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Children’s Bereavement and Emotional Wellness, Part 1 Children’s Bereavement and Emotional Wellness, Part 1 Children’s Bereavement and Emotional Wellness, Part 1 Andrea Hug I vividly remember when my husband died. My children were four, two, and four months old. I hardly knew how to be a parent, let alone a sole parent to bereaved children. I remember going to see a counselor and saying, “What do I need to know to help these children grow up to be happy, healthy, productive members of society?” Now, 18 years later, I offer to you what I have gle
Breaking Away from Loneliness Breaking Away from Loneliness Breaking Away from Loneliness \| TAPS Emily Munoz Grief is inherently about interrupted connection. We are separated from someone we love. Loneliness, then, is logical. I just didn’t expect it to show up, years after the searing had turned to scarring. When it did, it was because, in my early grief, I leaned so much into the hope that the universe still held joy and purpose for me, that eventually this would all make sense. But loneliness showed up, clutching
Young Adults: Niagara Falls Experience YOUNG ADULTS NIAGARA FALLS EXPERIENCE YOUNG ADULTS NIAGARA FALLS EXPERIENCE \| TAPS The TAPS Young Adults Experience offers one-of-a-kind opportunities across the country to TAPS Survivors ages 18-30. These experiences promote care, peer connection and personal well-being. In building a Community of peers, we offer survivors a safe space to be themselves, have fun, and focus on well-being and personal development. Overview The TAPS Young Adults Niagara Falls Experience is offere
Young Adults: Template YOUNG ADULTS NIAGARA FALLS EXPERIENCE YOUNG ADULTS NIAGARA FALLS EXPERIENCE \| TAPS The TAPS Young Adults Experience offers one-of-a-kind opportunities across the country to TAPS Survivors ages 18-30. These experiences promote care, peer connection and personal well-being. In building a Community of peers, we offer survivors a safe space to be themselves, have fun, and focus on well-being and personal development. Overview The TAPS Young Adults Niagara Falls Experience is offere
Retreat: Hawaii Hawaii Parents Retreat TAPS Hawaii Surviving Military Parents Retreat Unfortunately because of overwhelming demand we're no longer able to accept any further waitlist registrations. To see other events available, please check out our calendar of events page. All surviving parents grieving the loss of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Hawaii Parents Retreat. While grief can sometimes feel fearful and lonely, your TAPS family is here to s
Memorial Day brings a mix of emotions Memorial Day brings a mix of emotions Memorial Day brings a mix of emotions \| TAPS Rachael Hill Memorial Day used to be simply a three-day weekend that our family spent doing some kind of adventure — camping, 4-wheeling, barbecuing, etc. Since becoming a Gold Star family however, the meaning of the day has changed dramatically. The true meaning of the day is now etched into our minds and brings with it sorrow and tears, but also pride in remembrance. Since my husband Jeff’s de
Volunteer Spotlight: Surviving Military Parents Advocate for Fellow Survivors Volunteer Spotlight: Surviving Military Parents Advocate for Fellow Survivors Surviving Military Parents Advocate for Fellow Survivors \| TAPS TAPS For three and a half years, the Chicagoland community has had Andy and Julianne Weiss holding the tender hands of those in grief. Together, they facilitate the Chicago-area TAPS Care Group, a monthly support group for those who know the loss of someone who has served in the military. The couple are Peer Mentors and have trained in ASIST, Applied
Coping with Guilt Coping with Guilt Coping with Guilt Michele Hiester Marcum We are coming up on the ten-year anniversary of my brother's death, and I simply cannot believe it's been that long. Seriously, where did the time go? And who the heck am I now? A decade of rolling emotions have reshaped me into someone else…and I haven't yet decided whether I like her. I remember learning in my college psychology classes that there were only six basic emotions in the human population: anger, disgust, sadness, fear,
Happy Birthday Dear Brother, Happy Bir... Happy Birthday Dear Brother, Happy Bir... Happy Birthday Dear Brother, Happy Bir... Michele Hiester Marcum Happy birthday to you! Happy birthday to you! Happy birthday, dear brother! Happy Bir… Oh wait. Am I supposed to be celebrating your birthday? Do the angels throw parties in heaven like we do on Earth? Is anyone up there worrying whether the cake is white or chocolate? Or if the frosting is buttercream or whipped? Hmmm… the multitude of questions one ponders when there are no
Game Day for Dad Game Day for Dad Game Day for Dad Tabitha Bonilla The first professional football game I was able to attend was bittersweet. My initial reaction to the news my mother and I had been selected to attend the Carolina Panthers Salute to Service game was sadness actually; the person I most wanted to experience a live professional football game with, was my father. It was something we were going to finally have the time to do when he retired. Unfortunately, just as he was coming home from deployme
Team TAPS: United Airlines NYC Half United Airlines New York City Half Marathon with Team TAPS United Airlines New York City Half Marathon with Team TAPS 5376 New York City, New York 10019 team taps, new york city half marathon, united airlines United Airlines New York City Half Marathon with Team TAPS Apply to Run the United Airlines New York City Half Marathon with Team TAPS
Team TAPS: Army Ten-Miler Army Ten-Miler Army Ten-Miler \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). 53147 Arlington, Virginia 22202 Army Ten-Miler, honor the fallen, team taps Team TAPS: Army Ten-Miler Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Army Ten Miler October 8, 2023.
Team TAPS: Marine Corps Marathon and 10K Marine Corps Marathon and 10K Marine Corps Marathon and 10K \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). 59097 Arlington, Virginia 22202 Marine Corps Marathon, Team TAPS, Honor the Fallen Team TAPS: Marine Corps Marathon, 50K and 10K Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Marine Corps Marathon October 29, 2023.
Team TAPS: United Airlines NYC Half United Airlines New York City Half Marathon with Team TAPS United Airlines New York City Half Marathon with Team TAPS 5376 New York City, New York 10019 team taps, new york city half marathon, united airlines United Airlines New York City Half Marathon with Team TAPS Apply to Run the United Airlines New York City Half Marathon with Team TAPS
Team TAPS: Army Ten-Miler Army Ten-Miler Army Ten-Miler \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). 53147 Arlington, Virginia 22202 Army Ten-Miler, honor the fallen, team taps Team TAPS: Army Ten-Miler Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Army Ten Miler October 9, 2022.
Team TAPS: United Airlines NYC Half United Airlines New York City Half Marathon with Team TAPS United Airlines New York City Half Marathon with Team TAPS 5376 New York City, New York 10019 team taps, new york city half marathon, united airlines United Airlines New York City Half Marathon with Team TAPS Apply to Run the United Airlines New York City Half Marathon with Team TAPS
Team TAPS: Army Ten Miler Army Ten Miler Army Ten Miler \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). 29620 Arlington, Virginia 22202 Army Ten Miler, honor the fallen, team taps Team TAPS: Army Ten Miler Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Army Ten Miler October 10, 2021.
Team TAPS: Air Force Marathon Air Force Marathon Air Force Marathon \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). 29621 Dayton, Ohio 45433 Air Force Marathon, honor the fallen, team taps Team TAPS: Air Force Marathon Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Air Force Marathon September 20 to 21, 2019.
Team TAPS: Army Ten Miler Army Ten Miler Army Ten Miler \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). 29620 Arlington, Virginia 22202 Army Ten Miler, honor the fallen, team taps Team TAPS: Army Ten Miler Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Army Ten Miler October 13, 2019.
Team TAPS: Army Ten Miler Army Ten Miler Army Ten Miler \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). 23589 Arlington, Virginia Army Ten Miler, honor the fallen, team taps Team TAPS: Army Ten Miler Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Army Ten Miler October 7, 2018.
Team TAPS: TCS New York City Marathon TCS New York City Marathon TCS New York City Marathon Apply to race in the 2017 TCS New York City Marathon for Team TAPS or sponsor a Team TAPS runner. 5376 New York City Team TAPS, TCS New York City Marathon Apply to race in the 2017 TCS New York City Marathon for Team TAPS or sponsor a Team TAPS runner.
Saturday Morning Message: 4th of July Ideas Saturday Morning Message: 4th of July Ideas Saturday Morning Message: 4th of July Ideas \| TAPS Carol Lane Good morning, The picture this week comes from the TAPS files. I thought it would be perfect for the 4th of July edition of the Saturday Morning Message as it has a very large US flag flown by a balloon with the TAPS inscription showing the strong connection between TAPS and our country. The 4th of July is another one of those holidays that can bring different emotions to various peopl
Saturday Morning Message: Marking Special Days Saturday Morning Message: Marking Special Days Saturday Morning Message: Marking Special Days \| TAPS Carol Lane Good morning, As the November and December holidays come along, I thought I would share this article from the fall TAPS Magazine that made me think of the family we have become. In the article, "The Critical Importance of Seeking Support", the author, Alan Wolfelt, lists his observations of Canadian geese as they fly many miles to their winter destination. Then he relates his thoug
Saturday Morning Message: Volunteer Work Helps Healing Saturday Morning Message: Volunteer Work Helps Healing Volunteer Work Helps Healing \| TAPS Saturday Morning Message Carol Lane Good Morning, The opening picture comes from the article, "Survivors Fill Community Need for Face Mask" written by Susie Ristau, mother of Michael. She tells how survivors spend time making and sending masks for anyone in need. Her daughter makes hair scrunchies as well. At the end of the article, Susie writes, “I know our Michael is looking down on me and Halie and
TAPS Casework Assistance Available to Military Families of the Fallen Affected by Natural Disasters TAPS Casework Assistance Available to Military Families of the Fallen Affected by Natural Disasters TAPS Casework Assistance Available to Military Families of the Fallen Affected by Natural Disasters TAPS For everyone who has endured nature's worst effects, our thoughts are with you. Your TAPS Family is here if you need to speak to someone for extra support and care. We want to do all we can to lessen the added strain on our families. Our Care Team and Casework Department stand ready to deliv
Care within Your Community Care within Your Community Care within Your Community \| TAPS TAPS In addition to peer support and services that TAPS provides, we also connect you to grief resources close to home. Upon request, TAPS provides a detailed report of support within your community. We do research and make the phone calls to ensure the available groups are an appropriate fit for you. We find out if groups are actively meeting, when the next meeting will be and what you can expect the first time you go. Photo: Pe
Why Rituals Help Us Mourn…and Heal Why Rituals Help Us Mourn…and Heal Why Rituals Help Us Mourn…and Heal \| TAPS Alan Wolfelt I often say that when words are inadequate, we should turn to ritual. Nowhere is this more true or important than after someone we love has died. In this article, I will explain why rituals are essential and how you can continue to use the power of ritual to help yourself and your family heal, even long after the death and funeral. What is a ritual? Rituals are symbolic activities that help us, toget
You are Warmly Welcome to Join Us on Memorial Day Weekend 2019 You are Warmly Welcome to Join Us on Memorial Day Weekend 2019 Join us on Memorial Day Weekend 2019 \| TAPS TAPS Just as the stars brighten the night, our TAPS family brings light into the darkness of grief. At the 25th Annual TAPS National Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp, we’ll focus on the light of the love we have shared and continue to share. We’ll look more deeply into our own processes, reflect on our strengths, learn how we can give and accept support, and contemplate how
Saturday Morning Message: New Traditions Saturday Morning Message: New Traditions Saturday Morning Message: New Traditions Carol Lane Good Morning, The picture this morning is of an arrangement made by my sister-in-law to celebrate the season. I light it every night during the holidays to honor the life of my son, Bryon. When a loved one dies, it can be hard to face the upcoming time and keep the same traditions. To simplify your life, think about the customs you would like to keep and ones you could let go just for this year. You
Seminar: New England New England Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp New England Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp ADULT SEMINAR TAPS Regional Seminars feature activities, workshops, small group discussions, memorial celebrations, and special events. We provide the opportunity to exchange stories, give and receive inspiration, and create lasting connections with others who understand the loss of a military loved one. GOOD GRIEF CAMP TAPS Good Grief Camp provides a safe and supportive atmosphere for child
Karndean DesignFlooring Raises Money for TAPS Karndean DesignFlooring Raises Money for TAPS Karndean DesignFlooring Raises Money for TAPS TAPS At its 8th annual customer appreciation golf outing, held January 29 at Las Vegas’ Siena Golf Club, Karndean Designflooring and its top partners hit the links and raised a total of $3,300 for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). This is the fourth year the event has included a fundraiser to support a veterans service organization. TAPS offers immediate and long-term emotional he
More Than Trains: A Surviving Sibling’s Story More Than Trains: A Surviving Sibling’s Story More Than Trains: A Surviving Sibling’s Story \| TAPS Kat Stanley I first came to TAPS as a surviving sibling in 2010 after my brother and best friend, Cpl Richard Allgower, USMC, passed away after a fearless battle with brain cancer. I remembered anxiously awaiting the TAPS Magazine for articles from siblings. They seemed to put words to the feelings and thoughts swirling around that I couldn’t quite express. I read plenty of articles that shared
Grief and Your Health Grief and Your Health Grief and Your Health Margaret Gerner The loss of a loved one to death is a life-shattering experience. It affects us physically as well as emotionally. The grief we experience is felt on an emotional level, and the stress of these emotions can create havoc with our bodies. If we had a physical illness before our loved one died, our grief can exacerbate the existing illness. It can also open the way for physical illness if we have been previously healthy. Grief makes
Stop, Look, Listen Stop, Look, Listen Stop, Look, Listen Darcie Sims When was the last time you did nothing? Do you ever just sit anymore? Do you ever just lie on your back in new mown grass and watch the clouds dance by? Do you ever chase after butterflies, trying to give them a message to carry? Or dangle your toes in a pond or watch kids dash through a sprinkler? Do you ever sit on a porch or patio and smell the grass, the flowers, the air? Do you even have a porch or patio and do you know what sitting
Online TAPS Events Online TAPS Events Online TAPS Events \| TAPS TAPS Find Comfort and Healing Online The TAPS Online Community is here for you – wherever you are in your grief journey, the country, or the world. The recently updated TAPS Online Community allows you to explore all of our online programs – including online groups, workshops, and coping skills programs – in one place. Through online sessions, connect with, learn from, and be inspired by fellow survivors. Finding your peers within the TAP
Seminar: Southern Southern Regional Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp Southern Regional Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp \| TAPS This event is open to all military survivor adults and youth. If you are unable to attend in-person, we encourage you to join us virtually for our live sessions. Please double check that you select the correct button above (in-person or virtual) when you register for the event. COVID-19 Information - For those attending in-person we will adhere to the CDC a
Resource Center: Casework Partnership Resource Center: Casework Partnership Resource Center: Casework Partnership TAPS Pro Bono Legal Assistance The TAPS Casework Department is proud to be available for our TAPS family members, supporting them on a wide variety of topics and issues. This support ranges from assistance with DoD/VA benefit eligibility questions and requests for records, medals, and investigations, to education on survivor benefits and seeking local, regional, and national support for matters like financial assista
TAPS Togethers: Wreaths Across America Wreaths Across America Wreaths Across America \| TAPS Eastern Time TAPS will join Wreaths Across America at Arlington National Cemetery to remember and honor our fallen heroes by placing wreaths on each grave and saying the name of each hero aloud. We invite all survivors to join us for this special act of remembrance. TAPS will have a table at the corner of Halsey Drive and York Drive, between Sections 59 and 60, to provide warm drinks and offer emotional care and comfort through TAPS Peer Men
TAPS Togethers: Redwoods National Park TAPS Togethers: Redwoods National Park Day TAPS Military Survivor Togethers Redwoods National Park in Crescent City, California Pacific This event is open to military adult and child survivors. All survivors are invited to join us on Saturday, April 26 for a day of exploration at Redwoods National Park to connect with fellow survivors, engage with nature, and learn about the Redwoods rich history and preservation efforts. This event will also include a stewardship project, giving survivors th
TAPS Togethers: Craters of the Moon National Monument TAPS Togethers: Craters of the Moon National Monument & Preserve Day TAPS Military Survivor Togethers Craters of the Moon National Monument in Arco, Idaho Mountain This event is open to military adult and child survivors. All survivors are invited to join us on Thursday, May 1 for a day of exploration at Craters of the Moon National Monument to connect with fellow survivors, explore the unique landscape of the preserve, and learn about the effects of volcanism on the natural ecosystem. All p
TAPS Togethers: Yellowstone National Park TAPS Togethers: Yellowstone National Park Day TAPS Military Survivor Togethers Yellowstone National Park in Cody, Wyoming Mountain This event is open to military adult and child survivors. All survivors are invited to join us on Friday, May 2 for a day of exploration at Yellowstone National Park to connect with fellow survivors, explore the rich history of the park, and enjoy the beautiful outdoors. All populations, ages and accessibility levels are welcome to attend, but please remember that
TAPS Togethers: Saratoga National Historic Park TAPS Togethers: Saratoga National Historic Park Day TAPS Military Survivor Togethers Saratoga National Historic Park in Stillwater, New York Eastern This event is open to military adult and child survivors. All survivors are invited to join us on Tuesday, May 13 for a day of exploration at Saratoga National Historic Park to connect with fellow survivors and immerse ourselves in the history of the iconic Saratoga Battlefield. All populations, ages and accessibility levels are welcome to attend
TAPS Togethers: Big Thicket National Preserve TAPS Togethers: Big Thicket National Preserve Day TAPS Military Survivor Togethers Big Thicket National Preserve in Livingston, Texas Central This event is open to military adult and child survivors. All survivors are invited to join us on Saturday, November 15 for a day of exploration at Big Thicket National Preserve to connect with fellow survivors, explore the history of the bogs, and immerse yourself in the beauty of nature in southeast Texas. This event will also include a stewardship pro
TAPS Togethers: Mount Rushmore National Memorial TAPS Togethers: Mount Rushmore National Memorial Day TAPS Military Survivor Togethers Mount Rushmore National Memorial in Keystone, South Dakota Mountain This event is open to military adult and child survivors. All survivors are invited to join us on Sunday, May 4 for a day of exploration at Mount Rushmore National Memorial to connect with fellow survivors, soak in the beauty of the Black Hills, and learn about the rich heritage of our country. All populations, ages and accessibility levels
TAPS Togethers: Cuyahoga Valley National Park TAPS Togethers: Cuyahoga Valley National Park Day TAPS Military Survivor Togethers Cuyahoga National Park in Peninsula, Ohio Eastern This event is open to military adult and child survivors. All survivors are invited to join us on Saturday, May 10 for a day of exploration at Cuyahoga Valley National Park to connect with fellow survivors, soak up the history of the valley, and enjoy the beautiful scenery of Cuyahoga Valley. This event will also include a stewardship project, giving survivors t
TAPS Togethers: Golden Gate Recreation Area TAPS Togethers: Golden Gate Recreation Area Park Day TAPS Military Survivor Together Golden Gate Recreation Area in San Francisco, California Pacific This event is open to military adult and child survivors. All survivors are invited to join us on Saturday, April 19 for a day of exploration and community in the Golden Gate Recreation Area in the Marin Headlands. This event will primarily include a stewardship project, giving survivors the opportunity to grow living legacies across our nationa
TAPS Togethers: Mammoth Cave National Park TAPS Togethers: Mammoth Cave National Park Day TAPS Military Survivor Togethers Mammoth Cave National Park in Mammoth Cave, Kentucky This event is open to military adult and child survivors. All survivors are invited to join us on Saturday, September 6, 2025 for a day of exploration at Mammoth Cave National Park to connect with fellow survivors, explore the historic caves, and hike in the beautiful outdoors. This event will also include a stewardship project, giving survivors the opportunity
Webinar: Who Am I Now? Life After Caregiving Ends Webinar: Who Am I Now? Life After Caregiving Ends Who Am I Now? Life After Caregiving Ends Webinar \| TAPS Institute Eastern Presented by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing®, this webinar with William G. Hoy, DMin, FT, looks at how we can effectively cope with the range of emotions that may occur when caregiving has ended. Featuring William Hoy, DMin, FT Dr. Hoy has taught at Baylor University since the spring of 2012. He is widely regarded as an authority on the sociocultura
Happy Birthday, America! Happy Birthday, America! Happy Birthday, America! TAPS Happy Birthday, America! 239 years ago, our Founding Fathers set a new, unchartered course for us. It is one that has required hard work and sacrifice of so many throughout the centuries. In declaring our independence, we declared we would do whatever it takes, as long as it takes, to ensure that same right for the generations to come. The founders signed their name to a document that concluded, "And for the support of this Declaration, w
Webinar: Building Your Circle of Support After a Loss Webinar: Building Your Circle of Support After a Loss Building Your Circle of Support After a Loss Webinar \| TAPS Institute Eastern Presented by the TAPS Institute for Hope and Healing®, this webinar with master life coach and speaker, Denise Rollins, PhD, will outline activities and ideas to help you determine what you need, who can help, and how to get the most out of the formal and informal relationships that can comfort and uplift you during your grief journey. Featuring Deni
TAPS Togethers: The Heroes Journey Storytelling Workshop TAPS Togethers: The Heroes Journey Storytelling Workshop TAPS Military Survivor Together Storytelling in Tampa, Florida Eastern This event is open to military adult survivors. All adult survivors are invited to join us on Friday, February 28 for a day of community, connection and introspection as we partner with The Heroes Journey for a storytelling workshop in Tampa, Florida. Survivors will participate in a guided storytelling workshop with the team from The Heroes Journey that provides part
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Dallas TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Dallas TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Dallas, Texs Central TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration confirmation, you w
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Tulsa TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Tulsa TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Tulsa, Oklahoma Central TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration confirmation, you
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Las Vegas TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Las Vegas TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Las Vegas, Nevada Pacific TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration confirmatio
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Mount Pleasant TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Mount Pleasant TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Mount Pleasant, South Carolina Eastern TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your regist
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load St. Clair Shores TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, St. Clair Shores TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in St. Clair Shores, Michigan Eastern TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registra
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Minneapolis TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Minneapolis TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Minneapolis, Minnesota Central TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration conf
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Washington, D.C. TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Washington, D.C. TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Washington, D.C. Eastern TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration confi
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Sacramento TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Sacramento TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Sacramento, California Pacific TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration confi
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load West Point TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, West Point TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in West Point, New York Eastern TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration confirm
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Westerville TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Westerville TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Westerville, Ohio Eastern TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration confirmat
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Dallas End of Rally TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Reflective Katy Trail Walk, Dallas TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Dallas, Texs Central TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registratio
Rucking Through Grief Rucking Through Grief Gregory T. Jacobs, Surviving Father of Army SPC David M. Jacobs Hoisting my REI pack onto my back, I feel every bit of the 42 pounds inside. The seams hold together, resilient against the strain. I once again say hello to David as I start my three-mile ruck at the cemetery where he is buried. He doesn’t audibly return the gesture, but I know he is there with me. It is almost as if he winks at me each time, acknowledging, “Dad, I see you have my backpack on again, and I
Create a lasting visual legacy with the Veterans History Project Create a lasting visual legacy with the Veterans History Project Create a lasting visual legacy with the Veterans History Project \| TAPS Kerry Ward Each Memorial Day our nation remembers and honors the men and women who made the ultimate sacrifice for their country. May we never forget that all gave some, and some gave all to preserve this country. As our nation reflects on the costs of freedom, those who lost someone have an opportunity to come together and share the stories of their heroes.
Destination Discovery: Exploring the Unexpected Destination Discovery: Exploring the Unexpected Destination Discovery: Exploring the Unexpected Michele Hiester Marcum I am a planner. A calendar-toting, pen-in-hand, master of the daily grind. Phone apps? Electronic devices? Social networking reminders? Nope, none for me, thank you. I like the old-fashioned, whole month-at-a-glance paper variety with a small space in which to write each day’s activities. Last minute addition? No sweat. A squiggly arrow and a different color ink allow that mo
Sharing Love One Mask at a Time Sharing Love One Mask at a Time Sharing Love One Mask at a Time \| TAPS Terri Jones Photo courtesy of Terri Jones. You see face masks everywhere these days. What used to be reserved for the medical community has become commonplace in our daily lives. And as we often see when a challenge arises, our nation has sprung into action to help fill a need. Companies that had normal production halted due to the coronavirus started making masks. And in homes across America, sewing machines be
teams4taps Marks Second Anniversary teams4taps Marks Second Anniversary teams4taps Marks Second Anniversary TAPS The teams4taps program celebrated its two-year anniversary in November. The occasion set in motion an exciting end-of-year schedule of team engagements. Across America, survivors and their heroes were honored both on and off the playing field. And the momentum continues - in 2016, teams4taps is poised to expand relationships with professional sports teams. With each interaction, more dreams come true for TAPS famil
Healing Through Writing Healing Through Writing Healing Through Writing Artis Henderson When my husband CW2 Miles Henderson was killed in Iraq in November 2006, I felt like I had lost everything. Miles was my best friend, my teammate, the reason I got up every morning. Without him, I couldn't imagine a future. Or any future I wanted to be part of. After months of a grief so blinding I could barely function, I realized with great sadness that my life was still going, even without Miles. I started to understand that
Team TAPS: Grateful Nation Challenge Grateful Nation Challenge Team TAPS: Grateful Nation Challenge Facebook Participation Fitness Challenge: Commitment, Challenge and Courage 10238 Team TAPS, Fitness Challenge Join Team TAPS Memorial Day through July 4 breaking your routine and challenging yourself in new ways!
Photos: stars4taps SEAL Team Premiere stars4taps SEAL Team Premiere in Los Angeles stars4taps SEAL Team Premiere \| TAPS TAPS Media Download and view more high resolution images on Flickr » (9 photos) stars4taps, photos, military survivor Flickr Album Event Photos: TAPS Families attended the SEAL Team Premiere in Los Angeles, California February 25, 2020
Retreat: Carolina Coastal Carolina Sea Kayaking Expedition Coastal Carolina Sea Kayaking Expedition Text We invite all adult survivors, 18 and older, to join us on the Coastal Carolina Sea Kayaking Expedition. TAPS Expeditions are outdoor skills-based events that require dedication, preparation and a real sense of adventure. Professional guides will lead us through South Carolina's Barrier Islands, some of the country's most spectacular wilderness ecosystems. As we paddle along the coastline, we'll take in
Our Hearts Are with You, Houston Our Hearts Are with You, Houston Our Hearts Are with You, Houston TAPS Our thoughts and prayers are with everyone in our TAPS family who is affected by the historic flooding in Texas as a result of Hurricane Harvey. We want to do all we can to lessen the added strain on our families. Please know that we have a dedicated, experienced, and knowledgeable Casework Team standing by to deliver support and assistance to all of our surviving military family members. Photo Courtesy Harris County She
New Policy Affects Surviving Children with Special Needs New Policy Affects Surviving Children with Special Needs New Policy Affects Surviving Children with Special Needs TAPS New legislation now allows eligible surviving children with disabilities and incapacitated adult dependents to have their Survivor Benefit Plan payment made to a Special Needs Trust. Previously, a Special Needs Trust did not qualify to receive payments from a survivor benefit plan. What it means for survivors who receive payments from a Survivor Benefit Plan Why is this i
From Peer to Peer From Peer to Peer From Peer to Peer \| TAPS Heather Gray Blalock A TAPS Peer Mentor's Guidance for Supporting Others in Grief As a surviving spouse, I thought I understood grief. I felt I would be prepared to handle a grieving widow or family member who lost a loved one. So, it took me by surprise when I wasn’t. Five years after my husband was killed in Afghanistan, a pilot friend of ours was killed in a training exercise. I was at his wife’s house moments after the notification team left,
Giving Back and Paying it Forward Giving Back and Paying it Forward Giving Back and Paying it Forward \| TAPS TAPS TAPS relies on the generosity of its supporters to fund the critical resources, programs, and services vital to the healing of those who have lost a military loved one. The TAPS mission is a 24/7 effort, and the TAPS Development Team strives to accomplish two goals: (1) share the TAPS mission of hope and healing, and (2) raise funds necessary to support our military survivors. The COVID-19 pandemic struck in 202
Photos: Team TAPS Armed Forces Cycling Classic Team TAPS Armed Forces Cycling Classic Team TAPS Armed Forces Cycling Classic \| TAPS TAPS Media Download and view more high resolution images on Flickr » (88 photos) team taps, photos, honor the fallen, military survivor Flickr Album Event Photos: Team TAPS participate in a race weekend of fun for the whole family, including kids races, and a cycling expo on June 1 and 2, 2019.
Saturday Morning Message: The Story Behind the Name Saturday Morning Message: The Story Behind the Name Saturday Morning Message: The Story Behind the Name Carol Lane Good Morning, This week, spring arrived in my part of the country. My favorite flower is the rose, so I thought I would send a picture to you today. Now that it is warmer, people in my neighborhood stop and talk when they're outside. When I was young, many people would talk about who they were named after and why. This has always been one of my favorite conversations. Survivors
Money Matters Money Matters Money Matters Terri Starliper Dealing with Death, Dollars, & Sense On August 5, 2000, I married USAF Technical Sergeant Christopher Sheaffer. We had been together for almost 3 years. Chris was a Freefall Instructor at the Yuma Proving Grounds in Arizona. I was an accountant in Phoenix. Chris had two daughters from a previous marriage. We had bought a fixer-upper house in Phoenix with land where we could keep our horses. I had been recently promoted. We were set. Life was pict
Saturday Morning Message: Marking Days of Remembrance Saturday Morning Message: Marking Days of Remembrance Saturday Morning Message: Marking Days of Remembrance Carol Lane Good Morning, There were many responses to the question about what survivors do on special days like birthdays and angelversaries. By sharing what we do, we're able to give ideas to other survivors - and that is why the Saturday Morning Message was created. Caryn, mother of Nathan and spouse of Micheal, sent this picture of the dream catcher she will add to her son's collec
The Dream, Revised The Dream, Revised The Dream, Revised Tabitha Bonilla A glimpse into my thoughts this past September 11th anniversary… I feel like sometimes the outside world looks at me differently. I feel the pressure of others that I should "move on" since my losses occurred ten years ago. It is different on September 11th though. On that day, people pause in their everyday life, even if it is just for a moment. They remember. On this day, I feel like the world gets it, if only just for a day. I ca
Klinger’s Korner: Model & Teach Healthy Coping Klinger’s Korner: Model & Teach Healthy Coping Klinger’s Korner: Model & Teach Healthy Coping \| TAPS Andy McNiel “Children are keen observers but poor interpreters.” ~ Rudolf Dreikurs Children are like sponges, absorbing the world around them. They watch our actions during and reactions to situations as they occur. They hear the words we say in various settings and circumstances. They are paying attention to the way we react to them — when they play, when they are upset, and when th
Re-Creating Holiday Traditions Re-Creating Holiday Traditions Re-Creating Holiday Traditions \| TAPS Tina Barrett Ideas for Families Facing Very Different Holidays Holidays can be stressful, even during the best of times. For families grieving a loved one, significant dates hold even more emotional intensity and complexity. Reminders of the season — lights, music, decorations, and gift-giving — may seem out of sync with internal feelings or may trigger painful memories for families facing a very different holiday.
Run to support the TAPS mission Run to support the TAPS mission Run to support the TAPS mission \| TAPS Lalaine Estella Whether you’re a seasoned runner or aspire to run your first 10K race in the fall, now is the time to start planning your training regimen and getting into the runner’s mindset. As spring gets under way, it’s a good time to shift our focus to getting outside to start running and walking more. At TAPS, we’re excited for the fall race season as we continue to make every mile memory in honor of our loved ones
Seminar: Southern Southern Regional Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp Southern Regional Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp \| TAPS Your TAPS family warmly invites you to find a new sense of purpose and the support of peers at the Southern Regional Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp. TAPS Seminars are created with your needs in mind. Our comprehensive model of care brings together adult and children survivors for a weekend of hope and healing. Whether you recently lost your
Seminar: Southern Southern Regional Seminar and Good Grief Camp TAPS Southern Regional Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp Your TAPS family warmly invites you to find a new sense of purpose and the support of peers at the Southern Regional Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp. TAPS Seminars are created with your needs in mind. Our comprehensive model of care brings together adult and children survivors for a weekend of hope and healing. Whether you recently lost your hero, have lived man
Purple Up! For Military Kids and TAPS Legacy Mentors Purple Up! For Military Kids and TAPS Legacy Mentors Purple Up! For Military Kids and TAPS Legacy Mentors \| TAPS TAPS Purple Up! Day is a special observance during each April’s Month of the Military Child, where the public is asked to wear purple to show their support for the service and sacrifices made by our nation’s military children. At TAPS, we support all those children who are grieving a military loss and honor their sacrifices each and every day. Our Legacy Mentors, surviving childr
Run and Remember: Running the Boston Marathon for TAPS Run and Remember: Running the Boston Marathon for TAPS Run and Remember: Running the Boston Marathon for TAPS TAPS The TAPS Run and Remember Team fields most of its runners every autumn in the annual Army 10 Miler and Marine Corps Marathon events in Washington, DC. But those aren’t our only venues. Any runner can participate in any event in any location. This year, we are proud to acknowledge two runners who supported TAPS in the prestigious Boston Marathon! Andre Karr Andre Karr was fi
Grief and Mental Wellbeing in the New Year Grief and Mental Wellbeing in the New Year Grief and Mental Wellbeing in the New Year \| TAPS Raylene Moore Another year has come to an end and a fresh new year is beginning. Oftentimes this season comes with thoughts of positivity, goal setting, and self-reflection, but for those of us coping with the loss of a loved one, the start of a new year can feel daunting. Whether the loss was decades ago or very recent, the dawn of a new year can leave us yearning for our loved ones, and we can often
Saturday Morning Message: Self Care While Grieving Saturday Morning Message: Self Care While Grieving Saturday Morning Message: Self Care While Grieving Carol Lane Good Morning, Grieving the loss of a loved one takes a toll on our emotions, body, and mind. During these times, the most important thing we can do is to take care of ourselves as best we can. In today's message, survivors share what they do to take care of themselves. As you read these responses, please feel free to adopt any of these ideas. Sharing what works for us is healing a
Fundraiser: Music Fest Hollywood Casino & The Greene Turtle Sports Bar & Grille Music Fest Music Fest Fundraiser \| TAPS Eastern In partnership with TAPS, the Hollywood Casino Perryville and The Greene Turtle Sports Bar & Grille are teaming up again to kick off summer with MusicFest 2019 – a one-of-a-kind entertainment experience. This event will feature back-to-back performances from favorites The Reagan Years, Completely Unchained - The Ultimate Van Halen Tribute, Doc Marten and the Flannels and DJ Calico spinning
Voices of the Love Lives On Act of 2023 Voices of the Love Lives On Act of 2023 Voices of the Love Lives On Act of 2023 \| TAPS TAPS Why We Advocate TAPS is dedicated to supporting all military and veteran survivors, and part of this commitment is advocating for program and service improvements that can directly impact life after loss. We work closely with elected officials; the Departments of Defense, Veterans Affairs, Education, Labor, and Health and Human Services; and state and local governments to make sure survivor concerns
Voices of 9/11 - Reflections of Three TAPS Survivors Voices of 9/11 - Reflections of Three TAPS Survivors Voices of 9/11 - Reflections of Three TAPS Survivors \| TAPS Lisa Dolan Zach Laychak Robert Pycior Nineteen years ago, we woke up to the most beautiful sunny September day. Little did we know that before the day came to an end, we would be forever changed. The events of September 11, 2001, marked a turning point, for individual families, for our nation, and for the world. So many in our TAPS family were directly impacted by the terrorist atta
The Love Languages of Grief The Love Languages of Grief The Love Languages of Grief \| TAPS Alan Wolfelt When it comes to mourning and how others can best help us, there’s no one right way. Every person and every loss is unique. The people we grieve the loss of — as well as the circumstances of the loss — are also one-of-a-kind. After a significant loss, what we think and feel inside, in what ways we’re able to express those thoughts and feelings and how we feel supported by others vary from person to person and loss to
Retreat: Alaska Alaska Widows Retreat Alaska Widows Retreat All surviving spouses, fiancees and significant others are warmly invited to join TAPS for our Alaska Widows Retreat. The Alaska Widows Retreat will be a place to face the fears that may be holding you back in your grief journey and create bonds with others who understand your loss. Through physical activity and quiet moments of reflection, we'll find strength to move toward hope and healing. Throughout the event, we'll connect with each other thr
The Year of Getting Off My Couch The Year of Getting Off My Couch The Year of Getting Off My Couch Linda Ambard For those of you who have followed my journey, you realize I am closing in on being five years from the loss of the man who meant the world to me. I would gladly have given my life for his because I recognize he was that bright and shining star who made the world a better place, but trading places was never an option. For those of you who have watched or read about my journey, you have seen my struggles and you
Sports, Shopping and Shakespeare Sports, Shopping and Shakespeare Sports, Shopping and Shakespeare \| TAPS Leigh Edmonds Over the last several years, TAPS has developed amazing relationships through our Sports and Entertainment program providing families with opportunities to honor their heroes and create new memories. Teams and individual players from the NFL, NBA, Major League Baseball and NCAA have created memorable experiences for TAPS families and they step up even more during the holiday season, bringing joy during what
Run and Remember Team: Finding the FUN in Fundraising Run and Remember Team: Finding the FUN in Fundraising Run and Remember Team: Finding the FUN in Fundraising Betsy Beard Since October of 2000 when the first Run and Remember Team of two runners raised nearly five thousand dollars, fundraising has been a part of the team’s efforts on behalf of TAPS. Not only do TAPS runners spend time training for the event, but they also use their skills and ingenuity to raise awareness and raise funds in support of the TAPS mission. Some runners run only
Handling the Holidays Handling the Holidays Handling the Holidays Darcie Sims The holidays are coming and I’m not ready. Everything seems to sparkle and there is always so much to do! It is a festive time, filled with joyous occasions and family gatherings. But when your family circle has been broken by death, holidays and special days may only serve to remind you of the empty space at the table, the hole in your heart. I am not sure if I will ever again be ready for the holidays. The world has simply gone mad
Saturday Morning Message: What It's Like to Attend a TAPS Seminar or Retreat Saturday Morning Message: What It's Like to Attend a TAPS Seminar or Retreat Saturday Morning Message: What It's Like to Attend a TAPS Seminar or Retreat Carol Lane Good Morning, Deciding to go to a TAPS event can be difficult for the new survivor. Although they are held in various parts of the country, travel is often involved. The survivor asks, “What will this event be like?” or “How will I be treated?” I posed this week’s question asking survivors to share what a TAPS seminar was like. T
Webinar:The Varieties and Complexities of Grief: Advancing Our Understanding of How We Live with Loss The Varieties and Complexities of Grief: Advancing Our Understanding of How We Live with Loss Webinar \| TAPS Institute Eastern The field of grief has been burgeoning in recent decades. Advances in empirical research have led to greater awareness of the range of experiences, challenges, and complications faced by grievers. This webinar will provide a brief overview of what research has learned about the factors that shape how we live with grief and will highlight ways that grief research can co
The Gift of Leadership The Gift of Leadership The Gift of Leadership \| TAPS Coleen Bowman As the holiday season is upon us, I can’t help but look back and reflect on the past eight years. Rob and Coleen Bowman It was 2012. The weather was changing and the mornings were cool as we were approaching late fall. The chats that my husband Rob and I had sitting outside a Starbucks coffee shop in San Antonio, Texas are permanently etched in my mind. We spent our mornings drinking coffee and reflecting on our near
Partnership Creates Healing Connections To Nature and Peers For TAPS Families Partnership Creates Healing Connections To Nature and Peers For TAPS Families Partnership Creates Healing Connections To Nature and Peers For TAPS Families \| TAPS Rachel Hunsell TAPS Outdoors hosted our first TAPS Togethers National Park Fishing Day with Atlanta area TAPS families on Saturday, June 25 at Hyde Farm Park in the Chattahoochee River National Recreation Area. This is the first of ten such events in partnership with the N
Saturday Morning Message: Thankful for TAPS Saturday Morning Message: Thankful for TAPS Saturday Morning Message: Thankful for TAPS Carol Lane Good Morning, Because it is Thanksgiving weekend, this Saturday Morning Message features a list of resources TAPS provides that I am thankful for as a survivor. Since a list of all the programs would make this message too long, I’ve only included some of the programs. Visit TAPS programs web page to learn more. The picture today is from the TAPS website showing survivors participating in t
TAPS Outdoors: Breathing In the New Year A Breath of Fresh Air with TAPS Outdoors A Breath of Fresh Air - Breathing In the New Year \| TAPS This month's theme: Breathing In the New Year TAPS Outdoors wants to help you reconnect with the natural world in simple yet meaningful ways with weekly activities you can do anywhere. (Yes, we really mean anywhere.) This weekly series is for everyone and requires no previous outdoor experience! With monthly themes, we’ll help you find the right tips, tools and tricks to navigate the wilds of
TAPS Outdoors: Changing Landscapes A Breath of Fresh Air with TAPS Outdoors A Breath of Fresh Air - Changing Landscapes \| TAPS This month's theme: Changing Landscapes TAPS Outdoors wants to help you reconnect with the natural world in simple yet meaningful ways with weekly activities you can do anywhere. (Yes, we really mean anywhere.) This weekly series is for everyone and requires no previous outdoor experience! With monthly themes, we’ll help you find the right tips, tools and tricks to navigate the wilds of our natural
TAPS Outdoors: Getting & Staying Grounded A Breath of Fresh Air with TAPS Outdoors A Breath of Fresh Air - Getting & Staying Grounded \| TAPS This month's theme: Getting & Staying Grounded TAPS Outdoors wants to help you reconnect with the natural world in simple yet meaningful ways with weekly activities you can do anywhere. (Yes, we really mean anywhere.) This weekly series is for everyone and requires no previous outdoor experience! With monthly themes, we’ll help you find the right tips, tools and tricks to navigate the wilds
TAPS Outdoors: Seasons of Grief A Breath of Fresh Air with TAPS Outdoors A Breath of Fresh Air - Seasons of Grief \| TAPS This month's theme: Seasons of Grief TAPS Outdoors wants to help you reconnect with the natural world in simple yet meaningful ways with weekly activities you can do anywhere. (Yes, we really mean anywhere.) This weekly series is for everyone and requires no previous outdoor experience! With monthly themes, we’ll help you find the right tips, tools and tricks to navigate the wilds of our natural world
Team TAPS: Bank of America Chicago Marathon Bank of America Chicago Marathon Bank of America Chicago Marathon with Team TAPS Race in the 2025 Bank of America Chicago Marathon for Team TAPS! Team TAPS Benefits: Guaranteed Entry into the world famous Bank of America Chicago Marathon Signature Team TAPS race singlet and team gear Personalized support and technical help to create engaging fundraising within your network Your own personalized fundraising page where you can track your donations 24/7 Applications to participate are clo
Team TAPS: Bank of America Bank of America Chicago Marathon Bank of America Chicago Marathon with Team TAPS Race in the 2024 Bank of America Chicago Marathon for Team TAPS! Team TAPS Benefits: Guaranteed Entry into the world famous Bank of America Chicago Marathon Signature Team TAPS race singlet and team gear Personalized support and technical help to create engaging fundraising within your network Your own personalized fundraising page where you can track your donations 24/7 Applications to participate are clo
Team TAPS: Tokyo Marathon Tokyo Marathon with Team TAPS Tokyo Marathon with Team TAPS Race in the 2026 Tokyo Marathon for Team TAPS set for Sunday, March 1, 2026! Team TAPS Benefits: Guaranteed Entry into the Tokyo Marathon Signature Team TAPS race singlet and team gear Personalized support and technical help to create engaging fundraising within your network Your own personalized fundraising page where you can track your donations 24/7 Not Racing? Support this Tokyo Marathon Run for Charity and TAPS by sponso
Self Care Self Care Self Care Leslie McCaddon Reconnecting…with myself One of the things I heard early on at TAPS, as well as from my counselor at home, is the importance of self-care. I’m a mother of three young children. Whenever this term “self-care” is thrown around in my presence I don’t know whether to laugh or cry. Photo Courtesy of Leslie McCaddon Take care of myself? Sure! I try to shower, most days. I eat well…well, at least when I eat the kid’s leftovers! I sleep. Sure, I sleep!
Finding Strength Together, on the Trail Finding Strength Together, on the Trail Finding Strength Together, on the Trail \| TAPS Rachel Hunsell The Grand Canyon has a way of changing you. You push through extreme difficulty, foster a community through a common bond, and learn that you are stronger than you believed and capable of doing whatever you set your mind to. On our TAPS Expeditions we truly remember the love, celebrate the life, and share the journey. The small group of survivors who recently trekked nearly 50 miles in
Letters from TAPS: From the Volunteer Coordinator Letters from TAPS: From the Volunteer Coordinator Letters from TAPS: From the Volunteer Coordinator Jerome Tennille Dear TAPS Family, Nearly twenty-eight years ago in 1985, the General Assembly of the United Nations designated December 5 of every year as International Volunteer Day. It is an annual celebration of all that is achieved by volunteers around the world. As we observe that special day and enter the season of winter holidays, with their emphasis on light and warmth and giving, I
Carry the Load Carry the Load Carry the Load Marie Campbell Reminding Americans About the Real Meaning of Memorial Day As a survivor, it was an honor to participate in the Carry the Load national relay as it went through Washington, D.C. as we made our journey from the Lincoln Memorial into Arlington National Cemetery honoring America's fallen heroes. I was in the company of other military surviving families, battle buddies, and a few wonderful supporters of TAPS. Participants carried items of special mea
Saturday Morning Message: How Do Dreams Help Our Grief Journey? Saturday Morning Message: How Do Dreams Help Our Grief Journey? Saturday Morning Message: How Do Dreams Help Our Grief Journey? \| TAPS Carol Lane Good morning, Dreams of our loved ones come to some of us and not to others. This is normal. If you have dreams, talking or writing about those dreams can be healing. This week, survivors shared their dreams and how those dreams helped their grieving process. They wrote about their continued understanding of the connection with their loved ones t
Expedition: California Mount Shasta Climbing Expedition Mount Shasta Climbing Expedition We invite all adult survivors 18 and older to join us on the Mount Shasta Climbing Expedition as we experience a truly rewarding personal challenge. TAPS Expeditions are outdoor skills-based events that require dedication, preparation and a real sense of adventure. With the support of fellow survivors, we'll climb to the peak of Mount Shasta. This trip will be a technical pursuit and physical challenge combined. Professi
Expedition: Grand Canyon Grand Canyon South Rim Expedition Grand Canyon South Rim Expedition We invite all adult survivors 18 and older to join us on the Grand Canyon South Rim Expedition as we gain radical perspective and overcome a true personal challenge. TAPS Expeditions are outdoor skills-based events that require dedication, preparation and a real sense of adventure. On this physically demanding backpacking trip through America's greatest natural wonder, we'll hike on steep, rocky trails with dramatic el
Expedition: Utah Green River Whitewater Expedition Green River Whitewater Expedition We invite all adult survivors 18 and older to join us on the Green River Whitewater Expedition as we gain new perspective and experience a truly rewarding challenge. TAPS Expeditions are outdoor skills-based events that require dedication, preparation and a real sense of adventure. On this thrill-seeking rafting trip in the Dinosaur National Monument, we'll wind through deep canyons and stunning red rock scenery. During
Expedition: Washington San Juan Islands Kayaking Expedition San Juan Islands Kayaking Expedition We invite all adult survivors 18 and older to join us on the San Juan Islands Kayaking Expedition for a trip that combines both adventure and serenity. TAPS Expeditions are outdoor skills-based events that require dedication, preparation and a real sense of adventure. Together with your TAPS family, we'll kayak through the San Juan Islands and experience its stunning landscapes and abundant wildlife. During this
teams4taps 2022 Replay teams4taps 2022 Replay teams4taps 2022 Replay \| TAPS TAPS Thanks to the generosity and hospitality of sports organizations across the country and the United Kingdom, TAPS helped surviving families honor their heroes and make incredible memories alongside their favorite athletes and teams. Take a look at some of our favorite teams4taps moments from 2022. The San Francisco 49ers created a special experience for a TAPS family at their November 13 Salute to Service game, which included
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Portland TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Portland TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Portland, Oregon Pacific TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration confirmation,
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Canandaigua TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Canandaigua TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Canandaigua, New York Eastern TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration confi
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Portage TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Portage TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Portage, Michigan Eastern TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration confirmation,
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Tampa TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Tampa TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Tampa, Florida Eastern TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration confirmation, you
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Mount Vernon TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Mount Vernon TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Mount Vernon, Texas Central TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration confir
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Fort Worth TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Fort Worth TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Fort Worth, Texs Central TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration confirmatio
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Alexandria TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Alexandria TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Alexandria, Virginia Eastern TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration confirm
TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Cocoa Beach TAPS Togethers: Carry the Load Relay, Cocoa Beach TAPS Military Survivor Together Carry the Load in Cocoa Beach, Florida Eastern TAPS is honored to be a part of the 2025 Carry the Load National Relay as a National Non-Profit Partner. TAPS Family members of all ages are invited to participate in this very moving and inspirational memorial walk as you honor and carry your fallen heroes and represent TAPS. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Registration is required: Once you receive your registration confir
Children’s Bereavement and Emotional Wellness, Part 2 Children’s Bereavement and Emotional Wellness, Part 2 Children’s Bereavement and Emotional Wellness, Part 2 Andrea Hug As grieving parents, we are concerned about the care and support we are able to offer our grieving children. How can we help children bounce back when they have experienced a profound loss or trauma? How do we offer good bereavement support for children? How do we help others to help our children? Consider the following topics in light of your child’s loss. Go through the bul
Finding Your Way through the Holidays Finding Your Way through the Holidays Finding Your Way through the Holidays Andrea Hug A Guide for Parents of Grieving Children The holiday season is here. At least that’s what the advertisers think. We hear “Happy Holidays,” “Feliz Navidad,” and “Happy New Year” all the time and wonder if we will ever be happy again. For those of us who are grieving, getting from one day to the next may be all we can manage during this season. Grieving is the hardest and most demanding work you will eve
Saturday Morning Message: Take Good Care Saturday Morning Message: Take Good Care Saturday Morning Message: Take Good Care \| TAPS Carol Lane Good Morning, This is the first Saturday Morning Message for 2019, so it seemed appropriate to put a picture of a clock counting down to the new year. In an article written by Betsy Beard titled "A Year Without My Loved One In It," she lists 10 resolutions that might be appropriate for a grieving person. This week survivors shared what they are going to do to take care of themselves in the new
Grief 101: Advice to New TAPS Survivors Grief 101: Advice to New TAPS Survivors Grief 101: Advice to New TAPS Survivors TAPS The Saturday Message is a letter that comes through email to TAPS parents, spouses, siblings, and friends. It includes thoughts from the survivors themselves. When one asks a question, the others are free to respond. Asked recently what advice they would give to a newly bereaved person, TAPS survivors responded with powerful and diverse answers. DEB BONN Surviving mother of Ensign Elizabeth Bonn This will
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Team TAPS: Marine Corps Marathon, 50K, and 10K Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). 51609 Arlington, Virginia 22202 Marine Corps Marathon, Team TAPS, Honor the Fallen Team TAPS: Marine Corps Marathon, 50K and 10K Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Marine Corps Marathon October 30, 2022.
Team TAPS: Marine Corps Marathon, 50K, and 10K Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). 28770 Arlington, Virginia 22202 Marine Corps Marathon, Team TAPS, Honor the Fallen Team TAPS: Marine Corps Marathon, 50K and 10K Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Marine Corps Marathon October 31, 2021.
Team TAPS: Carry the Load Carry the Load Carry the Load \| Team TAPS We are non profit partners with Carry the Load this year. Every dollar raised on our team page will go directly to TAPS. 37652 Virtual Event Across the Country 75226 Carry the Load, honor the fallen, team taps Team TAPS: Carry the Load Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) for the Carry the Load virtual event for the month of May, 2020.
Team TAPS: Marine Corps Marathon, 50K, and 10K Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). 28770 Arlington, Virginia 22202 Marine Corps Marathon, Team TAPS, Honor the Fallen Team TAPS: Marine Corps Marathon, 50K and 10K Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Marine Corps Marathon October 27, 2019.
Photos: teams4taps WNBA teams4taps at Women's National Basketball Association All-Star Team v USA Basketball Women's National Team WNBA All-Star Team v USA Basketball Women's National Team \| TAPS TAPS Media Download and view more high resolution images on Flickr » (20 photos) teams4taps, photos, military survivor Flickr Album Event Photos: TAPS Families attended the Women's National Basketball Association All-Star Team v USA Basketball Women's Na
Photos: Team TAPS Marine Corps Marathon Team TAPS Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run \| Team TAPS TAPS Media Download and view more high resolution images on Flickr » (439 photos) Team Taps, Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run, Photos Team TAPS Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run Photos Flickr Album Event Photos, Team TAPS participate in the Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run October 27 to 28, 2018
Expeditions: California TAPS and Outward Bound Backpacking Expedition TAPS and Outward Bound Backpacking Expedition for Military Survivors \| TAPS All participants will be required to show proof of their COVID-19 vaccination(s). All adult survivors 18 and older are invited to join TAPS and Outward Bound California on a backpacking expedition through the majestic Sierra Nevada Mountains. Our shared experience will have us breathe deeply amidst the pines and soaking in breathtaking sunrises and sunsets. What awaits
Expeditions: Midwest Midwest Hidden Gems by Canoe Expedition Midwest Hidden Gems by Canoe Expedition for Military Survivors \| TAPS All adult survivors 18 and older are invited to join TAPS on the 2021 Midwest Hidden Gems by Canoe Expedition as we explore the wilderness of our earth and of our grief alongside our fellow survivors from every population. These therapeutic, outdoor skills-based events are led by both TAPS facilitators and professional outdoor guides through some of the world’s most challenging and ins
Expeditions: California TAPS and Outward Bound Backpacking Expedition TAPS and Outward Bound California Backpacking Expedition for Military Survivors All adult survivors 18 and older are invited to join TAPS and Outward Bound California on the Point Reyes National Seashore Backpacking Expedition as we find new purpose, gain radical perspective, and remember what it feels like to live with determination. TAPS Expeditions are outdoor skills-based events that require dedication, preparation and a real sense of advent
Faces of TAPS: Surviving Spouse Shelley Kea's Story Faces of TAPS: Surviving Spouse Shelley Keas’s Story Faces of TAPS: Surviving Spouse Shelley Keas’s Story \| TAPS TAPS Shelley Keas Faces of TAPS is a digital content series where, in their own words, survivors both celebrate the lives of their military loved ones and reflect on their personal grief journey. Shelley Keas is the surviving spouse of United States Army Staff Sergeant Jeffrey Dallas Keas, who died from cancer on July 5, 2013, while stationed at Fort Hood, Texas. Shelley has honore
The Transformation Book offers practical ways to heal after trauma 'The Transformation': Book offers practical ways to heal after trauma 'The Transformation': Book offers practical ways to heal after trauma \| TAPS Lalaine Estella “The Transformation: Discovering Wholeness and Healing After Trauma,” by James Gordon, MD, is available on Smile.Amazon.com. If you select TAPS - Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors as your designated charity, a portion of sales of all products go to support TAPS programs. You could look at Dr. James Gordon’s new book, “The
TAPS Togethers: Seattle February 22 TAPS Togethers: Woodland Park Zoo, Seattle TAPS Military Survivor Together in Seattle, Washington Pacific This event is open to military adults and children survivors. TAPS families are invited to come together for a day of fun and connection at the Woodland Park Zoo. The Woodland Park Zoo saves wildlife and inspires everyone to make conservation a priority in their lives. These tickets have been generously donated by Woodland Park Zoo. ADDITIONAL DETAILS Location: Seattle, Washington 9
30 Fields, 1 Dream 30 Fields, 1 Dream 30 Fields, 1 Dream \| TAPS TAPS Quiet moments alone on deployment create space in the mind for reflection, missing home, and planning for the future. While deployed and separated from his family in 2014, Air Force Colonel Ronald “Erick” (call sign Fangs) Gilbert used one such quiet moment to set an ambitious goal to visit all 30 Major League Baseball stadiums with his family — wife, Kasia, and sons, Dane and Chase — before his oldest, Dane turned 18 in July 2024. At the hear
Military Child: Acknowledge the Sacrifice Your Children and Teenagers Have Made this April Military Child: Acknowledge the Sacrifice Your Children and Teenagers Have Made this April Military Child: Acknowledge the Sacrifice Your Children and Teenagers Have Made this April \| TAPS TAPS April is the Month of the Military Child, and while there are many ways to recognize military children during this month — like wearing purple on Purple Up Day, April 15, there are also opportunities to celebrate our surviving children and teenagers at home by acknowledging their sacrifice and connec
Volunteer Peer Mentors Give Their Hearts to TAPS Mission Volunteer Peer Mentors Give Their Hearts to TAPS Mission Volunteer Peer Mentors Give Their Hearts to TAPS Mission \| TAPS TAPS More than 1,100 strong, our compassionate Peer Mentors continue to give their hearts and volunteer their time to TAPS, recognizing how much their own Peer Mentors supported them during their early days of grief — and paying it forward. As one survivor shared, her relationship with her Peer Mentor has been invaluable during her grief journey: “I was matched with m
Request a Community Resource Report for Tailored Grief Support Request a Community Resource Report for Tailored Grief Support Request a Community Resource Report for Tailored Grief Support Lalaine Estella In addition to peer support and services that TAPS provides, we also connect survivors to grief resources close to home. Upon request, TAPS can provide a detailed report of support groups in your community. We do the research, make phone calls to group facilitators and ensure the groups are an appropriate fit for you. We find out if groups are acti
TAPS is Always Here For You TAPS is Always Here For You TAPS is Always Here For You TAPS The holidays are a festive time, filled with joyous occasions and family gatherings. But when your family circle has been broken by death, each holiday is a reminder of the empty spot at the table, the hole in your heart. As we set the dishes and count the silverware for Thanksgiving, we are acutely aware of the empty places at the family table. We try to find something, anything, to be thankful for. We hold our breath and hope t
Saturday Morning Message: Treating Yourself Saturday Morning Message: Treating Yourself Treating Yourself \| TAPS Saturday Morning Message Carol Lane Good morning, The idea for this week’s topic came from reading an article from the TAPS blog, "Redefining Self-Care in the Age of COVID-19," written by Grace Seamon-Lahiff. She not only showed how self-care has evolved over time, but offered some simple ways to accomplish it during this difficult time. For example, she wrote, “Is anxiety trying to tell you that only catastrophe i
Reflections of a First Time Mentor Reflections of a First Time Mentor Reflections of a First Time Mentor Robert Statchen One of the many TAPS activities offered throughout the year is the summer overnight Good Grief Camp-Out for children who have lost a parent or sibling. I was honored to have the opportunity to volunteer at one of these camps last June and would like to share my experience. In addition to the tragic death of a loved one, many TAPS children also experience a break with the military lifestyle they have kn
Saturday Morning Message: Letting Others Know You Love Them Saturday Morning Message: Letting Others Know You Love Them Saturday Morning Message: Letting Others Know You Love Them Carol Lane Good Morning, This week’s question centered around letting others know that you love them while you are grieving the loss of an important person in your life. This is not easy - especially when you are early in your grief journey. When you are new to grief, it can be hard to focus on anything for more than a few minutes at a time. What do you do? For me, I ac
Klinger's Korner: A Season for Presence Klinger's Korner: A Season for Presence Klinger's Korner: A Season for Presence \| TAPS Andy McNiel The holiday season brings families and friends together, creating opportunities to make and share special memories and create or carry on traditions. But, in the midst of intense grief, the holidays can feel like a burden rather than a blessed time with family and friends. When children are in the home, you may feel the need to maintain positive, festive energy so they can still enjoy this speci
Seek Reconciliation, Not Resolution Seek Reconciliation, Not Resolution Seek Reconciliation, Not Resolution Alan Wolfelt “Mourning never really ends. Only as time goes on, it erupts less frequently.” ~ Anonymous How do you ever find your way out of the wilderness of your grief? You don't have to dwell there forever, do you? The good news is that no, you don't have to dwell there forever. If you follow the trail markers on your journey through the wilderness, you will find your way out. But just as with any significant exper
Veteran climbs Denali to raise money for TAPS Veteran climbs Denali to raise money for TAPS Veteran climbs Denali to raise money for TAPS Kerry McGinley For Seth Whitfield, eight days of brutal winds, near-zero visibility and frigid temperatures over potentially lethal terrain on North America’s highest peak wasn’t just about challenging himself physically; it was also a chance to raise awareness and funds for TAPS. Whitfield used his personal vacation as the basis of a campaign to raise $10,600 for TAPS, a nonprofit that supports the fa
Stronger Every Day Stronger Every Day Stronger Every Day Emily Munoz Find out how you can become stronger every day by emailing innerwarrior@taps.org. For many people, this call manifests itself in a need for purposeful movement. Whether it’s emotional or spiritual exploration, perspective changes or physical activity, movement is proof of life. It’s an indication that, while we may feel left behind in a world without our loved ones, we’re still called to lead full, rich lives that honor them and ourselves.
Grief, Loss and Autism Grief, Loss and Autism Grief, Loss and Autism \| TAPS Andy McNeil Each person within a family experiences grief after a death in their own way. April is National Autism Awareness Month, and at TAPS, we recognize the unique ways that grief might be expressed by children and adults on the autism spectrum. We strive to make our programs and services available to all who are grieving and acknowledge that, though grief might look different from person to person, all people deserve care and support.
'My brother brought us together’ 'My brother brought us together’ My brother brought us together \| TAPS Deb Lucey In May 2013, I attended the TAPS National Military Survivor Seminar and went to watch Rolling Thunder, the massive motorcycle rally in Washington, D.C., that occurs every Memorial Day weekend. Hundreds of thousands of members on motorcycles do a slow ride, called the Ride to Freedom, to honor the military fallen and their loved ones. The ride starts at the Pentagon and heads to the monuments on the National Mall.
Webinar: Understanding Combat Trauma: The Influence and Impact of Survivor Guilt Webinar: Understanding Combat Trauma: The Influence and Impact of Survivor Guilt Webinar: Understanding Combat Trauma: The Influence and Impact of Survivor Guilt GUEST SPEAKERS: M. David Rudd, PhD, ABPP University of Utah; Dean, College of Social and Behavioral Science; Professor of Psychology Program Moderator: Jill Harrington LaMorie, MSW, LSW, ACSW, Director, Professional Education, Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors. Survivor guilt occurs when an individual perceives him- or her
Team TAPS: Marine Corps Marathon and 10K Marine Corps Marathon and 10K Marine Corps Marathon and 10K \| Team TAPS Team TAPS has guaranteed entry to the 2024 Marine Corps Marathon and MCM 10K! Join the team to raise awareness and funds for Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death of a military or veteran loved one. Whether you need a race slot or secured your own through the lottery, join us to make a difference in the lives of the families of the fallen
Seven Grief Strategies for the New Year Seven Grief Strategies for the New Year Seven Grief Strategies for the New Year Brad Stetson The old saying is true: "If there is an elephant in the room, introduce him." No good purpose is served by denial, yet we are very good at it. And when it comes to facing the pain of our grief with eyes open, we often turn away instead. But when we have a psychological elephant in the room of our mind, we should acknowledge him, and plan a way to shrink him down to a manageable size then get him on hi
Discover a New Sense of Meaning and Purpose by Becoming a TAPS Peer Mentor Discover a New Sense of Meaning and Purpose by Becoming a TAPS Peer Mentor Discover a New Sense of Meaning and Purpose by Becoming a TAPS Peer Mentor \| TAPS Michelle Knuppe Peer Mentors are the foundation of the TAPS mission to provide compassionate care to all those grieving the death of a military loved one. Mentors offer support in ways that only someone who has walked the unique path of military loss can provide. Survivors often express gratitude for the support they received from a me
Healing Stories Transcend Cultural Boundaries Healing Stories Transcend Cultural Boundaries Healing Stories Transcend Cultural Boundaries Bevin Landrum Not every TAPS survivor is able to attend one of our healing events. Family or health constraints may leave us feeling isolated and alone in our grief. For our families, their TAPS Survivor Care Team contact, our community-based care connections and the TAPS Magazine may be the only regular supports they have. When you add on a parallel cultural grief experience it can feel overwhelming.
Retreats: Alaska Parents Alaska Parents Retreat Alaska Parents Retreat FOR PARENTS Experience the beauty and serenity of Alaska as we connect with other surviving parents, create lifelong friendships and celebrate our heroes as we help each other move forward in our journey. ADVENTURE LEVEL This retreat is rated as an intermediate intensity adventure. Activities will involve moderate physical activity and will challenge you, but do not include extreme adventures. You should expect to participate in some form of p
Retreats: Alaska Siblings Alaska Siblings Retreat Alaska Siblings Retreat FOR SIBLILNGS Experience the adventure of The Last Frontier as we connect with other surviving siblings, create lifelong friendships and celebrate our heroes as we help each other move forward in our journey. ADVENTURE LEVEL This retreat is rated as an intermediate intensity adventure. Activities will involve moderate physical activity and will challenge you, but do not include extreme adventures. You should expect to participate in some for
Wearing Your Heart on Your Sleeve Wearing Your Heart on Your Sleeve Wearing Your Heart on Your Sleeve \| TAPS Matt Daud TAPS seminars and events are always full of colorful and distinct shirts — red, black, white, green, teal, purple, blue, gray, yellow, and burgundy. We wear them to show our connection to TAPS and to each other. When I am at the airport, I am always on the lookout for anyone wearing one of the unmistakable TAPS shirts as I walk through the terminal. I pass thousands of passengers during busy times and see a
Get Texts From Your TAPS Family! Get Texts From Your TAPS Family! Get Texts From Your TAPS Family! TAPS TAPS is expanding our mobile messaging capabilities with an exciting new program that allows us to text care group reminders, event invitations, deadlines and more to mobile phones in the US. Want to sign up? Just text TAPS to 95577. All TAPS text messages will come from the short code 95577. Some of you may already receive personal text messages from our Survivor Care Team or other staff with whom you have a relations
Saturday Morning Message: Uplifting Our Spirits Saturday Morning Message: Uplifting Our Spirits Saturday Morning Message: Uplifting Our Spirits \| TAPS Carol Lane Good morning, Uplifting our spirits on the grief journey can sometimes be a daunting task. This week survivors share ideas about what they find useful to raise their feelings when they are down. One of the methods sent by Winona, spouse of Clifford, is gardening. She sent this beautiful picture of her garden — you will read more below about how she accomplishes a more peaceful pe
Saturday Morning Message: Handling the Holidays Saturday Morning Message: Handling the Holidays Saturday Morning Message: Handling the Holidays Carol Lane Good Morning, The flickering light of candles in a darkened room always has a calming effect on me. I appreciate the soothing nature of their gentle glow during the shorter days of the holiday season. Listening to peaceful music can also be helpful. This week’s song sent in by Merry, mother of Wesley, will be perfect for those times when my mind is jumping from one thing to another, whi
Klinger's Korner: Controlling What You Can - Attitude Klinger's Korner: Controlling What You Can - Attitude Klinger's Korner: Controlling What You Can - Attitude \| TAPS Andy McNiel The fall season brings with it several transitions each year. Most of us see a change in the weather, temperature, and natural environment. Many will experience the change of colors as the leaves burst with orange, red, and brown. Others may have a slight shift from the heat of summer to more moderate temperatures of fall. Children and teenagers transition back into a
Seminar: National 2016 22nd National Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp 22nd National Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp You are warmly invited and encouraged to attend the 22nd Annual TAPS National Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp for Young Survivors. Adult Seminar Join us as we bring together survivors to share a weekend of understanding, hope, courage, and love. Since 1995, TAPS has welcomed all who are grieving the loss of a loved one who died while serving, providing a fu
TAPS Casework Assistance Available to Military Survivors During Government Shutdown TAPS Casework Assistance Available to Military Survivors During Government Shutdown TAPS Casework Assistance Available to Military Survivors During Government Shutdown TAPS TAPS as a non-profit unaffiliated with the government remains open in event of any shutdown. We are here for any survivors with questions about benefits and in need of resource connections. With a government shutdown, there is no way for the government to pay the death gratuity ($100,000) benefit. This benefit is typic
Expedition: Yosemite Yosemite Mens Expedition TAPS Yosemite Mens Expedition for Military Survivors All adult male survivors 18 and older are invited to join TAPS on the Yosemite Men's Backpacking Expedition as we find new purpose, gain radical perspective, and remember what it feels like to live with determination. TAPS Expeditions are outdoor skills-based events that require dedication, preparation and a real sense of adventure. Our route along Yosemite Creek takes advantage of running snowmelt, which feeds into
Team TAPS: Windy25 13th Annual Windy25 Memorial 5K 13th Annual Windy25 Memorial 5K \| TAPS Join us at the Cosmopolitan in Las Vegas. When you register with Team TAPS, you are joining thousands across the country to remember and honor those who gave their life for their country. 49827 Las Vegas, Nevada 89109 team taps, windy25 Windy25 Memorial Fund 5K Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS).
Team TAPS: Windy25 12th Annual Windy25 Memorial 5K 12th Annual Windy25 Memorial 5K \| TAPS Join us at the Cosmopolitan in Las Vegas. When you register with Team TAPS, you are joining thousands across the country to remember and honor those who gave their life for their country. 49827 Las Vegas, Nevada 89109 team taps, windy25 Windy25 Memorial Fund 5K Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS).
Team TAPS: Windy25 11th Annual Windy25 Memorial VIRTUAL 5K 11th Annual Windy25 Memorial VIRTUAL 5K \| TAPS Join us at the Cosmopolitan in Las Vegas. When you register with Team TAPS, you are joining thousands across the country to remember and honor those who gave their life for their country. 4016 Las Vegas, Nevada 89109 team taps, windy25 Windy25 Memorial Fund 5K Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS).
Team TAPS: Windy25 Windy25 Memorial Fund 5K Windy25 Memorial Fund 5K \| TAPS Join us at the Cosmopolitan in Las Vegas. When you register with Team TAPS, you are joining thousands across the country to remember and honor those who gave their life for their country. 4016 Las Vegas, Nevada 89109 team taps, windy25 Windy25 Memorial Fund 5K Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS).
Team TAPS: Windy25 Windy25 Memorial Fund 5K Windy25 Memorial Fund 5K \| TAPS Join us at the Cosmopolitan in Las Vegas. When you register with Team TAPS, you are joining thousands across the country to remember and honor those who gave their life for their country. 4016 Las Vegas, Nevada 89109 team taps, windy25 Windy25 Memorial Fund 5K Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS).
Team TAPS: Windy25 Windy25 Memorial Fund 5K Windy25 Memorial Fund 5K Join us at the Cosmopolitan in Las Vegas. When you register with Team TAPS, you are joining thousands across the country to remember and honor those who gave their life for their country. 4016 Las Vegas, Nevada team taps, windy25 Windy25 Memorial Fund 5K Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS).
Team TAPS: Windy25 Windy25 Memorial Fund 5K Windy25 Memorial Fund 5K Join us at the Cosmopolitan in Las Vegas. When you register with Team TAPS, you are joining thousands across the country to remember and honor those who gave their life for their country. 4016 team taps, windy25 Windy25 Memorial Fund 5K Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS).
Photos: Carry the Load with Team TAPS and TAPS Togethers Carry the Load with Team TAPS and TAPS Togethers Carry the Load with Team TAPS and TAPS Togethers Photos \| TAPS TAPS Media Download and view more high resolution images on Flickr » (75 photos) taps togethers, team taps, survivors Flickr Album Event Photos: TAPS Families meet to honor their heroes nationwide during Carry the Load during the month of May 2024.
Run and Remember Team: Diary of a Runner Run and Remember Team: Diary of a Runner Run and Remember Team: Diary of a Runner Bethany Crudele Excerpted from Marine Corps Times' Battle Rattle blog and reprinted with permission. www.marinecorpstimes.com September 13, 2012 This year, I am running the Marine Corps Marathon as a member of Team “Doc” Almazan. While I never met Army Sergeant David Almazan, a combat medic killed in Iraq in 2006, I’ve run several races in memory of him and in support of his surviving wife, Salina Jimene
Fargo Marathon Fargo Marathon Fargo Marathon Rachael Hill On May 19th I ran my first full marathon in Fargo, ND with the TAPS Run and Remember team. I have had people ask me, “Why would you want to run 26.2 miles? That’s crazy!” Yes, it is definitely crazy but in my mind if you can run a marathon, you can do anything! My running adventures began in the summer of 2009. We had been in Alaska for not quite a year and I randomly decided I wanted to run a half marathon. Jeff was always very supportive of what
5 Ways to a Healthier Summer (Even if Your Heart’s Not In It) 5 Ways to a Healthier Summer (Even if Your Heart’s Not In It) 5 Ways to a Healthier Summer (Even if Your Heart’s Not In It) Emily Munoz Summer, with its long days of light and warmth, is also a great time to stretch yourself emotionally and physically. Listen to nature’s cues to grow, just a little, even if you’re not feeling the sunshine (yet). 1. Remember you’re not too hurt for simple pleasures. It may seem that way in early grief, when loss leaves you hollow. But trying to find small
Grief and Sleep Grief and Sleep Grief and Sleep \| TAPS Heather Stang 7 Tips to Cope with Insomnia After Loss Coping with grief isn’t easy. In addition to the emotional toll, there are a myriad of physical side effects. Sleeplessness is perhaps one of the most frustrating symptoms – when you are sleepy and can’t sleep it just adds insult to injury. While insomnia is considered a common grief reaction, sleeplessness should not be ignored, but tended to mindfully. When we don’t get enough sleep it impacts
Myths about Children and Grief Myths about Children and Grief Myths about Children and Grief Darcie Sims Children are often shuttled off or ignored by adults who may be grieving themselves and do not have the energy, resources, or understanding necessary to help them. Society tends to pacify itself with the rationale that children are resilient and thus fails to recognize that children need as much compassion and support as adults require in adapting to dramatic or traumatic changes in their lives. Loss, regardless of t
Team TAPS: Carry the Load Carry the Load with Team TAPS Carry the Load with Team TAPS Join your TAPS family during this very moving and inspiring memorial month as we honor our heroes nationwide during Carry the Load. How Can You Participate? There are several ways you can participate and honor your fallen hero. Join one of the relay routes near your city or town, join others at one of Rally Cities, join the finish at the Dallas Memorial March, or at a relay location with TAPS Togethers and honor y
Team TAPS: Carry the Load Carry the Load with Team TAPS Carry the Load with Team TAPS Join your TAPS family during this very moving and inspiring memorial month as we honor our heroes nationwide during Carry the Load. How Can You Participate? There are several ways you can participate and honor your fallen hero. Join one of the relay routes near your city or town, join others at one of Rally Cities, join the finish at the Dallas Memorial March, or at a relay location with TAPS Togethers and honor y
Expeditions: North Carolina TAPS Appalachian Trail Backpacking Expedition TAPS Appalachian Trail Backpacking Expedition for Military Survivors All adult survivors 18 and older are invited to join TAPS on a Backpacking Expedition along a section of the scenic Appalachian Trail as we find new purpose, connection, and remember what it feels like to live with determination. OVERVIEW TAPS Expeditions are outdoor skills-based events that require dedication, preparation and a real sense of adventure. With our fellow surv
Running for Andrew Running for Andrew Running for Andrew \| Team TAPS Jaime Boris “The Marine Corps Marathon was the most gratifying and humbling yet toughest physical and emotional experience I’ve had since burying my son. It was heart-healing in so many ways.”—Diana Cross, surviving mother Running a marathon was always on Diana Cross’s bucket list. She and her husband, Dan, found TAPS after the death of their son, Army National Guard SGT Andrew Cross, in 2009. “When I found out I could run in the Marine Corp
Team TAPS: Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). 5357 Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS).
Team TAPS: Army Ten Miler Army Ten Miler Army Ten Miler 10590 Washington, D.C. team taps, honor the fallen Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military.
Team TAPS: Disney Wine and Dine Disney Wine and Dine Half Marathon Weekend Disney Wine and Dine Half Marathon Weekend 10580 Orlando, Florida team taps, honor the fallen Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military.
Team TAPS: Disneyland Disneyland® Half Marathon Weekend presented by Cigna® Disneyland® Half Marathon Weekend presented by Cigna® 10598 Anaheim, California team taps, honor the fallen Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military.
Team TAPS: Marine Corps Marathon, 10k, and Kids Run Marine Corps Marathon, 10k, and Kids Run Marine Corps Marathon, 10k, and Kids Run 10596 Washington, D.C. team taps, honor the fallen Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military.
Team TAPS: NYC Marathon TCS New York City Marathon TCS New York City Marathon 10585 New York, New York team taps, honor the fallen Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military.
Team TAPS: Windy25 6th Annual Windy25 Memorial 5K 6th Annual Windy25 Memorial 5K 10531 Las Vegas, Nevada team taps, honor the fallen Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military.
Living the Legacy: Picture the Fallen Living the Legacy: Picture the Fallen Living the Legacy ~ Picture the Fallen Jessica Dumont-Oatman It has recently occurred to me that we—all of us American citizens—are the legacy of our American soldiers. We owe them our lives—lives that must be lived to their fullest potential. And this is the greatest tribute we could possibly give. ~ Annette Bridges, freelance writer from Texas. A picture is worth a thousand words. That’s all I need to say when someone views the photo of my brother’
Battlefield Promises Battlefield Promises Battlefield Promises Emily Munoz This week, I followed along on Facebook as a friend, his wife and their church lived out a 2004 battlefield promise. I am still reeling from how they cared, how they mobilized and what the lessons are for us all. An Army veteran who’s pretty impressive with his handcycle, his integrity and his relentless pursuit of positivity, my friend Ed decided that, when his Iraqi interpreter’s move to the U.S. finally started to become a reality, t
Holding a Safe Space for Men Holding a Safe Space for Men Holding a Safe Space for Men \| TAPS Lalaine Estella What we’ve come to know at TAPS is that men and women grieve differently. Men can be more stoic and reserved, while women are more expressive. While men in general tend to grieve more privately, women often feel more comfortable grieving with the support of others. Men often wear a public face of strength hoping not to show their pain, but in reality, they need just as much care and support after losing someone
Well-Informed Support for Survivors of Trauma Well-Informed Support for Survivors of Trauma Well-Informed Support for Survivors of Trauma \| TAPS Shauna Springer Editor’s note: For more than 10 years, TAPS has comforted and cared for more than 11,500 surviving family members who have lost a military loved one to suicide. Each day, an average of three to four new survivors of suicide loss come to TAPS, and we welcome them with the warm embrace that can only come from those who truly understand their journey. This is the last installment
International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day \| TAPS Carla Stumpf Patton Saturday, November 18, 2023, is International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day (also referred to as ISOSLD or Survivor Day). It is acknowledged as a day of healing throughout the world where all those impacted by suicide loss can connect, honor the lives of their loved ones, and share experiences of support, encouragement, and hope. According to the American Foundation for Suicid
International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day \| TAPS Carla Stumpf Patton Saturday, November 19, 2022, is International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day (also referred to as ISOSLD or Survivor Day). It is a day of healing throughout the world where all those impacted by suicide loss can connect with one another, honor the lives of their loved ones, and share experiences of support, encouragement, and hope. According to the American Foundation for Suici
Memorial Day: A National Debt, A Personal Price Memorial Day: A National Debt, A Personal Price Memorial Day: A National Debt, A Personal Price \| TAPS Emily Munoz Memorial Day was a first step toward national unity in a deeply divided country. With origins in the aftermath of the Civil War, it was designated for the purpose of “strewing with flowers, or otherwise decorating the graves of comrades who died in defense of their country during the late rebellion, and whose bodies now lie in almost every city, village and hamlet church-yard in
The Mourner's Bill of Rights The Mourner's Bill of Rights The Mourner's Bill of Rights Alan Wolfelt As a bereaved person, you have certain rights that others must not take away from you. In fact, it is the very upholding of these rights that makes healing possible. 1. You have the right to experience your own unique grief. No one else will grieve in exactly the same way you do. Don't allow others to tell you what you should or should not be feeling. 2. You have the right to talk about your grief. Talking about your
Finding Joy in the Midst of Despair Finding Joy in the Midst of Despair Finding Joy in the Midst of Despair Darcie Sims The value of humor in grief resolution is sometimes hard to see, especially in the early weeks, months and even years of grief. Yet, without a sense of humor, the world would be a dark, dreary, and unforgiving place. A sense of humor is a valuable tool for coping with grief. Although your sense of humor may appear to have been deleted from your being, if you can allow it to return (even just a little) th
Picking Up the Pieces Picking Up the Pieces Picking Up the Pieces \| TAPS Chris Beck Life after the loss of a loved one can shatter us and bring us to our knees, lost, not knowing what to do next. As the pieces of our lives scatter after a loss, finding a way to put them back together can seem overwhelming. Life’s complexities have many similarities to jigsaw puzzles — you sort and gather pieces, then fit them into your unique picture. I worked 55 years to build my puzzle, adding pieces along the way: my wife,
Dealing with the Media in Wake of Tragedy Dealing with the Media in Wake of Tragedy Dealing with the Media in Wake of Tragedy \| TAPS Ami Neiberger-Miller For many surviving families who have lost a loved one in the military, our interactions with the media are interwoven with our experiences in the days immediately after our loved one dies. We encounter the reporters on our front porch, field phone calls from the Associated Press, and might even scan pictures to share. As a seasoned public relations professional, I am no stranger
More Than a Game More Than a Game More Than a Game \| TAPS Nicole Murray A TAPS surviving child and her TAPS Military Mentor with their take their position at the start of the Washington Nationals Game, TAPS survivors and their Fallen Heroes were honored on field as part of the Nationals Memorial Day Remembrances. (Nationals Staff Photographer) I have never been to a baseball game without thinking of my late grandfather, who raised me after I lost my father at a young age. I like to think he’s watching
Expedition: Aconcagua Aconcagua Expedition Aconcagua Expedition \| TAPS Join us as we climb the highest mountain outside of the Himalayas, Aconcagua. We’ll summit one of the seven summits while we honor our loved ones. Unfortunately we have reached the maximum number of participants for this expedition, and we are no longer accepting applications. However, we invite you to consider joining our Kilimanjaro Expedition or contacting adultprograms@taps.org to learn about other TAPS outdoor programs that may interest yo
Donor Spotlight: Dignity Memorial Donor Spotlight: Dignity Memorial® Donor Spotlight: Dignity Memorial \| TAPS TAPS The personal sacrifices made by members of the armed forces and their families cannot be taken for granted. We deeply appreciate those who have served our country with courage and selflessness, and Dignity Memorial® providers are honored to do our part in turn by caring for our military service members, veterans, and their families. We are a team of dedicated, local funeral service professionals deeply rooted
A Four-Part Plan to Support Survivors of Trauma A Four-Part Plan to Support Survivors of Trauma A Four-Part Plan to Support Survivors of Trauma \| TAPS TAPS For more than 10 years, TAPS has comforted and cared for more than 11,500 surviving family members who have lost a military loved one to suicide. Each day, an average of three to four new survivors of suicide loss in the pain of grief come to us, and we welcome them with the warm embrace that can only come from those who truly understand their journey. Over the years, TAPS has develop
Run and Remember: 50-50 Runner Run and Remember: 50-50 Runner Run and Remember: 50-50 Runner TAPS One man’s mission to support TAPS We live in an amazingly beautiful country, blessed not only by physical beauty, but with a rich cultural diversity. Every state I've run in is a gem of natural splendor, each city a monument to American prosperity, every person a testament to our unique national character. Our country is truly exceptional. And the wisdom I've gained thus far in my travels is that Americans still love their c
Saturday Morning Message: Remembering Our Favorite Vacation Spots Saturday Morning Message: Remembering Our Favorite Vacation Spots Remembering Our Favorite Vacation Spots \| TAPS Saturday Morning Message Carol Lane Good Morning, I had never traveled to Washington, D.C. until my son, Bryon, was stationed there. He invited my husband and I down to see him and gave us a tour. I was fascinated. After Bryon’s passing, I learned that TAPS hosts a seminar in Washington, D.C., each year over Memorial Day Weekend, so I decided to attend. When my plane arrived, I w
Father's Club Father's Club Father's Club Bob Bagosy Four years ago on August 16, 2009 Tommy's friend and hooch mate Cpl. Nick Roush, U.S. Army Special Ops, was killed in action in Afghanistan while serving with a MARSOC Special Operations Team. As I found out later, Nick and Tommy took turns on patrols; he night Nick was killed he had volunteered to take my son's patrol. The vehicle ran over an IED and Nick died. Tommy never mentioned to me what happened, nor did I notice the black bracelet he wore o
7 Ways to Help Grieving Children During the Holidays 7 Ways to Help Grieving Children During the Holidays 7 Ways to Help Grieving Children During the Holidays \| TAPS Heather Stang Grief during the holidays serves up a perfect storm where joyous memories crash against reality and expectations, something that is especially tough when it’s a child who’s grieving. I know this firsthand. On October 18, 1977, my uncle Doug died by suicide. I was 7 years old. While I don’t remember the specifics of the Thanksgiving and Christmas that followed, what I
Saturday Morning Message: Dream Retreats Saturday Morning Message: Dream Retreats Saturday Morning Message: Dream Retreats Carol Lane Good morning, The question this week asked where would you like to go if money were not a problem. I have a love for music, so going somewhere to hear good music and perhaps do a bit of dancing would be a treat for me. This picture came from a TAPS event called the Colorado Celebrity Classic Songwriters Show which happened in 2015. It featured country music, but I like all music and would go anywhere
Saturday Morning Message: Self Care Part Two Saturday Morning Message: Self Care Part Two Saturday Morning Message: Self Care Part Two Carol Lane Good Morning, Helping yourself when you are grieving may not seem like a priority, but this week survivors continued to share strategies that have helped them take care of themselves during these difficult times. There were so many responses to this question that the replies were carried over for two weeks. Read what others have done to help themselves while honoring their loved ones and chos
After Grief: The Process of Healing After Grief: The Process of Healing After Grief: The Process of Healing Howard Winokuer Benjamin Franklin wrote, "only two things in life are certain, death and taxes." Death is something that affects us all. No one is immune. Death is sometimes expected, sometimes unexpected. It happens to parents, grand-parents, friends, relatives, pets, and others. Death often takes away something that is very precious to us and leaves pain and grief in its wake. The pain that is associated with grief can
In Search of Joy In Search of Joy In Search of Joy Darcie Sims Finding Your Way Through the Darkness Do you know how long it took me to allow laughter and joy to return to my life? Do you know how far it is from this side of the page to your side? Do you know how difficult it is to write about death? It was a long journey. It took me thirty years to get from your side of this page to mine...a long time...actually a whole lifetime! I liked my other life. In fact, I loved it! I hadn't intended to be h
Vice President and Dr. Jill Biden Surprise our TAPS Children at Camp Pendleton Camp Out Vice President and Dr. Jill Biden Surprise our TAPS Children at Camp Pendleton Camp Out Vice President and Dr. Jill Biden Surprise our TAPS Children at Camp Pendleton Camp Out TAPS Wow! What a week for our children who attended the TAPS/USO Good Grief Camp Out in Southern California sponsored in part by generous grants from Northrup Grumman! They were greeted to a surprise visit by the Vice President and Dr. Jill Biden. Each child had the opportunity to personally meet the Vice President and
Excerpt from “Healing Your Grieving Heart After a Military Death” Excerpt from “Healing Your Grieving Heart After a Military Death” Healing Your Grieving Heart Excerpt - TAPS Publication Bonnie Carroll Alan Wolfelt Healing Your Grieving Heart Visit the great outdoors For many people, it is restorative and energizing to spend time outside. You may find nature’s timeless beauty healing. The sound of a bird singing or the awesome presence of an old tree can help put things in perspective. Rediscover what it feels like to walk barefoot in the grass or the san
10K for Dad 10K for Dad 10K for Dad \| TAPS Janet Kramer Surviving Daughter Runs with the Marines to Honor Her Dad Sitting at Dad's graveside at Arlington National Cemetery, I took a breath and looked around. I could hear the announcer's voice from the finish line at the Marine Corps Marathon on Sunday, October 29, 2023. I carefully undid the safety pins from my Team TAPS racing shirt and removed my race bib and laminated photo of Dad. I propped both up against the tombstone. Then I took off my 10K
Guilt—What It Is Guilt—What It Is Guilt—What It Is Bob Baugher And What to Do About It After your loved one died, did you find yourself saying things such as: I should’ve, I shouldn’t have, If only, I wish I would’ve, or why didn’t I? If so, you are part of a very large group of humans who have felt guilty following a death. It doesn’t matter whether the death took place thousands of miles away or in your home. It matters less whether your loved one died in an accident, in a war setting, or due to an inter
Team TAPS: Armed Forces Cycling Classic Armed Forces Cycling Classic Armed Forces Cycling Classic \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Armed Forces Cycling Classic. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Rider Donate to the Event 23160 Arlington, Virginia 22202 team taps, honor the fallen Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and awareness f
Team TAPS: Armed Forces Cycling Classic Armed Forces Cycling Classic Armed Forces Cycling Classic \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Armed Forces Cycling Classic. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 23160 Arlington, Virginia 22202 team taps, honor the fallen Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and aware
Team TAPS: Armed Forces Cycling Classic Armed Forces Cycling Classic Armed Forces Cycling Classic \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Armed Forces Cycling Classic. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 51607 Arlington, Virginia 22202 team taps, honor the fallen Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and aware
Team TAPS: Armed Forces Cycling Classic Armed Forces Cycling Classic Armed Forces Cycling Classic \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Armed Forces Cycling Classic. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 23160 Arlington, Virginia 22202 team taps, honor the fallen Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and aware
Team TAPS: Armed Forces Cycling Classic Armed Forces Cycling Classic Armed Forces Cycling Classic \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Armed Forces Cycling Classic. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 23160 Arlington, Virginia 22202 team taps, honor the fallen Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and aware
Team TAPS: Disney Princess Disney Princess Half Marathon Weekend Presented by Children's Miracle Network Hospitals Disney Princess Half Marathon Weekend Presented by Children's Miracle Network Hospitals \| Team TAPS Join us at Walt Disney World® Resort in Orlando, Florida. When you register with Team TAPS, you are joining thousands across the country to remember and honor those who gave their life for their country. 26933 Orlando, Florida 32830 team taps, honor the fallen Disney Princess Half Marathon Weekend Presente
Team TAPS: Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 22871 Virginia Beach, Virginia 23455 team taps, honor the fallen Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend Join
Team TAPS: Armed Forces Cycling Classic Armed Forces Cycling Classic Armed Forces Cycling Classic \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Armed Forces Cycling Classic. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 23160 Arlington, Virginia team taps, honor the fallen Armed Forces Cycling Classic Join the team to raise funds and awareness
Team TAPS: Disney Princess Disney Princess Half Marathon Weekend Presented by Children's Miracle Network Hospitals Team TAPS Disney Princess Half Marathon Weekend Presented by Children's Miracle Network Hospitals Join us at Walt Disney World® Resort in Orlando, FL. When you register with Team TAPS, you are joining thousands across the country to remember and honor those who gave their life for their country. 4013 team taps Disney Princess Half Marathon Weekend Presented by Children's Miracle Network Hospitals Join
Team TAPS: Great Aloha Run Great Aloha Run Great Aloha Run \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Great Aloha Run. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 22595 Honolulu, Hawaii team taps, honor the fallen Great Aloha Run Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS
Team TAPS: Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS). 23411 Arlington, Virginia Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run Team TAPS: Marine Corps Marathon, 10K, and Kids Run Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Marine Corps Marathon October 28, 2018.
Team TAPS: Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend \| Team TAPS Join the team to raise funds and awareness for the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) at the Yuengling Shamrock Marathon Weekend. TAPS provides direct support to families who have been impacted by a death in the military. SUPPORT THIS EVENT Sponsor a Participant Donate to the Event 22871 Virginia Beach, Virginia team taps, honor the fallen Great Aloha Run Join the team to raise funds a
Saturday Morning Message: Changes in Our Lives Saturday Morning Message: Changes in Our Lives Saturday Morning Message: Changes in Our Lives \| TAPS Carol Lane Good morning, This week's question made me really stop and think. With the beginning of March, things in nature are changing here in Vermont. The sap is beginning to run, and those who make maple syrup are beginning to get ready. The sap is starting to go up into the trees to make the flowers so new trees will begin to replace the old. I think it is the same with my thoughts. My o
Saturday Morning Message: Handling the Balance of Life Saturday Morning Message: Handling the Balance of Life Saturday Morning Message: Handling the Balance of Life Carol Lane Good Morning, This week's question about how each of us handle the emotional events of our lives was reflective, so I chose a picture showing a survivor taking time to contemplate. She is sitting by the ocean, but others may like to take a walk in the woods or just find somewhere quiet to think. In the early days of my grief journey, I went to the cemetery to sit on a ben
Family Camp: Ohio Ohio Family Adventure Camp Featuring Family Adventure Racing with G.R.I.T. TAPS Ohio Surviving Military Family Adventure Camp This unique TAPS experience partners with G.R.I.T. Adventures (Generating Resilience Independence and Tenacity) for a special weekend at Camp Ho Mita Koda that will include a Family Adventure Race. Families with children within the suggested age range of 7 to 18 years old will participate in a program that will challenge them mentally and physically, while focusing on
Retreats: Alaska Alaska Siblings Retreat Alaska Siblings Retreat for Military Survivors \| TAPS TAPS Adult Programs warmly invites you to join fellow surviving siblings and siblings-in-law, who are more than six months from their loss, for a retreat in Eagle River, Alaska. OVERVIEW In beautiful Eagle River, Alaska we will gather together to create new friendships, explore the wilderness and work together on a service project that will become a part of our loved ones' legacy at The
Retreats: Alaska Alaska Siblings Retreat Alaska Siblings Retreat for Military Survivors \| TAPS TAPS Adult Programs warmly invites you to join fellow surviving siblings and siblings-in-law, who are more than six months from their loss, for a retreat in Eagle River, Alaska. OVERVIEW In beautiful Eagle River, Alaska we will gather together to create new friendships, explore the wilderness and work together on a service project that will become a part of our loved ones' legacy at The
Saturday Morning Message: Gotcha! Survivors share the pranks their loved ones pulled off Saturday Morning Message: Gotcha! Survivors share the pranks their loved ones pulled off Gotcha! Survivors share the pranks their loved ones pulled off \| TAPS Saturday Morning Message Carol Lane Good morning, This picture comes from Sue, mother of Marcus. It shows the glint in her son’s eyes as he surprised the family wearing a Santa hat. This seemed to be the perfect opening for this week’s Saturday Morning Message with the topic of pranks. At this time of uncertainty, I am glad to share me
Saturday Morning Message: TAPS Seminar Enjoyment Saturday Morning Message: TAPS Seminar Enjoyment Saturday Morning Message: TAPS Seminar Enjoyment Carol Lane Good Morning, Going to a TAPS Seminar for the first time can be stressful, especially if you are attending alone. I remember the first time I flew into the Reagan National Airport in Washington, D.C., for the TAPS National Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp held each May. I wasn’t sure what I would find, but when I entered the hotel, there were TAPS staff members waiting to
Retreats: Austin Austin Parents Retreat TAPS Military Surviving Parents Retreat in Austin, Texas Health Guidelines: TAPS will make every effort to ensure safe and healthy gatherings. We will continue to monitor COVID variants and may require testing onsite and/or other protocols based on local regulations and CDC guidance. At this time, we do not require proof of full vaccination and masks are optional, however due to the intimate nature of this experience and staying consistent with the safety policy of our
Retreats: Montana Montana Romantic Partners Retreat Montana Romantic Partners Retreat \| TAPS Health Guidelines: TAPS will make every effort to ensure safe and healthy gatherings. We will continue to monitor COVID variants and may require testing onsite and/or other protocols based on local regulations and CDC guidance. At this time, we do not require proof of full vaccination and masks are optional. Should we have to make any changes you will be notified right away. TAPS Adult Programs warmly invites you t
Retreats: Montana Montana Parents Retreat Montana Parents Retreat \| TAPS Health Guidelines: TAPS will make every effort to ensure safe and healthy gatherings. We will continue to monitor COVID variants and may require testing onsite and/or other protocols based on local regulations and CDC guidance. At this time, we do not require proof of full vaccination and masks are optional. Should we have to make any changes you will be notified right away. TAPS Adult Programs warmly invites you to join with other pa
The Outhouse at Minus 23 Degrees Fahrenheit The Outhouse at Minus 23 Degrees Fahrenheit The Outhouse at Minus 23 Degrees Fahrenheit \| TAPS Benjamin Wolfe Editor's Note: As the mercury rises and signs of rebirth and regrowth sprout up from the same ground that was cold and dormant just days ago, we turn our faces toward the sunshine and prepare for the warmth ahead of us. TAPS Advisory Board Member Benjamin Wolfe reminds us in the words that follow that there is no wrong time or place to reflect on our past experiences and prepare our h
Seminar: Mountain Mountain Regional Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp Mountain Regional Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp \| TAPS Looking to connect day of event? EVENT APP (ZOOM) ACCESS Health Guidelines for the Seminar: In accordance with the most current information available, as of May 1, 2022, TAPS is lifting the requirement to provide proof of full vaccination to attend in-person events. We will continue to monitor COVID variants and we may adjust protocols to ensure safe and hea
Seminar: Southeast Southeast Regional Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp Southeast Regional Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp \| TAPS Looking to connect day of event? EVENT APP (ZOOM) ACCESS Important Update: Due to increased COVID-19 cases and hospitalizations in the Jacksonville area, TAPS is scaling back its activities for the Southeast Regional Seminar and Good Grief Camp. Since many of the children who attend Good Grief Camp are under the age for vaccinations, we are closing that po