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Hill  
A few months ago a friend asked me what I missed the most about my husband. It was an interesting question and while I had a very quick answer for her..  More»
Rozier  
While I will never stop telling people about my brother I have made a conscious effort this year to not let that steer my conversations with people. I..  More»

Jeff and Rachel  
On July 28, 2012, it will be two years since I sent my husband to work for the last time. Two years since I last hugged and kissed him good-bye. Two y..  More»
Rozier  
I personally believe the 5 stages of grief is a load of hooey. You don’t pass through them and move to the next in a perfect order until you reach the..  More»

Fort Lewis  
In this edition of the Saturday Morning Message, Carol shares responses from survivors on how they individually honor their fallen hero.  Read, share,..  More»
Alice  
When I least expected it, that beastly, nightmarish animal called anger blindsided me.  July 4th, the trip to the cemetery wit  the requisite flowers ..  More»

Marcum  
Happy birthday to you! Happy birthday to you! Happy birthday, dear brother! Happy Bir… Oh wait. Am I supposed to be celebrating your birthday? Do the ..  More»
Father's Day  
This week's Saturday morning message shares what father's day was like for many survivors. It also includes the question to be discussed next Saturday..  More»

Arms Extended Out  
This magazine may well be in your hands because someone you love has died. I am so very sorry for your loss. You have been “torn apart” and have some very unique needs.  More»
Anxious Woman  
I first began to think about going crazy shortly after our son died. It seemed innocent enough in the beginning.  More»

Sharon Strouse - Art Photo 2  

Artful Grief
By Sharon Strouse

When I conduct workshops and stand in front of grieving military families, I stand not only as an Art Therapist, but as a mother who...  More»
Man with Head in his Hands  
What Every Man Should Know About Losing a Loved One  More»

2012 National  
This weekend sends us another day to ponder as Sunday is Fathers’ Day. For some of you reading this message today, you are missing your child to whom ..  More»
Jon Rozier - Receiving the Bronze Star for Valor from General Petraues  
The 16th and 19th of next month will mark the 34th birthday and the 9th anniversary of my brother's death. It's a strange thought that he's now been g..  More»

Shannette Booker  
Military widow Shanette Booker talks about how friends and family try to help, but sometimes don't understand how survivors feel about the death of th..  More»
Rozier Family  
While our family contracted in size 8 ½ years ago, it continued to grow after that…and growth is a sign of life...  More»

Carol Lane  
The Saturday message started out as a weekly letter between a few friends that met at the TAPS National seminar over a Memorial Day many years ago. Th..  More»
Alice Daniel  
On July 14, 1976, I was blessed with my first born, William Austin Daniel.  This was the beginning of the purest, most unconditional love I would ever..  More»

American Flag  
I am Michele.  And I am a survivor.  My story mirrors that of every other TAPS survivor. Someone I love died, and I'm writing my way through the grief..  More»
Notepads and Pencils  

Expressing Your Grief
By Stephanie Frogge

Going public—sharing one's letters, poems, or other written thoughts—is an intensely personal and potentially risky experience. But not all writing ha..  More»

Exercise Bike  
I was riding my new exercise bike this morning, making good on a new year’s resolution...  More»
Stress  
A misconception is a mistaken notion you might have about something—in other words...  More»

Winter Bridge Scene  

Winter Wallowing
By Darcie D. Sims

Though winter seems to have more than its share of less than wondrous days, occasionally we have an especially down day.  ..  More»
Beard Family receiving folded flag at Arlington Cemetary  

A Different Path
By Randy Beard

Why is it that human beings, when faced with the unknowable, develop expectations of how it is going to be?   More»

Luggage  
I travel a lot and spend so much time in airports that I no longer want to collect frequent-flyer miles...  More»
Red Rose  

Traumatic Grief
By Jill Harrington LaMorie

Imagine driving down the street and crossing an intersection. You glance quickly left and right, but out of nowhere you are hit...  More»

Sadness  

Anniversary Blues
By Betsy Beard

The date is engraved on my heart. The awful day he died. Every year that date comes around again on the calendar, and for lack of anything better...  More»
2008 Fort Campbell Good Grief Camp  

Traumatic Grief in Military Children
By the National Child Traumatic Stress Network

To read the complete article, visit www.NCTSN.org and click on Military Children & Families.  More»

Star Light, Star Bright Poem  

Star Light, Star Bright
By Darcie D. Sims

Did you ever wish upon a star? Did you ever stand outside, on a summer night...  More»
Fear, Guilt, Regret, Anger, Loneliness  
When facing separation, loss, or death, we are invariably thrown into a turmoil of mixed and intense emotions. Some of these feelings may seem foreign..  More»

Sunset - Summer  

What Does 'Recover' Mean?
By Darcie D. Sims

It’s hot and already I am beginning to pray for the return of winter. The days of summer have grown old and tired...   More»
Footprints in the sand  
The death of someone loved changes our lives forever. And the movement from "before" to "after" is almost always...  More»

Puzzle Pieces  

After the Holidays
By Darcie D. Sims

Why does January seem so empty? Just as the world is stiff and frozen outside my window, I feel dead and cold and scattered inside myself. I managed t..  More»
Book Cover - Healing After Loss  

Healing After Loss
Reviewed by Betsy Beard

We all know that our grief doesn’t evaporate after a few days and weeks. This book was my constant and faithful companion...  More»

Shovel  

Fixing a Hole
By Tom Golden

All of these feelings found their way into this hole. The act of digging became an avenue for the various thoughts and feelings to arise.  More»
Gloria and Heidi Horsley  
“Scott is dead!” These are the dreaded words that no parent or sibling should ever have to hear...  More»

Pink Flower Petal  
In the last issue, I introduced the concept of traumatic grief and its natural overlap with the condition...  More»
Pink Petal  
Someone you love has died a sudden, traumatic death. If you are in...  More»

Looking Up  

In Search of Joy
By Darcie D. Sims

Do you know how long it took me to allow laughter and joy to return to my life? Do you know how far it is from this side of the page...  More»
Weathered Tree  
The holidays have arrived. Normally they are a time for family fun...  More»

Empty Chair  

The Empty Chair
By Darcie D. Sims

There’s an empty chair in our house and I am not sure what to do with it. It’s been empty a long time and although we’ve moved more than a few times...  More»
Leaf Changing Colors  

A Change of Season
By By Darcie D. Sims

It’s harvest time, clean up time, gathering time. It’s time to put away the beach balls and the lawn mower.  More»

Wildflowers  
It’s summer and the air is warm upon my face. The sunlight dances across the grass, casting tiny shadows...  More»
Man on Steps with head in his hands  

The Myth of the Stages of Dying, Death and Grief
By Russell Friedman and John W. James

Myth of the Stages of Dying, Death and Grief article is found on the Grief Recovery website.  More»

Butterfly  

STOP, LOOK, LISTEN
By Darcie D. Sims

When was the last time you did nothing? Do you ever just sit anymore? Do you ever just lie on your back in new mown grass...  More»
Snowflake  

Snowflakes
By Darcie D. Sims

Have you ever stood outside with your head tilted back and your mouth open wide trying to catch a snowflake?  More»

SEction 60, rifle team for Heath Warner's funeral  
My family has always loved Christmas, and it is a wonderful time of year...  More»
Women Standing on Beach  
The searing pain of loss envelops us completely in the days and weeks and months following the death of our beloved...  More»

Looking Up in the Midst  
The value of humor in grief resolution is sometimes hard to see, especially in the early...  More»
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