Living a Legacy of Kindness

Each day since losing my brother, Sgt Steven Araiza of the United States Marine Corps, on March 13, 2023, I have made it my mission to create an everlasting legacy of his life. I strive to honor him by embodying the same kindness he showed to everyone he met, whether they were lifelong friends or strangers.

Steven was a remarkable human being. He had a beautiful soul, and wherever he went, sunshine followed. I want to carry that same light, to be that energy for others as “his” energy. From a young age, he was disciplined and driven. He grew into an intelligent, assertive, confident, and responsible young man, full of life and love for his family. Music was his passion, and his smile — radiant and unforgettable — could light up any room.

I want my smile to reflect his: his character, his dedication, his hard work. I want it to be an extension of his light, shining for others in their moments of darkness.

This path of honoring him is transforming me in ways I never could have imagined. Through my grief, my soul has found purpose: to help others — those struggling with loss, mental health challenges, or the hardships faced by our military and their surviving families. By spreading the same positivity Steven gave so freely, I will continue to honor him while growing into the person I am meant to be. His light has not faded because he is gone; it has only grown stronger within me, ready to be shared with those who need it most.

I also believe good people should be remembered, recognized, and immortalized. Their names should be spoken, their legacies preserved for future generations. Steven’s legacy must live on — not just in memory, but through action. It should stand for healing, prevention, and the preservation of life.

Every day, we are given choices. We can choose to be good human beings. To be kind, compassionate, and empathetic. Sometimes, all it takes is a kind word, a hug, or a smile to change someone’s day or even their entire outlook on life.

This legacy of kindness is for my brother. It is for all our fallen heroes, who risked and sacrificed their lives for the country and the families they loved. It is for every grieving military family. 

Your light still shines. Your legacy lives on.

Photos: TAPS Archives; Wendy Araiza-Villalpando