedona Women's Empowerment Retreat FOR WOMEN If you're asking yourself what's next after the death of your loved one, and you're ready to take steps toward transforming your life, join us at the Sedona Women's Empowerment Retreat. At this unique retreat for all women who have lost a loved one in the military, we'll explore ways to move forward within our new normal. Using a combination of outdoor activities, art and journaling, we'll take inspiration from our surroundings and our peers to crea

Youth: California

Southern California Good Grief Campout   Create lasting friendships. Lean into adventure. Breathe fresh air. And build resiliency, friendships and robust marshmallow toasting skills. Join us at the TAPS Southern California Good Grief Campout, where the combination of nature and #tapsfam is nothing short of summertime magic. At the campout, nature sets the stage. Lakes, pools, trails, fire circles, open skies, sports fields and green trees provide a backdrop that's both challenging and welco

Youth: North Carolina

North Carolina Good Grief Campout   Create lasting friendships. Lean into adventure. Breathe fresh air. And build resiliency, friendships and robust marshmallow toasting skills. Join us at the TAPS North Carolina Good Grief Campout, where the combination of nature and #tapsfam is nothing short of summertime magic. At the campout, nature sets the stage. Lakes, pools, trails, fire circles, open skies, sports fields and green trees provide a backdrop that's both challenging and welcoming. Join

Family: IslandWood

IslandWood Family Campout FOR SURVIVING SPOUSES/PARTNERS AND CHILDREN Sometimes, we all need a breath of fresh air – an environment that allows for emotional exploration, natural friendships, and the freedom to know that feelings and fun can coexist. TAPS has taken the creative grief work of Good Grief Camp and combined it with our Adult Retreats to create a unique Campout experience for families. The Campout includes traditional camp activities, memorial and remembrance ceremonies, and campf

Family: Tennessee

Tennessee Family Campout FOR SURVIVING SPOUSES/PARTNERS AND CHILDREN Sometimes, we all need a breath of fresh air – an environment that allows for emotional exploration, natural friendships, and the freedom to know that feelings and fun can coexist. TAPS has taken the creative grief work of Good Grief Camp and combined it with our Adult Retreats to create a unique Campout experience for families. The Campout includes traditional camp activities, memorial and remembrance ceremonies, and campfi

Retreats: Tahoe Siblings

Tahoe Siblings Retreat FOR SIBLINGS The Tahoe Siblings Retreat will be a space to face the fears and struggles that may be holding you back in your grief journey. Through physical activity and quiet moments of reflection, we’ll find strength to move toward hope and healing. Throughout the weekend, we’ll connect with each other through activities and experience the support that comes from shared loss. ADVENTURE LEVEL his retreat is rated as a challenging adventure. These are our most physic

Independence Day: This One’s for You John

Independence Day: "This One’s for You John" Teresa Cleaver My son's favorite holiday was Independence Day. He was on his fourth deployment to a war zone when he was killed in action on November 19, 2009. Had he lived, his 12-month deployment would have ended, and he would have been in Europe on his way home on July 4th – Independence Day. Photo by Stephanie Mccabe on Unsplash As his unit was stopped in Europe on their way home, John’s best friend on that deployment contacted me on July 3 an

Citi Salutes Atlanta Network Raise $8400 for TAPS in 1 Hour

Citi Salutes Atlanta Network Raise $8400 for TAPS in 1 Hour TAPS Commitment to supporting veterans, those currently serving and military families runs deep for David Stockslager and Benjamin Feldman.  Before they worked for Citi Retail Services in Atlanta, Georgia, they both served in the military and continue to feel a deep obligation to remain involved in the military support community.  When asked to co-chair the Citi Salutes Atlanta Network annual fundraiser, David was excited to have

Honoring Soldier's Legacy Drives Team TAPS Runner

Honoring Soldier's Legacy Drives Team TAPS Runner TAPS From the moment Cindy Grier heard about Team TAPS and the mission of TAPS, she knew she had to get involved. A couple of years ago, Cindy came across Team TAPS at the Disney Princess Half Marathon expo. “I just started crying,” Cindy said about learning about Team TAPS for the first time. "I was like ‘this is what I need to do." Cindy is no stranger to military life; her grandfathers were in World War II, her father fought in Vietnam and

The Shining Light in an endless tunnel

The Shining Light in an endless tunnel Jonathan Jay Gee Sr. Over the last several months, which were full of frustration, anger, depression, and PTSD, I have seen the latest TAPS Magazine lying around the house or maybe a TAPS coffee mug.  I've been thankful for my TAPS Peer Mentor whom I regularly talk with mostly through text message. Well, he keeps texting me with words to help in my daily struggle through my son’s birthday, holidays and other key dates.  I am sure he has no understanding

Gary Morris Celebrity Golf Invitational

Gary Morris Celebrity Golf Invitational Christine Burtt Raises support for TAPS for a Fourth Year There is something magical that happens when hundreds of people volunteer their time and money to help others. This year was no exception when the fourth annual Celebrity Invitational for TAPS gifted more than $300,000 for the Good Grief Camps and Adult Survival Seminars.  Event Directors Bo and Lynne Cottrell and celebrity host Gary Morris presented two nights of music and comedy, and a

Saturday Morning Message: Honoring Our Loved Ones

Saturday Morning Message: Honoring Our Loved Ones Carol Lane Good Morning, The picture this week is the card that Carmen, mother of Charles wrote about later in the message. I thought it was so special that it deserved to be the first thing people saw when they opened this week’s Saturday Morning Message. Survivors shared the many different ways they they honor their loved ones. I thought I would add mine as well. This Saturday Morning Message is one of the ways I honor my son. It started ou

The Holidays Are Here Again

The Holidays Are Here Again Jill Harrington-LaMorie For survivors who have experienced the death of a loved one, the shadow of grief often darkens the weeks from Thanksgiving through New Year’s Day. The holidays can be a less than welcome time of year for those who have lost a loved one, sometimes one of dreaded anticipation and relieved conclusion. Because they have lost a loved one, grievers find themselves dreading the holidays. SUGGESTIONS FOR MANAGING THE SEASON Do only what feels ri

Team TAPS: Carry the Load

Carry the Load with TAPS Togethers and Team TAPS Carry the Load with TAPS Togethers and Team TAPS

Saturday Morning Message: Honoring Our Loved Ones

Saturday Morning Message: Honoring Our Loved Ones Carol Lane Good morning, This week survivors wrote a variety of ways they honor their loved ones. This picture seems to exemplify this. It shows a TAPS parachute with the Army veteran jumper holding the American flag. In this way TAPS honors those who have passed while serving our country. I am going to keep my comments short so you can get to all the wonderful responses that came in this week Remember, you can write to me anytime — to con

Run and Remember Team: Finding the FUN in Fundraising

Run and Remember Team: Finding the FUN in Fundraising Betsy Beard Since October of 2000 when the first Run and Remember Team of two runners raised nearly five thousand dollars, fundraising has been a part of the team’s efforts on behalf of TAPS. Not only do TAPS runners spend time training for the event, but they also use their skills and ingenuity to raise awareness and raise funds in support of the TAPS mission. Some runners run only one time, while others come back year after year. They

Retreats: Savannah

Savannah Women's Empowerment Retreat Surviving women whose loss occurred more than 3 years ago are invited to join the TAPS Empowerment Program at our Savannah Women's Empowerment Retreat.   If you're asking yourself what's next after the death of your loved one, and you're ready to take steps toward transforming your life, join us at the Savannah Women's Empowerment Retreat. At this unique retreat for all women who have lost a loved one in the military, we'll explore ways to move forward w

Retreats: Sedona

Sedona Women's Empowerment Retreat Surviving women whose loss occurred more than 3 years ago are invited to join the TAPS Empowerment Program at our Sedona Women's Empowerment Retreat. If you're asking yourself what's next after the death of your loved one, and you're ready to take steps toward transforming your life, join us at the Sedona Women's Empowerment Retreat. At this unique retreat for all women who have lost a loved one in the military, we'll explore ways to move forward within our

Retreat: Charlotte

Charlotte Siblings Retreat If you are a sibling grieving the loss of a brother or sister who served in the Armed Forces, you are warmly invited to join us for our Charlotte Siblings Retreat.   OVERVIEW Step away from the daily stressors of life and immerse yourself in a safe environment to honor your loved one, be around others who understand, and embrace new experiences. Designed to challenge you emotionally and physically, all activities will help you to learn how to "be" in the moment

Retreat: Florida

Florida Surviving Spouses and Surviving Significant Others Weekend Retreat Registration is closed. All surviving spouses and surviving significant others grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Florida Surviving Spouses and Surviving Significant Others Weekend Retreat. The grief journey takes us out of our comfort zone. But when we see that others share this journey, we can find new ways to grow and heal with a little more

Retreat: Houston

Houston Men's Retreat All surviving men grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Houston Men's Retreat. Grief can take you out of your comfort zone. It's easier to distance yourself, hide your emotions and pretend you have everything under control. But when you see that others share this journey, you can find new ways to grow and heal. Step away from the daily stressors of life, and find yourself in a comfortable space where y

Retreat: Kentucky

Kentucky Men's Retreat All surviving men grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Kentucky Men's Retreat. Grief can take you out of your comfort zone. It's easier to distance yourself, hide your emotions and pretend you have everything under control. But when you see that others share this journey, you can find new ways to grow and heal. Step away from the daily stressors of life, and find yourself in a comfortable space where y

Retreat: Montana

Montana Men's Retreat All surviving men grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our 6th Annual Montana Men's Retreat. Grief can take you out of your comfort zone. It's easier to distance yourself, hide your emotions and pretend you have everything under control. But when you see that others share this journey, you can find new ways to grow and heal. Step away from the daily stressors of life, and find yourself in a comfortable spac

Retreats: Alaska

Alaska Surviving Parents and Siblings Retreat Registration and waitlist for this event is full. All surviving parents and surviving siblings grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Alaska Parents and Siblings Retreat. Surviving parents (including single parents) are welcome to attend without their other adult children (surviving siblings); and likewise, adult surviving siblings are welcome to attend without their parents. All

Retreats: Austin

Austin Surviving Moms Retreat All surviving mothers grieving the loss of a child who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Austin Moms Retreat. Please note that Retreats are for adult survivors only, and we cannot allow other family members to attend. All flights must be purchased and confirmed by January 23rd, 2019. The grief journey takes us out of our comfort zone. But when we see that others share this journey, we can find new ways to grow and heal with a

Retreats: North Carolina

Blue Ridge Mountains Women's Empowerment Retreat Surviving women whose loss occurred more than two years ago are invited to join the TAPS Blue Ridge Mountains Empowerment Retreat. Overview If you're asking yourself what's next after the death of your loved one, and you're ready to take steps toward transforming your life, join us at the Blue Ridge Mountain’s Women's Empowerment Retreat. At this unique retreat for all women who have lost a loved one in the military, we'll explore ways to mov

Retreats: North Carolina Fall

Blue Ridge Mountains Women's Empowerment Retreat Surviving women whose loss occurred more than two years ago are invited to join the TAPS Blue Ridge Mountains Empowerment Retreat. Overview If you're asking yourself what's next after the death of your loved one, and you're ready to take steps toward transforming your life, join us at the Blue Ridge Mountain’s Women's Empowerment Retreat. At this unique retreat for all women who have lost a loved one in the military, we'll explore ways to mov

Retreats: Pennsylvania

Pocono Mountains Women's Empowerment Retreat Surviving women whose loss occurred more than two years ago are invited to join the TAPS Pocono Mountains Empowerment Retreat. Overview If you're asking yourself what's next after the death of your loved one, and you're ready to take steps toward transforming your life, join us at the Pocono Mountains Women's Empowerment Retreat. At this unique retreat for all women who have lost a loved one in the military, we'll explore ways to move forward wit

Retreats: Sedona

Sedona Women's Empowerment Retreat Application for this event is closed. Surviving women whose loss occurred more than two years ago are invited to join the TAPS Empowerment Program at our Sedona Women's Empowerment Retreat. If you're asking yourself what's next after the death of your loved one, and you're ready to take steps toward transforming your life, join us at the Sedona Women's Empowerment Retreat. At this unique retreat for all women who have lost a loved one in the military,

Retreats: Sedona Fall

Sedona Women's Empowerment Retreat Surviving women whose loss occurred more than two years ago are invited to join the TAPS Empowerment Program at our Sedona Women's Empowerment Retreat. If you're asking yourself what's next after the death of your loved one, and you're ready to take steps toward transforming your life, join us at the Sedona Women's Empowerment Retreat. At this unique retreat for all women who have lost a loved one in the military, we'll explore ways to move forward within o

Retreats: Sedona Spring

Sedona Women's Empowerment Retreat Surviving women whose loss occurred more than two years ago are invited to join the TAPS Empowerment Program at our Sedona Women's Empowerment Retreat. If you're asking yourself what's next after the death of your loved one, and you're ready to take steps toward transforming your life, join us at the Sedona Women's Empowerment Retreat. At this unique retreat for all women who have lost a loved one in the military, we'll explore ways to move forward within o

Retreats: South Carolina

Charleston Women’s Week of Renewal-New to Grief After the death of a loved one, one may feel overwhelmed, disoriented, and alone. We are forced to find a new path, and doing so can feel frightening and exhausting. If you can relate, it may be the right time for you to join us in Charleston, South Carolina for a Women’s Week of Renewal. Overview This Week of Renewal has been specially crafted for women whose loss occurred within the past three years. We’ll explore coping skills, share resour

Retreats: West Virginia

West Virginia Women's Wilderness Empowerment Retreat Ready to add some adventure back into your life? Join us as we explore both internal landscapes and the great outdoors at the TAPS West Virginia Women's Wilderness Empowerment Retreat. Overview Empowerment retreats are designed to safely challenge participants both mentally and physically. Hiking, zip-lining, river rafting and other adventures will be interspersed with the important work of self-discovery. You’ll gain a new sense of achie

Empowerment: Arizona

Sedona Women's Week of Renewal Surviving women whose loss occurred more than two years ago are invited to join the TAPS Empowerment Program at our Sedona Women’s Week of Renewal. In the mental fog of grief, we sometimes feel a yearning for something more, but it can be hard to pinpoint what, exactly, that is. Join other surviving women at Sedona Mago Retreat Center as we step into mindfulness, reclaim our identity and create a new vision for our future. This event will focus on the needs of

Empowerment: Arizona

Sedona Women's Week of Renewal Application for this event closed on August 3. Surviving women whose loss occurred more than two years ago are invited to join the TAPS Empowerment Program at our Sedona Women’s Week of Renewal. In the mental fog of grief, we sometimes feel a yearning for something more, but it can be hard to pinpoint what, exactly, that is. Join other surviving women at Sedona Mago Retreat Center as we explore mindfulness, reclaim our identity and create a new vision for

Empowerment: North Carolina

Blue Ridge Mountains Women's Week of Renewal APPLICATION CLOSED Surviving women whose loss occurred more than two years ago are invited to join the TAPS Empowerment Program at our Blue Ridge Mountains Women’s Week of Renewal. In the mental fog of grief, we sometimes feel a yearning for something more, but it can be hard to pinpoint what, exactly, that is. Join other surviving women at the Art of Living Retreat Center in Boone, North Carolina, as we seek mindfulness, reclaim our identity

Fundraiser: Colorado Celebrity Classic

Colorado Celebrity Classic Thank you for supporting TAPS. Please check back for Colorado Celebrity Classic events in 2019. Star-Studded Show with Nashville's Finest Songwriters, starring Craig Morgan! Also starring: Richie McDonald of Lonestar, Keni Thomas, Billy Montana, and Jimmy Nichols Scroll down for complete sponsorship details. Saluting Our Fallen Heroes Songwriters Show & Dinner   Thursday, September 6, 2018 Stargazers Theatre 10 S Parkside Drive Colorado Sp

Retreat: Alaska

Alaska Surviving Spouses and Surviving Significant Others Retreat All surviving spouses and surviving significant others grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Alaska Surviving Spouses and Surviving Significant Others Retreat. The grief journey takes us out of our comfort zone. But when we see that others share this journey, we can find new ways to grow and heal with a little more confidence. Move beyond your comfort zone in t

Retreat: California

California Surviving Spouses and Surviving Significant Others Retreat All surviving spouses and surviving significant others grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our California Surviving Spouses and Surviving Significant Others Retreat. The grief journey takes us out of our comfort zone. But when we see that others share this journey, we can find new ways to grow and heal with a little more confidence. Step away from the daily s

Retreat: Florida

Daytona Men's Retreat All surviving men grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Daytona Men's Retreat. Grief can take you out of your comfort zone. It's easier to distance yourself, hide your emotions and pretend you have everything under control. But when you see that others share this journey, you can find new ways to grow and heal. Step away from the daily stressors of life, and find yourself in a comfortable space where you

Retreat: Georgia

Atlanta Siblings Retreat All surviving siblings grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Atlanta Siblings Retreat. The grief journey takes you out of your comfort zone. But when you see that others share this journey, you can find new ways to grow and heal with a little more confidence. At this unique retreat for siblings, you'll get to challenge yourself to step beyond your comfort zone with a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to 

Retreat: Illinois

Chicago Surviving Spouses and Surviving Significant Others Retreat All surviving spouses and surviving significant others grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Chicago Surviving Spouses and Surviving Significant Others Retreat. The grief journey takes us out of our comfort zone. But when we see that others share this journey, we can find new ways to grow and heal with a little more confidence. Step away from the daily stresso

Retreat: Montana

Montana Men's Retreat Registration for this event is closed. All surviving men grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Montana Men's Retreat. Grief can take you out of your comfort zone. It's easier to distance yourself, hide your emotions and pretend you have everything under control. But when you see that others share this journey, you can find new ways to grow and heal. Step away from the daily stressors of life, and fi

Retreat: Montana All Populations

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Retreat: South Carolina

Charleston Moms Retreat Registration and waitlist for this event is closed. All surviving mothers grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Charleston Moms Retreat. The grief journey takes us out of our comfort zone. But when we see that others share this journey, we can find new ways to grow and heal with a little more confidence. Step away from the daily stressors of life and immerse yourself in a safe environment to help

Retreat: Tennessee

Nashville Parents Retreat All surviving parents grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Nashville Parents Retreat. The grief journey takes you out of your comfort zone. But when you see that others share this journey, you can find new ways to grow and heal with a little more confidence. Step away from the daily stressors of life and immerse yourself in a safe environment where you can focus on yourself, honor your loved one and

Retreat: Texas

Austin Adult Children Retreat All surviving adult children grieving the loss of a parent who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Austin Adult Children Retreat. The grief journey takes you out of your comfort zone. But when you see that others share this journey, you can find new ways to grow and heal with a little more confidence. At this unique retreat for adult children, you'll get to challenge yourself to step beyond your comfort zone and immerse yourself i

Retreat: West Virginia

West Virginia All Populations Retreat Registration is closed. All adult survivors 18 and older grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our West Virginia All Populations Retreat. The grief journey takes you out of your comfort zone. But when you see that others share this journey, you can find new ways to grow and heal with a little more confidence. Step away from the daily stressors of life and immerse yourself in a safe envir

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Inner Warrior: California

Inner Warrior San Diego Wellness Weekend   Make the decision to focus on your health and wellness! Join us for a weekend of innovative movement, nutrition guidance and camaraderie at the Inner Warrior Wellness Weekend. We'll explore the body's response to stress and grief, teaching you how to release muscle tension, self-doubt and patterns of negativity. Through hands-on workshops, workouts and discussion, we'll share and practice skills for healthy living. Because the movement we'll be doi

Inner Warrior: Maryland

Inner Warrior Baltimore Wellness Weekend Already Registered? Manage My Events Make the decision to focus on your health and wellness! Join us for a weekend of innovative movement, nutrition guidance and camaraderie at the Inner Warrior Wellness Weekend. We'll explore the body's response to stress and grief, teaching you how to release muscle tension, self-doubt and patterns of negativity. Through hands-on workshops, workouts and discussion, we'll share and practice skills for healthy living

Inner Warrior: Texas

Inner Warrior San Antonio Wellness Weekend Make the decision to focus on your health and wellness! Join us for a weekend of innovative movement, nutrition guidance and camaraderie at the Inner Warrior Wellness Weekend. We'll explore the body's response to stress and grief, teaching you how to release muscle tension, self-doubt and patterns of negativity. Through hands-on workshops, workouts and discussion, we'll share and practice skills for healthy living. Because the movement we'll be

Retreat: Atlanta

Atlanta Parents Retreat   All surviving parents are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Atlanta Parents Retreat. Connect with fellow surviving parents as we challenge ourselves to step beyond our comfort zones with a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to swim with whale sharks at the Georgia Aquarium! We will journey with these "gentle giants" as we form bonds of friendship with fellow survivors and celebrate our heroes in historic Atlanta. SCHEDULE  Day 1:  The first day is set aside as a tr

Retreat: Boston

Boston Widows Retreat Already Registered? Manage My Events All surviving spouses, fiancés and significant others are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Boston Widows Retreat. This TAPS Retreat is an opportunity to find strength — to push your physical and emotional boundaries, find a new sense of self and allow yourself to rely on others. Learn a new skill in rowing and experience the power of working together with other surviving spouses, fiancées and significant others. Through moments of

Retreat: Charleston

Charleston Widows Retreat Text TAPSCHARLESTON to 95577 to get text reminders about this event. All surviving spouses, fiancés and significant others are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Charleston Widows Retreat. Find hope along this journey and experience the support that comes from shared loss as we gather with fellow surviving widows, fiancees and significant others in a peaceful and serene setting. Throughout the event, we'll connect with each other through activities and quiet moments

Retreat: Colorado

Dude Ranch All Populations Retreat Already Registered? Manage My Events You are warmly invited to join TAPS for a special retreat for all survivors grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces. The TAPS Dude Ranch All Populations Retreat will be a place to have courage — to push your boundaries, to overcome stumbling blocks and to move forward on your grief journey — alongside fellow survivors. During the retreat, you will get to work with ranch staff to learn how to ride a

Retreat: Florida

Florida Young Adults Retreat Text TAPSFLORIDA to 95577 to get text reminders about this event. You are warmly invited to join TAPS for a special retreat for all young adult survivors, ages 18 to 25, who have lost a loved one who served in the military. On this unique retreat for surviving adult children, siblings, spouses and significant others, ages 18-25, you'll find courage to move forward and discover strengths you didn't know you had. We'll build lasting friendships and celebrate our lov

Retreat: Montana

Montana Men's Retreat Already Registered? Manage My Events All surviving men grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are invited to join TAPS for the Montana Men's Retreat. The grief journey can take us into the wilderness, feeling lost and left to walk alone. But when we find that others share this journey, the wilderness also can bring a safe space to grow and connect. This September, find a healing space in Big Sky Country with other men who understand your loss. Th

Retreat: Montana

Montana Men's Retreat   All surviving men grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are invited to join TAPS for the Montana Men's Retreat. The grief journey can take us into the wilderness, feeling lost and left to walk alone. But when we find that others share this journey, the wilderness also can bring a safe space to grow and connect. This September, find a healing space in Big Sky Country with other men who understand your loss. Through activities like fly fishing a

Retreat: New Mexico

New Mexico Parents Retreat Already Registered? Manage My Events  All surviving parents grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our New Mexico Parents Retreat. The grief journey takes us out of our comfort zone. But when we see that others share this journey, we can find new ways to grow and heal with a little more confidence, knowing we have support if we need it. This November, move beyond your comfort zone in the presence of other

Retreat: Philadelphia

Philadelphia Parents Retreat Text TAPSPHILLY to 95577 to get registration reminders via text for this event. You are warmly invited to join TAPS for a special retreat for all parents grieving the loss of a child who served in the Armed Forces. Find hope and healing as you spend time with fellow surviving parents who understand your loss at the Philadelphia Parents Retreat. We'll build lasting friendships through shared activities and celebrate the lives of our sons and daughters together.

Retreat: Washington Moms

Washington Moms Retreat   You are warmly invited to join TAPS for a special retreat for all mothers grieving the loss of a son or daughter who served in the Armed Forces. Find hope along this journey and experience the support that comes from shared loss as we gather with fellow surviving moms in the beauty and serenity of Bainbridge Island. Throughout the event, we'll connect with each other through physical activity and quiet moments of reflection, and together we'll find strength to move t

Retreat: Wisconsin

Wisconsin Women's Retreat Text TAPSWISCONSIN to 95577 to get text reminders about this event. You are warmly invited to join TAPS for a special retreat for all women grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces. Find hope and healing as you spend time with fellow surviving women who understand your loss at the Wisconsin Women's Retreat. We'll build lasting friendships through shared activities and celebrate the lives of our fallen heroes together. SCHEDULE  Day 1:  

Retreats: Arizona

Arizona Women's Empowerment Retreat FOR WOMEN At this unique retreat for women who have lost a relationship partner, sibling, child, or parent, we will use a holistic approach to explore ways to move forward within our new normal. If you've been asking questions such as "Who am I now? What do I want? How do I get there?" and you are ready to take the next steps toward transforming your life, this retreat will help you along that path. Using a combination of athletics, art, journaling and accou

Retreats: Hawaii

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Expedition: Washington

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14th Annual Colorado Celebrity Classic Saluting Our Fallen Heroes Songwriters Show & Dinner   Saturday, June 16, 2018 Grove Family Ranch at Cherry Creek 6225 S Fraser St., Centennial, CO 80016 Doors/Cash Bar: 5:30 p.m. Dinner Served: 5:45-6:45 p.m. Live Auction & Songwriters Show: 7:00-9:45 p.m. Attire: casual/western casual...arena can be warm Packed sand floor...flat shoes recommended REGISTER ONLINE Or help us save processing fees and mail a check. MAIL IN PAYMENT

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